Can people satisfy themselves Satisfy others, satisfy themselves

No, people work hard all day long to satisfy themselves, when you get what you want, this thing is not enough to satisfy your desires! Then you go to find another thing and thing that can satisfy you, which is an endless pursuit! It's like a dog can never catch up with its own tail!

No, you have to love (including: family love, friendship love, love, etc.).

It's hard to be satisfied, because human desires are infinite.

OK. As long as you have happiness, you are not satisfied with everything!

People are never satisfied!

Because to live is to always pursue.

It should be that people cannot satisfy themselves, and people's desires are great.

Recently, I have been reading Bai Yansong's "White Talk", and there will always be some small feelings that need to be recorded.

When it comes to volunteering in this book, as mentioned above, when others talk about why they want to be a volunteer, I believe most of us will say: "Help people in difficult situations and improve ourselves", of course, this answer is not wrong with the Orange Brigade, but it may be from the perspective of others, and strive to make others better.

The same thing can also be talked about from the perspective of the self, choosing Sun Stool as a volunteer, first of all, it is active, since it is active, it means that he has this need at the spiritual level, and if the demand is not met, he will naturally take corresponding methods, so it is not so much to satisfy others, but to satisfy Wu Ran himself.

In the Tao Te Ching, it is said that "if you want to take something, you will give it", which means that when you want something from someone, you have to give him this kind of thing. This is in line with the meaning of volunteer action above.

The more I read, the more I found that when we encounter something, we can consider the problem from different angles, from a psychological point of view, from a sociological point of view, from a philosophical point of view, we can explain this phenomenon, while explaining the phenomenon, it is also to make the reasons for the change of events more sufficient, more credible, and to meet the needs of others at the same time, but also to satisfy ourselves and improve ourselves.

People are born with desires, and the best way to deal with them is to satisfy them, especially for yourself. When longings are satisfied, we feel comfortable and happy. When satisfaction is scarce, we take it, and getting satisfaction from others is not long-lasting.

We are often very lacking in love, recognition, respect, etc. We have to accept this state and accept our unfulfilled feelings.

We have to decide what to do to take care of ourselves. If we want satisfaction from others, we often ask for it in the form of punishment, anger, and cold war. But this often falls short of the goal.

We can't torture ourselves with denial, self-blame, guilt, resentment, anger, we have to be kind to ourselves.

The correct way to deal with it is to communicate without emotion, find out the problem, and solve the symptom. Re-develop one's own values of love and behavior through nurturing children's growth. Economic freedom and independence, personality perfection and independence.

We can accept our imperfections and unsatisfactory ourselves, recognize ourselves, give ourselves affirmation, praise, appreciation, recognize ourselves as unique, recognize our excellent qualities, recognize ourselves as worthy of love, respect, etc.

Our attitude towards our children often affects our children's lives, and there are no small things in front of our children. Our attitudes towards others are ultimately reflected on ourselves as well.

Just as knowledge and rules need to be learned, love, respect, recognition, self-confidence, etc. also need to be learned.

1.Relax your mind.

Everything is faced in a relatively relaxed state. When you feel that you have something to do, you feel that you are testing yourself, no matter how big or small the thing is.

2.Everything is more open, know how to enjoy life, in their often words, happy is a day of congratulations, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy?

3.A contented mindset.

Whether it's for life or anything else, as long as you feel that you are still living in this world, enjoying the food and good things in this world, or having people around you to share with, you feel happy and satisfied.

Personality traits that are easily satisfied.

Optimism. I look at everything with an optimistic and positive attitude, and feel that there will be a solution to everything, but it is just a matter of time. Be content with having everything now, be optimistic about life, and believe that tomorrow will be better.

5.Open-minded. For some things, we do not pursue the so-called merit and fame, but only pursue the pleasure of the thing itself.

People who are simply happy and easily satisfied often have a particularly kind heart. Many times, we ourselves will say that after the wind and frost, we still have to maintain the original intention. In fact, it is saying that after experiencing some things, you must know how to be satisfied and know how to be open-minded.

As long as people are satisfied, they will feel happy in their hearts, but there are good and bad people who are too easily satisfied, so sometimes it is better not to be too easily satisfied. I hope that after experiencing the world, there will be people who understand how to cherish and satisfy themselves and how to make themselves content.

Everyone has been in trouble at some point or another. In life, in the face of a difficult situation, how can we get out of the predicament? Learn to stop complaining, face suffering with a smile, and try to change yourself.

Everyone has tasted the unknown sadness and experienced the suffering that no one understands. Even now, there are many people who are in a difficult time and do not see any hope for the future.

Whenever this happens, some people have a habit of complaining.

Chattering and complaining is like a hindrance in front of you, which will only numb you more, make it more difficult to see your weaknesses, and fail to learn the strengths of others.

When a person encounters unsatisfactory conditions, he will only complain, and that will only make his situation worse and worse.

If you can change the angle, maybe there will be a different harvest. Learn to complain as a starting point for change, so that you can achieve your life goals faster. If you are always complaining, thinking negatively, or always feeling unhappy, your life will become more gloomy; If you work hard with a positive and cheerful mood, your life will improve.

Mindset can determine whether your life is going in a good or bad direction.

Complaining has no meaning other than making your life harder, and when you learn to stop just complaining, change your mentality, and approach life positively and optimistically, you are really on the right track to success.

Smart people know how to spend their time and energy complaining trying to make a difference.

Stop complaining, stop complaining in your daily life, and let anyone get out of trouble and into success.

Yes, contentment! Three meals a day, no illness or pain, peace and health are content.

This morning, I chatted in the group, and I felt the joy and satisfaction of sparks from the collision of ideas.

More than 400 people in the "grass brother" in the scholarly goddess life group asked us"Entangled little girl "Lele, why do you want to satisfy others?"

This question also made me think. I have been thinking about Lu Li for a long time, and the result is that most of our purpose of satisfying others is to satisfy ourselves.

To put it another way, when we satisfy others without getting a corresponding response, we have nothing to complain about.

Brother Cao said as follows, "Satisfying others is only a form, that is, the satisfaction of the object relation. Then back to good intimacy is about mutual satisfaction. "

I still have to study and understand this sentence.

Life should be an insatiable process!

But we need to always remember that "everything is in moderation, and it is too much".

As for how to grasp this degree, that is a profound philosophy of life.

My understanding is that the level of human satisfaction needs to be adjusted in a timely manner.

People not only need to keep moving forward in reality, but also need to face and recognize reality in the process of moving forward.

That is, not enough when it is proud, so as not to breed pride.

Be content when you're frustrated, in order to rebuild your faith.

Move forward in the face of adversity, and don't hold back.

Be content in good times and avoid insatiable greed!

After you tried your best, but still didn't get it. Or when you're not satisfied. I think you're satisfied. Because I have worked hard and fought for it. Knowing that he's not your thing. Then, this is the time to learn to be satisfied.

Human desires are endless, and no one will satisfy them, or it can be said that some people can be satisfied, but they cannot be satisfied! If people have no desire, they will stagnate like life without hope! So if you want to learn to be content, you don't need so much truth!

Satisfaction is a state of mind, if "it" bothers you, it is meaningless, satisfaction is very simple, and avoidance, shirk nothing, put yourself right and don't need to be entangled, too much entanglement, there will be no answer, and you can't find the answer.