How do you reject him? How do I refuse?

First of all, be resolute. Rejection is inevitably a disservice, but it should not be used to discourage you. Since it is the person who is in love with you, he is very sensitive to your words and deeds.

If your attitude of refusing love is not resolute enough, it is easy to cause misunderstanding of the other party, especially if the other party is in a situation where you love you deeply, and the thinking you use out of politeness or consideration will make the other party feel that you also love him (her), at least let him (her) feel that there is hope, and in the end it often brings greater harm than refusing love.

Second, do your best to maintain the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party. Specifically, you may wish to first praise the other person's character and talents, and then explain why you can't accept the courtship. The reasons to be said should be reasonable, and it is best to put forward favorable aspects from the other party's point of view, so that the other party feels that the rejection is also for his (her) good; If you need to explain it to others, you may want to attribute the negative cause to yourself.

Ask a boy to pick you up and tell him to stop hitting you, your boyfriend will be angry. The more direct the better, don't be afraid of hurting his self-esteem. Because your tactfulness will bring him more pain.

This is a responsible approach. I've had enough of this. I once liked a girl, I told her that I didn't like it, I just wanted an answer, but she never told me, and then she had a boyfriend, I woke up, for the sake of others, please tell him directly that you don't love him.

If you really don't like him, you can tell him that you are with your boyfriend and tell him to stop posting it, otherwise your boyfriend will misunderstand you. In this way, he shouldn't send it again, otherwise he just likes to harass people, so he can only change his mobile phone number.

Be tactful, reply to him two text messages and you won't die.

But you can act like you don't care about him very much, if he is a smart person, you should be able to see it, and naturally I won't send it to you again in the future.

Since your company has business dealings with him, it's best not to stiffen the relationship.

There is no way. This is a common occurrence. They even have your address. The difficulty of getting rid of him lies in what kind of person he is. If you think he won't come to the door, just put him in the thick of the matter.

You girls are like that....You can only rely on yourself....Don't want to have the courage to say it directly.

If he calls you, you say, "I'm sorry I'm with my boyfriend, then I'm going to pull 1."

Be decisive, since you don't like him, don't give him fantasies.

Maybe he just wants to be friends with you. Don't overthink it.

First of all, we must take a firm stand and draw a clear line. Explain to him that he has a boyfriend. Second, if the other person is very nice, you can introduce him to a girlfriend.

But don't get too involved and ask other colleagues to help. Third, if he is still entangled, he must be tougher. If you can avoid it, you can avoid it.

It's good to refuse to say it directly, there's nothing shy, don't force what you don't like, and there is no good result if you do it.

In fact, every girl has or is going to go through a period when she is struggling with the question of "does he love me?" It's normal, and I don't want to help it. I hope you will experience and feel the various states of life, but I also hope that you will not feel the deformation and indifference of love in this era.

When I was awake, I was tired of tears. I'm drunk, and I'm even more afraid of your heartbreak.

Love is an eternal topic for human beings, but the story you have recently told me is a blind dedication in exchange for his memory or touch. In my opinion, he is convincing himself that "he loves me, likes me, and misses me", and he is exculpating him for "not loving me enough".

Modern people feel very lonely because of the lack of fresh social interaction due to life or work. So when I met a person of the opposite sex or the same sex who looked at me a little more or took more care of myself, I added countless scenes to myself. At this time, let's think about the occasion when you meet this kind of gaze.

I remember a friend saying that the occasion you frequented was the kind of occasion where you met someone you wanted to spend your life with? I think so, although all kinds of social software in various places and places have shortened the distance between people, but what kind of mentality did you try at that time, then the other party is likely to be too. I'm a celibate, and I'm no longer social.

But you are different, and I want you all to have a fulfilling life.

I especially hope that you will pay attention to the unique characteristics of that person, such as personality, quality, pattern, concept or talent, etc., that can be easily replaced by spending money, and only move yourself to the point of incomparable self-perception of details.

I've also given an aura to an alien for the first time in my life. Then I went to find the details to prove that he loved me. Go and tell a friend that I love him in every detail.

As the old saying goes, "the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear". So when I reached this age, looking back, I also felt that I had been completely lonely and stupid.

In life, you often meet the opposite sex who loves yourself and pursues yourself, but you don't like him, and you don't want to hurt his feelings for you, so how can you skillfully break his feelings? Actually, I wish I could say this to you, but I can't lie to anyone anyway.

It may seem a bit cruel to start with this sentence, and in fact, as soon as you say it, the other person should immediately understand the true intention of what you are expressing. But there's nothing wrong with this, it's much easier to make a clear position at the beginning than to go around in circles with vague words, the feelings in reality are different from literary romance films, the simpler it is, the easier it is. 、Relaxed and comfortable when I'm with you, but we just don't call each other。

It's really rare to meet a friend of the opposite sex who can make you completely put your mind down and get along naturally, but if you are embarrassed to say no because of this, there is no doubt that it is a mistake! If you are a person who values love and friendship very much, then you must not be sloppy at critical moments, and you must leave the relationship clear, which will also be good for the future direction of your friendship.

The best way may be to send a circle of friends directly, you can send a photo of yourself and your boyfriend or something, you can usually chat with colleagues or something, you can also pretend to mention your boyfriend unintentionally, not only the boy, but also with other colleagues, so that everyone knows that it is not appropriate to find a chance to match you, such as applying a lipstick with a good color number, if a sister asks, say that it is a new gift from her boyfriend, and so on, in short, for such a boy not to let him know that he has a boyfriend, I am afraid it is not easy to deal with.

There is nothing to avoid this kind of problem, just say that you have a boyfriend, and just ask your boyfriend to come over and have a meal together to solve it.

Don't make it so complicated, now everyone thinks you don't have a boyfriend, that's why they match you.

Everyone knows that you have a boyfriend, so it's natural to be very interesting.

The more you hide it, the more people think you're just embarrassed, and everyone ends up embarrassed.

So there's no need to cover it up at this time, just pull a boyfriend for dinner.

Let your boyfriend pick you up and drop you off work, let him see that if it doesn't work once, he will refuse anything, and then refuse him outright. I think it's better to be direct than how to refuse.,Although it will hurt, it's the most effective and minimized.,If the girl clearly says that she doesn't like it, she still insists on acting in her own way.,In fact, it's called stalking.。 But you have to make it clear first, the average person won't do too much useless action when they hear rejection.

How do you refuse, you can tell him bluntly that you have a boyfriend, or the circle of friends will be open to whom, it can be a pose, if not, I can help you p, hehe. Send a little ** the kind of person who makes people know that there is an object when they see it.

Promise him to go to dinner together in the evening, but you can first say that you will bring a friend with you, and if it is okay, bring your boyfriend over, and when you introduce him, make it clear that this is my boyfriend. That way, your colleague should understand.

After reading your description, you can tell him directly, you have a boyfriend, he wants to invite you to dinner, you don't have to go, if you want to eat, you can send a message to your boyfriend and say, send me a red envelope, I'll go have some food.

Tell him the truth, you have a boyfriend, but the female colleague didn't know about it and misunderstood. They are all colleagues and will understand, so that they don't hurt each other's feelings.

Resolutely refuse, but with tactful wording.

Ask directly, why did you order so much afternoon tea, if you want to chase you like this, you say if you have any misunderstanding, you have a boyfriend, if not, you inadvertently reveal that you have a boyfriend.

If this kind of thing drags on, it won't do you or the other party any better. Say hello early, send a message directly to say that you want to go out with your boyfriend, and don't participate in their dinner party, so as not to be embarrassed.

Oops, it doesn't have to be that complicated. Wouldn't it be nice for you to ask him to have dinner and bring your colleague and your boyfriend, and it's direct, but you don't need to explain, it's not too direct.

I don't think in this case you should be afraid of anything self-inflicted, just say it directly. If this affects the relationship between you and your boyfriend, and makes people mistakenly think that you are stepping on two boats, the gains outweigh the losses.

Hit the nail on the head, directly say that you have a boyfriend, don't like him, and are not interested in him, and ask him not to do these boring things.

I already have a boyfriend, you don't want to pester me anymore, I don't want to affect the relationship between me and my boyfriend.

The next time he asks you out, you can just tell her that I'm sorry that I'm going to accompany my boyfriend tomorrow, which can refuse him and let him know that you have a boyfriend.

You can tell him that you have a boyfriend, and there is a misunderstanding in the middle.

If there is something that needs to be refused, it is just a direct and decisive refusal.

Tell him directly, or reject him outright, don't hold it, and he'll keep pestering you.

You just say that you can't go and you want to go on a date with your boyfriend!

I'm sorry about this problem with eating, but my lover's parents asked us to go to their place for dinner tomorrow, saying that there is something important to tell us. ”

Sorry I can't go to this dinner. ”

When you say this, you will let the other person understand that you are about to have a family of your own.

Ask your boyfriend to pick you up from work, and when he sees it, he knows that "man" and leaves.