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The remains of the elderly can be burned to send the memory of their relatives to the deceased, or they can be kept for future generations. Here's how to deal with it:
1. I want to keep it and give future generations a memory
The statue can be wrapped in plastic cloth to prevent moisture, then wrapped in black cloth to prevent discoloration, and finally wrapped in red cloth for peace of mind. Write the name of the deceased, the date of birth and the date of the next life on the back of the portrait, then wrap it in cloth, and then wrap it in red cloth and put it in the corner of the cabinet so that it does not get wet. It is an indispensable gift for future generations, and it will be placed out during the Spring Festival or the Hades Festival.
2. Hang it on the wall and teach future generations a copyFilial piety
Sometimes, because I miss my deceased relatives too much, I will give special treatment to the posthumous portrait and hang it in my living room or on my desk with a good-looking and professional photo frame; That's the best way to remember the departed. It is also to show the younger generations what filial piety is.
The treatment of rural remains is exquisite
After the death of the elderly, the treatment of the portrait is very particular, can not be placed randomly, which is not only a kind of respect for the elderly, but also a manifestation of filial piety. However, it is best not to hang the portrait of the old man after his death in the living room, but it can be placed in the bedroom, or set up a special place in a room to worship, and it can be placed for a year or three years.
Then it is necessary to put away the posthumous statue, and it is not appropriate to place the posthumous image and hang it in the living room, that is because the old man is gone, even if it is the closest person, but we still have to continue to live as a living. Placing or hanging the portrait of the elderly in the living room will have a dark mood on the psychology of the family, and if there are friends and guests visiting, it will also have an impact on the psychology of others.
Because people who are alive often see it, and in this way, it is inevitable that they will see things and think about people, and thus associate some things in the past, so that their mood will be affected. Therefore, the farmer thinks that it is better to put away the old man's posthumous photo, and then take it out when there is a need, and remember it, maybe the customs in some places are different.
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The remains of the deceased cannot be kept at home, should they be disposed of in the temple? Venerable Haitao taught: There is nothing that cannot be kept at home.
If you put it at home, you are grateful, and if you worship your ancestors, you will worship that photo, and it means that you can't make offerings, and you don't say that you can't put it at home. It's just that if this person dies and you will be obsessed with it, and you will keep crying when you see him, then you don't want to look at it yet, for example: Dad can't stand it when he sees his dead daughter, so don't do it first, right?
It's good if you don't get attached, but it's not that you don't look at the photos of the deceased, then he (the deceased) doesn't cry to death, and when he dies, he throws me away. Article**: Excerpt from Master Haitao's "Jiangsu Wuxi Hengshan Temple Buddhist Explanation" **Provide:
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The old man's posthumous photo fell in the ancient township with 2o years of ashes, but the portrait has not been processed, please ask an expert to lift the point, how to deal with it.
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It is usually placed in the Buddha hall, and if there is no Buddha hall, it is placed in the living room, study or the old man's original room, and some are placed in the attic.
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1. The portrait of the elderly within a year can be placed in the living room, and can be put away after a year, not in the bedroom, but in the living room or dining room, preferably facing the door, and there must be a table, candles and incense below.
Generally, the portrait is buried, if there is no burial, in fact, there is no need to hang the portrait at home, if you miss it you can put some life**.
For the portrait of the elderly, it is necessary to be respectful, not littered, and hang the portrait in the room, which will be detrimental to the health of people with weak yang qi in the family.
You can't face the bedroom door, and you can hang the living room for a year after the old man dies.
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If you want to stay and make a memory, then frame it and protect it with a frame. If you feel that there will be a psychological shadow if you keep it, then you can burn it when you are doing a funeral.
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How to deal with the portrait of the old man after his death, each region has its own way, the remains are used as items to commemorate the elderly, in the Spring Festival and some days, it is necessary to place, and to carry out sacrifices, in the past there are some special painters, in those years when there is no **, or the old man did not leave ** during his lifetime, all rely on these painters to paint the old man's face one by one, some have not even seen the old man, all based on the description of the family, but also can paint the portrait vividly, Later, photographs became popular, and the use of portraits is now very rare.
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The portrait of the elderly can usually be placed in a room that is not frequented or burned.
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The portrait of the old man is usually wrapped in black cloth and pressed under the box.
It is usually put down after hanging at home for a month.
Because people can't be resurrected after death, they have to live their own lives in the next life, and the prosperous days are still to come.
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How are the portraits of the elderly generally handled? Sometimes one item of the elderly is often placed in the old man's house, or one item of the old man is put away and preserved.
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Stay, put it on the counter as a souvenir,
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Generally, it is not recommended to hang it at home, but to find a place to put it away and treasure it.
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Keep it or cremate it, and you can do it yourself.
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The old people in the family are generally put away after that. If you have been hanging at home, if you have been hanging at home, it is not good, if you have been hanging at home, it is not good. I usually look very depressed.
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Summary. Hello dear, here is my answer to you: the treatment of the portrait of the elderly, under normal circumstances, after the funeral of the elderly, the portrait will be removed.
At this time, it involves the question of how to deal with the posthumous image. The treatment of the old man's portrait is nothing more than two. One is to preserve, and the other is to destroy.
The destruction of the remains of the elderly is a unique method of disposal in some places. If cremation is used, they will cremate the image of the elderly with the body, or bury the image with the ashes; In the case of burial, they put the portrait of the old man in the coffin and bury it together. In any way, that is, the remains of the elderly are not preserved in these places.
How are the portraits of the elderly generally handled?
Hello dear, here is my answer to you: the treatment of the portrait of the elderly, under normal circumstances, after the funeral of the elderly, the portrait will be removed. At this time, it involves the question of how to deal with the posthumous image.
The treatment of the old man's portrait is nothing more than two. One is to preserve, and the other is to destroy. The destruction of the remains of the elderly is a unique method of disposal in some places.
If cremation is used, they will cremate the image of the elderly with the body, or bury the image with the ashes; In the case of burial, they put the portrait of the old man in the coffin and bury it together. In any way, that is, the remains of the elderly are not preserved in these places.
If you want to preserve, a suitable place to place the portrait of the elderly1Hang or place it in the room where the elderly lived before their death. This is a common practice in many places.
Especially if there are many rooms in the home, the room where the elderly lived before their death will be empty for a period of time, and the portrait of the old man can be hung on the wall of the room or placed on the desk in the room. 2.Offered at a shrine in the home.
If there is a shrine tablet in the home, the image of the old man can be enshrined on the tablet. Most of this is the case in rural areas, and urban households have little to no sign of shrine tablets. 3.
The portrait of the old man can also be placed in the room of their eldest son. That's the way we're doing it here. If the eldest son is not there, it can be placed in the eldest grandson's room.
If they don't have any, they can also be placed in the room of their nearest relatives. 4.It can be placed in the family ancestral hall.
Nowadays, there are many places where a unified family ancestral hall is built, and there is usually a tablet for the deceased old people in the ancestral hall. According to the rules of the family ancestral hall, it is enough to place the portrait of the old man in a suitable position, so that not only the relatives in the family can worship, but the whole clan can worship.
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Generally speaking, the remains of the elderly should not be burned for the following reasons: 1. Burning the remains of jujube spine wounds may lead to damage to the paintings and decorations on the portraits and affect the integrity; 2. The portrait of the old man means that a relative in the family has been forgotten, and burning the portrait of the old man seems to be more deliberately abandoned; 3. The statue has a certain historical significance, and it is possible to bury the rock and hide the culture and history of the family and the local ancient Pi infiltrate, and burning the remains of the old man will erase the history at the same time; 4. The portrait of the old man means respect for the family bloodline, and the remembrance of the old man in the ceremony is also a part of history, and burning the portrait of the old man may hurt the feelings of the family and society; 5. After all, the portrait of the old man is a cultural relic, which is managed by the cultural relics storage department, and should not be destroyed privately.
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Summary. There are two main types of deceased relatives**, one is a specially made portrait, and the other is the life left behind during his lifetime**. Generally speaking, for the sake of family affection, there will be sad difficulties in dealing with these two **, and it will be more entangled because of the depth of the feelings.
Let's talk about the portrait first, most of the portraits of the deceased relatives are carefully selected, specially made, and the one that can best represent the image of the deceased**, usually a little larger, and sometimes made more delicate, to show nostalgia and respect.
What should I do with the portrait of the elderly after his death and how to deal with it?
There are two main types of deceased relatives**, one is a specially made portrait, and the other is the life left behind during his lifetime**. Generally speaking, for the sake of family affection, there will be sad difficulties in dealing with these two **, and it will be more entangled because of the depth of the feelings. Let's talk about the portrait first, most of the portraits of the deceased relatives are carefully selected, specially made, and the one that can best represent the image of the deceased**, usually a little larger, and sometimes made more delicate, to show nostalgia and respect.
For the posthumous image, we can choose the treatment method according to the specific family situation of our family. If there is a position for the posthumous image on the tombstone, it should be better to embed the posthumous image directly on the tombstone of the cemetery. Because in this way, every time you go to the grave to sweep the grave and worship, you can see or see the remains of your deceased relatives, so as to express your grief and heartfelt feelings, which is more convenient for worship.
Of course, it is also possible to put the portrait in the urn of the deceased loved one and bury it together. If you do not plan or cannot leave an image on the tombstone, you can place the image in an appropriate place in your home so that you can worship it at any time.
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