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First of all, find out what your brother's interests are, and buy some small gifts for your brother and stepdad before going on vacation, not only will they think you are mature and sensible when they meet, but it will also be easier to get closer to your brother. Then do what they like, and in the next process of getting along, you can discuss some topics of interest together, talk like a man, and share each other's secrets. Because your main purpose is to go on vacation, not to serve a prison sentence.
Be relaxed and just go with the flow.
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He may not be really "precocious", but he doesn't know how to get along with you.
Because the age difference is not big, even if the growth environment is different, in fact, boys of the same age are still easy to get along with, the key is that it takes time to run in, if it is a foreign boy, you can behave more straightforwardly, what ideas can be said directly, but try to be tolerant and understand him, and slowly you can find a common hobby to be very harmonious.
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I am 16 years old, my brother is 2 years older than me, because my brother and my mother, stepfather are abroad, and I am in the mainland, the two of us are very estranged, 2 years ago, we met for the first time, my brother let me very much, very sensible, but we also had one or two quarrels between us, I was not very sensible at that time, and I am going to go abroad for a vacation this year, how should I get along with my brother, I am really troubled now、、、 I really wish my brother and I could get along like brothers. Everyone, please think of a way.
ps。。I'm a boy.
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Be sure to open your heart and watch more TV series and ** with similar themes.
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Treat it like a brother.
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<>1. Walk around often. If people's feelings do not get along, they are easy to fade slowly, so even if brothers and sisters have their own families, they must often move around to contact their feelings, so as not to be alienated.
2. Filial piety to parents, parents are the link between brothers and sisters, everyone is filial to their parents, the family is happy, and the relationship between brothers and sisters will be better and more harmonious.
3. Contribute more to the whole family, not necessarily how much to contribute, those who have money can contribute, those who are powerful can contribute, everyone is united, and the family will be harmonious.
4. Help each other when encountering difficulties. Everyone can encounter difficulties, and as brothers and sisters, when someone encounters difficulties, they must lend a helping hand in time, so that the big family can make people feel warm.
5. Don't get involved in the family conflicts of brothers and sisters, they all say that it is difficult for officials to decide family affairs, and as brothers and sisters, don't casually participate in the conflicts of other families, that will only make things more complicated.
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There is not much difference between half-brothers and half-brothers, after all, you are born to a mother, you are related by blood, there is no big problem getting along, as long as you don't think about it, everything is no different from brothers of the same father and mother. Take the initiative to have a good relationship with your brother, after all, there is a blood relationship, and I believe that it won't be long before you like him. Learn to accept him from the heart, find a reason to accept him, and a reason to like him, and you can get along very happily.
If you don't like it in the first place, then find a reason to like him.
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It can be big or small, dispensable, and more or less affecting.
People with this situation should first pay attention to the stepparent.
It is only from this that the condensation of this relationship can really begin.
The attitude of the stepfather (mother) will also affect the relationship.
Develop. The second is to be tolerant of each other, you see each other as half-brother and sister.
relationship, the other party treats you the same, and gets along with each other with heart for heart.
Third, leave enough space for the other party and don't restrain the other party too much.
Fourth, it is necessary to help each other economically.
Only in this way can we get along with each other like brothers and sisters.
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Half-sibling indicates that there is a common father, and of course they are relatives in terms of blood relationship, including in law, they are all recognized as relatives, of course, the complexity of interpersonal relationships is not legally or blood relationship can be clarified.
As my personal point of view, whether it is a half-father, a half-mother, or even a child brought by the stepparents of a restructured family, it becomes a family because of the union of the parents. No matter what you think about your stepparents, it's a tangle of feelings from the previous generation and shouldn't be carried over to the next generation. As for ourselves, we can choose to be good to our brothers and sisters who are not the same mother, or to live in peace, and never have bad thoughts, after all, the affairs of our parents are not our own choice.
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Cousins have never been ranked like this. Because they don't have the same surname, in the traditional concept, different clans are two families! Because of the close blood relationship between the cousins, they move relatively frequently.
However, after "table on table", there are basically two families in the countryside, which is the so-called "one table and three thousand miles". However, from a purely biological point of view, "table on table" is just a pair of maternal great-grandfathers, and how different is it from cousins who share a pair of paternal great-grandfathers? But that's what the ancients said!
In ancient times, you could marry your cousin or cousin, but you couldn't marry your cousin or marry your cousin ......But why aren't they allowed now? Just because there is no essential difference between the two in a purely biological sense! The only difference is the sociological relationship.
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If you want to get along well with your half-brothers, you have to eat together often, you must learn to respect each other, and treat them as brothers, so that if you think about each other everywhere, the other party will also think about you everywhere, so that in the end, they will become really good, brothers, and they will get along well.
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You must know that the divorce of husband and wife is not only a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families, especially for the growth of children, which plays an irreparable role.
After all, whether children follow their father or their mother, the family affection they get and feel in the future is different. So the question is, do you think that half-siblings and half-siblings, in terms of blood, are equally close to each other.
Sister Wang and her husband gave birth to a son and a daughter after getting married, and the two divorced due to emotional problems, each with a child, at that time Sister Wang had a daughter who had just turned 8 years old, and her ex-husband had a 14-year-old son.
After that, Sister Wang took her daughter to marry her current husband who was divorced and had a daughter, and the two gave birth to a son after 3 years of marriage. Now that both daughters are in college and the youngest son is in elementary school, the restructured family is living very happily. And it is gratifying that the 3 children are really like biological brothers and sisters, they get along very well, especially for the little brother, and they are often taken out to play, which is particularly enviable.
And Sister Wang's ex-husband also remarried after the divorce, and gave birth to a son less than a year after marriage. Although the couple said that they would treat their sons equally, because of the large age gap between the two sons, the eldest son was very tired of his younger brother crying all day long, so he always liked to bully his younger brother when his parents were away, so family conflicts were frequent and the relationship between relatives was very tense.
In fact, from Sister Wang's case analysis, half-siblings are obviously closer than half-siblings, which is mainly due to the mother's regulating role in the middle. Of course, this is only a small probability event, after all, from a biological point of view, half-children and half-children are equally related, because they both get half of their parents' genetic material.
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Get along well, he is your brother, don't get along well, he is your "younger brother", keep your basic bottom line, be kind at the beginning, don't be fierce and vicious as soon as you come up, persuade if you can, coax if you can, and complain less, but you must stop making big mistakes, it is best to follow him, grab his little handle, let him maintain the identity of a younger brother when facing you, and ensure that the initiative is yours in some things.
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It is still necessary to unite with half-siblings, because after all, we should all understand and respect each other under the same roof in order to get along better.
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Get along with a sincere heart, with a kind, careless, and tolerant heart.
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Actually, this one is very simple. In the future, colleagues and friends get along very well, why don't you say that your blood brothers get along very well? Anything just needs to be open-minded. Don't worry about anything. You can get along well with your half-brother.
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We must be positive, have a good relationship, and unite our brothers and sisters.
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Compatible with the same benefits. Half-sibling. Brothers get along, and this half-brother is also regarded as a brother, so it is necessary to make this one more friend than one more than one more enemy.
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People get along with each other mutually, cherish and respect each other, so that they can live in harmony. Happy life.
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Be honest and sincere, and for the happiness of your mother, you should also pay something.
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With the right mentality, don't reject him, try to get along and can't pull him down.
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It depends on your personality and you get along with him.
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Half-sister, I'm 16 years older than her. She was born when I was a sophomore in high school. It feels so cute, I have one more relative in this world.
When my sister grows up, she will ask, brother, why do you call your father dad and your mother aunt? Difficult to answer and trying to escape the question. I feel like my brother and my father at the same time, which stimulates the soft place in my heart, and I want to give her the best things within my ability.
Sister, you are the angel who has fallen into the mortal world.
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I'm 16, my parents divorced in 14, my dad got married again this year (I don't want to), the family wants them to have another child, and now they're sure they'll have a baby. What kind of attitude should I use towards this child in the future? It feels very strange and awkward about the relationship.
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My dad didn't find an aunt after divorcing my mom. My mom still had a little love for my dad at that time, and she tore it up once. The aunt was born poor, but she has an easy-going personality but is unwilling to be left behind.
However, my dad was an extremely unassertive and mindless person. He will only dote on my brother but will not educate him, but he has great hopes for Jackie Chan. Of course, he didn't include me at the time, but had a bit of an expectation in the opposite direction, Mo Xiao.
The first time I saw my brother, I was hateful. Because he robbed me of everything that was rightfully mine. He was two years old, but he would cry and fist at my dad just because it didn't suit him.
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I have a half-sister whose mother died of illness, and my father worked as a contractor on a construction site and pulled my sister alone until she was six years old before remarrying my mother. My mom gave birth to my sister when she was nine years old. When I was in the fourth grade, I knew that my sister and I were not the same mother, I have always liked my sister, the first thing I did when I got home from childhood to freshman year was to find my sister, my sister would take me to play games, my sister would buy me snacks, my sister would carry me to the back mountain to see rape flowers, the word sister has always been full of tenderness and love for me.
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I spend almost my free time playing with my sister, carefully coaxing this cute-looking sister, using the pocket money I saved for a week to buy candy for my sister, and even putting up with my sister tearing up my homework book in the name of playing games, and being beaten and scolded by my father for my sister carrying various black pots, etc. However, the end result is still his own stupid wishful thinking.
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I still remember when I was a child, I was ignorant, and my parents asked, "Is it okay to give you a little brother or little sister again?" I also said resolutely, "Don't!" If you live, I'll throw him out!" ”
And now, my father told me that he had a child with his stepmother, and he asked me to accept that child. Life is a capital helplessness.
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In life, when you are faced with half-siblings, you first allow yourself to accept them in your heart and in your life. And get to know them, and then think about how to get along with them. And then in the process of getting along, you can get by facing them with an equal mentality.
If you play well, you can slowly become good friends. If you have a common topic and the other person hates you and doesn't accept you, you just have to be yourself, but then you have to defend him and her. For example, if you are bullied by others or humiliated by others, you need to stand up and protect him, because you are a family, although you are of different blood.
Strive to make your home more harmonious and happy, and cherish your existence with each other. That's what you need to do.
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Summary. Hello dear, of course you can also try to get along well and allow yourself to accept them in your heart and in your life. And get to know them, and then think about how to get along with them.
And then in the process of getting along, you can get by facing them with an equal mentality. If you can, you can slowly become good friends. If you really don't have a common topic and the other person hates you, you just need to be yourself.
Hello, dear, you can also try to get along well with each other, so that you can accept them in your heart and in your life. And get to know them, and then go to the town to think about how to get along with them. And then in the process of getting along, you can get by facing them with an equal mentality.
If you can, you can slowly become good friends. If you really don't have a common topic and the other person hates you, you just need to be late and coarse yourself.
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