Why I can t overcome myself How to get rid of her

Really, that woman is too much like me, I'm the same as her, my object keeps playing legends and throws me away, I go online to find him, he never says he'll say hello, or he will be angry with me, so I rarely annoy him, and then I talk to another man, because I really don't know what to do, we just chat, but really we talk very interesting, I always feel that time flies so fast, and then I found that I seem to like that guy a little, I said to him I like him, he doesn't accept me, he said I have a partner, I think it's also not so annoying, in fact, I think you know why I like you, because you can bring me happiness that he can't bring me, so I like him to follow the feeling, and then my object is good with other women, in fact, at that time we both have the meaning of liking each other, but I have an object, I didn't think that my object is good with someone, now it's okay, don't worry about anything, I'm good with that man, I'm very happy He is very good to me, I know what you think, if you think she's a good woman, Then don't give up, because I think she is the same as I think, and being happy with you brings her happiness, if that man is very good to her, I don't think she can talk to you, right, I think that man is because he is not good at it, so let the woman give up on him, like you, I think you can be good, just like me...

Feelings are this thing.

I don't know how to explain it.

Hehe, maybe all of us have to worry about this at some point.

It should be that everyone will have a youthful impulse in the days when they grow up.

So we should shift our attention.

Or find a different woman to love.

Feelings don't last forever.

It's just a matter of time, and I'm sure I'll forget it.

So don't get upset.

Let time heal the wounds of the soul.

Also, there will always be hydrogen in life.

Maybe if you think about it too much, maybe she'll really like you.

Keep a good attitude and live well.

It's in your own heart, there are many ways to reject her, and if you don't want to, no way can stop you.

Online virtual, it's better to find someone who is really worthy of love, and gradually you will forget her, even if you can't forget her, it will fade.

You're just his suitor.

It's her pride for her, but it's your pain.

Hurry up and give up on her.

She's going to hurt you.

She doesn't want to make progress with you at all.

Or treat yourself as a passer-by, so that you will be better, or give her up and live your own life, loneliness is not terrible, what is terrible is that you can't control yourself.

If she really sees you as a replacement, then you should give up!Feelings are real feelings that come from the heart, and when you break them, you can't stop and suffer from them!

I think she really seems to use you as a stand-in, if he really likes you why he doesn't break up with his boyfriend, stay with you, persuade you to be free, go to QQ, MSN, Skype to meet some new friends, you can forget about him!

Simple, you go out and walk around, and you'll see a lot more women than her, and you remember, you're who you are, not a substitute for anyone

You also use her as a substitute, you look down on that kind of woman the most, something forgets you, and you are her sparring partner if you have nothing to do.

It's sad to be someone else's substitute, so leave her.

It doesn't matter, as long as Jing Qiaojian works hard with his heart. I'm also in my third year of high school. It's going to be a tough year, but I'm not going to put too much pressure on myself.

Although pressure is the driving force, the trauma in the heart of this bright coincidence will be sad for a long time, so I want to open some of them. Don't think about it so much.

Personal opinion Since you went to high school, you have chosen to endure hardships, and you have chosen to climb the mountain, unless you are a mixed diploma, so in the third year of high school, what you think about every day should be studying, and you shouldn't think about anything else, everything should be placed after graduation, because this is the most critical year for the beginning of life.

Experience is a friend that accumulates slowly....

Tell yourself not to be sorry for yourself, to be kind to yourself, and to make yourself happy is the most important thing.

So that you can let go of the shackles.

A person's childhood will certainly have an impact on a person's growth, but don't let yourself think that the influence will never be able to get rid of it. I don't know what your childhood was like, but if you think that your childhood was very dark, then you are wrong, because there are many people who have dark childhoods in this world, and if you can't face them all, then you will lose a lot of talents.

But if you can still say that you have a childhood, I guess you will say that I don't know what childhood is.

Keep everyone simple, keep your mind open, and remember to be kind to yourself.

Make a close friend who can talk about what is in your heart, and then make some friends who can eat, drink and have fun together, and when you have a wide range of contacts, you will slowly get used to it.

If you want to change yourself, others can't give you a clear way, because you can only rely on yourself.

Be confident, I don't think it's useful, but that's what everyone else says. Be yourself.

Trying to forget the bad memories of childhood.

What kind of childhood did you have?

Reading obsessive-compulsive books makes you more compulsive.

Hello friends!

At present, there is no clear conclusion on the ** of obsessive-compulsive disorder, and it is more certain that social, physiological and psychological are the three main triggers. For example, the behaviors that you encounter repeatedly checked and looked at repeatedly will improve when people are stressed and anxious, and will improve after adjusting and relieving stress.

Occasionally, there are some manifestations that are repeatedly checked and confirmed, but it does not mean that it is obsessive-compulsive, so you should not rush to define yourself as obsessive-compulsive. You can try to adjust from two aspects, one is to record the behavior of repeated inspection under what circumstances, grasp its rules, and gradually reduce the number of repetitions; Second, when you are "very painful and anxious, afraid that things are not done well, you are not doing perfectly, and you have a feeling of discomfort", do not immediately avoid or try to eliminate these feelings, first wait quietly with your emotions, do not do repeated examinations, continue to do what you should do, when you gradually shift your attention to the important things at hand, your anxiety and discomfort will gradually dissipate over time.

It is recommended that you read the self-help books "Out of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder - Find Beautiful Days" and "Brain Lock", which will help you better understand your own situation. It is also recommended that you learn and apply mindfulness** to adjust your cognition and behavior as early as possible to avoid falling into the cycle of obsessive-compulsive disorder.

If the situation does not improve after your efforts or seriously affects your life and work, it is recommended to seek help from a professional institution as soon as possible to get out of obsessive-compulsive disorder scientifically.

Hope it helps, good luck!

You're a Type 1 personality, the perfect type, the quintessential perfectionist, and you hate to have flaws.

It can't be eliminated, it's external interference, so you can't eliminate it.

It is usually caused by a pursuit of perfection, fear of mistakes, and a cautious and cautious personality.

The big grinning character is not not.

If it is determined that OCD is a disorder, it can be solved with the help of a psychologist.

It's useless to know the reason... The important thing is that it has already happened, maybe you are too perfectionist. You just care too much, just let it be, don't worry, don't reject and disgust your behavior, when the time comes, when you force it, tell yourself that it's boring, see if it works.

In the case of OCD, you can self-regulate yourself.

Obsessive-compulsive disorder is a kind of obsessive-compulsive disorder, the kind that you will die if you don't do it.

Hello, what you said is similar to my situation, are you better now? I was like this when I was studying, and then my grades dropped and I dropped out of school, and I didn't show up for 7 or 8 years, but recently it happened again, and the more I was afraid, the more I was inattentive, especially reading books or giving speeches.

Life is like a fierce boxing match. If you are confident and can overcome your weaknesses, you will be able to defeat your opponents. The same is true for exams, of course.

I still remember that exam. As the last class came to an end, the Chinese teacher showed his "Hedong lion roar" voice and said loudly: "Tomorrow's Chinese exam."

After saying that, he left. Then there was a cacophony of noise, and I left the noisy place with confidence, ready to go home and study for tomorrow's exam. In the morning, the teacher handed out the thick test papers one by one.

As soon as I saw the question, I started doing it. But I couldn't even finish the first major question by dictation. At this time, a sentence that the teacher often said flashed in my mind: "Easy first, then difficult."

So I started to do the next questions, and after about 1 hour, I finally finished the next questions, and I was ecstatic. When I checked the test paper, the ancient poetry was still blank. What to do?

There are 5 minutes to go before the end of class, I am restless, this is the students in the back seem to see my thoughts, so they give me "assistance" (pass the answer), but the teacher turned left next to me and did not leave, it seems to have seen my thoughts, the attack failed. After 1 minute, the teacher left, and I was pleasantly surprised and ready to fight. Thanks to our tacit cooperation, we finally succeeded.

Just as I was about to start reading the answers, the teacher glanced at me, and his eyes seemed to tell me to be honest and not to deceive. At this time, my mother's figure appeared in front of me, she accompanied me to do my homework every night, no matter how tired she was, she insisted every day, and my mother taught me to be honest in life and work. Besides, the "Code of Daily Conduct for Middle School Students" also asks us to be honest, and we are still familiar with it when school starts.

Finally I was able to figure out what I should do at this point. Throwing the answer on the ground, "jingle bell", after class, I handed in the paper satisfied, and walked out of the classroom, my heart suddenly opened up and was frank. This time though I was defeated in honor, my soul was lifted up and purified because it defeated something I could never defeat - vanity.

In the end, I succeeded in my challenge.

It could be shy, or it could be. He doesn't like you, and your own feelings are the most important.

Maybe she's a little unused to it.

Not used to it. It would be better many times.

Because you are a delicate person. You always think a lot. When you're playing, you're afraid you'll be delayed, so you'll feel annoyed.

In fact, you don't have to think about it, you can do whatever you have to do. Sooner or later, you have to face the troubles, and now you just want to put pressure on yourself in advance. Since there is a chance to be happy, why not go and catch him!

Life is about being able to do what you are happy after you have eaten a full meal, and don't care about the eyes of others. You can do whatever you want, just be happy.

You know, why study? Why should you be under pressure from your family or teachers? In fact, it is to realize the desire to eat well first, and it is also a premise, so that you can do what you want to do Come on.

Believe in self-level and give yourself a happy life!

What does it matter, what is the meaning of how I live?

This is you, do you hate yourself? Isn't it, even if you will be troubled and entangled, you probably still like yourself, right?

Accept yourself.

This is my personal experience, when I am worried, when I am worried, I think about what I should do, how I am going to do it, how to do it best.

When you are sad and entangled, you can simply leave it alone, and occasionally let yourself indulge and degenerate.

=。= Uh. Just think about it.

Maybe you can cancel it out...

And the more you suppress something, the more likely it will be、Of course pain and sorrow when you are happy, happy when you are happy.。 Eh, this is just like that time to be sad and happy at that time, just change it or these two things, how can you live your life, just barely live like this.

Everyone is sad.

It's so painful and happy.

Don't dare to resist the pressure to make the right choice and make do, generally speaking, the road of life is getting worse and worse. Living with such grievances, people are not happy with the status quo, and it is even more difficult to be satisfied with themselves. Maybe you've been hurt by someone when you're having a baby, ...... youSo that if you are in this situation, I believe that you will be able to overcome his courage!

Think about the probability that what you're worried about will happen! That way you can be happy every day!

I wish you a happy life soon!

As we grow older, those carefree lives will gradually move away from us and be replaced by real lives. Everyone will have more or less problems, solve problems when they encounter them, don't always think, take effective action, if you can't do anything, put them aside, prepare for the worst, and accept the reality.

As for the fact that happiness is followed by sorrow, it is inevitable that our brain will be tired after the excitement, and then it will produce negative emotions and react naturally.

Don't always think about your pain, find something to do for yourself, it will be much better.

May you be happy every day!