How to be a good gentleman? How to become a gentleman?

Junzi culture is an important part of traditional Chinese culture

A gentleman is a person who harbors human aspirations, moral ideals, and cultural feelings. A gentleman is different from a sage or a sage, and a gentleman is a broad road that the general public can access.

For thousands of years, the gentleman has become one of the ideal personalities that Chinese have been pursuing, and is an expression symbol rich in Chinese cultural symbolism.

Implications. Humans are animals that, in order to distinguish themselves from other animals, call themselves humans. In order to distinguish himself from other human beings, he called himself a gentleman, and other human beings were villains.

From this, we can see the difference between a gentleman and a villain. According to the idea of human equality, all people are equal, ignoring some external environmental factors and internal genetic factors, and there are many common types of all people.

In the end, it is possible for all people to stand on the same level and in the same realm. But the dragon gave birth to nine sons, each of them is different, not to mention hundreds of millions of humans, in reality, only a few people have gone to the path of gentlemen, and the rest of the others roam or wander in the countless forks of the path of villains.

1.Must be of good moral character. If you have good moral character, you will of course be a good person. If you have good moral character, you will be easily accepted and trusted.

2.Must have a humble and studious spirit. Be humble to people, not exaggerated, not pretentious. Study seriously, be good at self-study, and be good at learning from others.

3.It is necessary to be innovative. Learn more new knowledge, learn more about new things, study more new things, and study more new methods. In practice, be more innovative.

4.In the work, we must work hard and do our work well with a strong sense of responsibility. When you work, you have to work hard and take responsibility for your work to the end.

Be sincere, friendly, not deceitful, and helpful.

Original text: Zi said: "The gentleman is not compared with the week, and the villain is not compared with the week".

Pioneering interpretation. 周, is the universal biàn meaning, than, is the meaning of partiality.

A gentleman respects the universal law of biàn, and respectful means treating people equally.

Villain, partial. Decide who is good and bad for you based on your personal likes and dislikes. and without respecting objective laws.

For example, a gentleman leader will not dislike a subordinate because he is capable and does not reuse.

And a small person leader, because he likes a person, this person should not have been placed in this important position, and he also reuses it.

A gentleman is a person who does things according to the rules, and does what he should do. I will never favor others just because they are close to me.

I don't like this person, and I won't give him the opportunity that should have been given to this person.

That's the villain.

Gentlemen are treated equally.

A villain is a person who forms a gang and colludes for the sake of interests, for his own interests, and can reverse black and white.

A gentleman helps a person without expecting anything in return.

I just think it's reasonable for me to help you. If there is a reward, it is well deserved, there is no return, neither joy nor sorrow.

When a villain helps a person, you have to think in your mind, what good is it for me to help you?

I have done you a great favor, and if you don't repay me, I will resent you and even trouble you.

A gentleman will not cling to the power for the sake of profit, clinging to the powerful, and reversing black and white.

As for the villain, for the sake of profit, he will pat himself on the back, tend to be inflammatory, cling to the powerful, and reverse black and white.

In the short term, villains often have the upper hand in life.

But in the long run, there are still gentlemen in the world, and there are still many gentlemen in the highest position.

Don't think that being a gentleman can't be done.

You have been a gentleman for a long time, everyone knows that you are a gentleman, and it is more reassuring to cooperate with you, and the friends you have made are also gentlemen.

Gentleman-type person, reliable.

A villain-type person, no one dares to have a deep friendship. It's not good, when will you betray yourself.