Why do I feel better than others, but I can t find a match? 19 of the year

Feel? Your pride makes women dislike it... Generally people who are better than others never say it.

Turnip and cabbage, each with its own love.

Many people are introverted, have low self-esteem, have no courage, always feel their own defects, or they are weaker than others in all aspects, and then the cowardice psychology that arises leads to not daring to take the initiative to pursue the opposite sex. We can see that many young men and women of appropriate age, their work and life circle is relatively small, they are three points and one line, work, dormitory, canteen, day and night, back and forth in just a few places, when this environment is less of the opposite sex, or there is no object of their own favorite, the probability is even smaller, you can say, they are not out of the circle to fight, but based on this environment, you will find it difficult to fight.

It is when you are young, the person who fights for the career procrastinates the things of the object, and year after year, when the only age capital is lost, your value, or your acceptance, will be greatly reduced. Decide what you want. No one is perfect and exists exactly as you imagine it to be.

So, prioritize and see what is essential and what can be without. I look for it according to your must-have point and can quicken the pace. No matter what age you are in love, you must have something attractive.

What you attract him, he attracts you there. I believe that everyone has this sparkle of love, and everyone deserves to be loved. I hope that it will be more difficult to control your "dark spot" to play a perfect object for this shining attraction and try to maintain this relationship.

looks good, and your personality is quite good, which just shows that your overall quality is relatively good, is it just because some young people of the opposite sex are not favored by you, do you have to change your own personality? Apparently not. A person must be qualitative, adhere to the original correct personality, and do not have to follow the crowd.

As long as you give full play to your advantages and don't despise yourself, please believe that it won't be long before the opposite sex who appreciates your conditions and class matches will appear by your side, and the beautiful mountain of love can't stop it.

It may be because your social circle is too narrow and you haven't met the right person, or it may be because you are too demanding, and you have to see the good in others when looking for a partner, or it may be because you don't know how to sell yourself, and others can't see the shining points in you.

It is likely that it is because of your own high vision, or it may be because you have a big temper when you get along with others, or you don't take the initiative to contact others.

It may be that you don't know yourself very well, and you have very high requirements for others, so it is difficult to find a match.

Feeling good does not mean that the opposite sex will like it, and many times the advantages of thinking that you are good may not be attractive to the opposite sex.

The conditions are obviously very good, but the primary reason why you can't find a partner is that the conditions are too harsh, and you always look for a love partner according to your ideals, so there is often no suitable one.

1. Failed to recognize oneself in an all-round way, so ambitious.

Her second boyfriend is a wealthy and successful social elite person, and his appearance is also **, the only drawback is that he is attentive and loves to play. My best friend was 29 years old at the time. always thought that he could make his prodigal son turn back, and plunged into it, and finally found that people were just coveting her appearance, and after a long time, they withdrew.

So she was sad every day.

Like people in this social class, the young and beautiful girls around them grab a lot of them, and there is no shortage of you, but most of them can enter the marriage that is the right person, and the family background of getting up early to block the code cannot be too different. No matter how bad it is, they will find a younger and more beautiful one, not an older one.

2. Blindly pursue high materiality.

There are also people who chase her around, and there are people who introduce her to her, she always feels that her conditions are good, she doesn't know what she wants, she doesn't want to have a house or a car, she doesn't want to have a local hukou, her mate selection criteria are that they can meet all her material needs.

Her monthly salary is less than 10,000 yuan, but she will buy tens of thousands of bags for herself, buy herself thousands of cosmetics every now and then, and consume them in advance if she has no money. These things have made many men who want to step forward retreat, not to say that this is a balance or a mistake, but always do what you can. So she asks the other party to meet her material needs and improve her quality of life.

Although material things are the basis of marriage, they are not the whole of marriage. Men who can meet your material needs, the girlfriend they want to find is not a girl who only values material things. They want you to love his people, not his money, but what you let them see is that you have a crush on his money.

Whether the conditions are good or not. It depends on who you compare yourself to. At the same time, it also depends on whether the other party thinks the same way. Therefore, it is imperative to understand yourself correctly.

I don't feel anxious about being single because I'm older. Although some people may feel anxious about it, it still depends on the individual. In my opinion, age itself does not lead to making us single, but we choose to be single.

Of course, as you get older, there is a certain amount of pressure, including outside eyes, expectations from friends or family, and even some fear. But I don't think these pressures should be an inner anxiety. As long as we know that we have our own independent lives and choose our own lifestyle according to our own circumstances, then we will not feel anxious.

Sometimes, there is some anxiety because of the fear of not finding the right partner or losing a friend. However, there are actions we can take in such situations to reduce anxiety, for example, participating in social activities that can give us the opportunity to make new friends, or participating in some interest classes to enrich our lives. At the same time, we can also give up the idea of pursuing an ideal partner, relax appropriately, and respect our own feelings, instead of forcing ourselves to do something they don't like.

In short, being single doesn't make you anxious about getting older. As long as we know that we have our own independence in our lives, and believe in our ability to find a partner that suits us, and take effective measures to reduce anxiety, we can live a happy and fulfilling single life.

As the saying goes, men should get married, and women should get married, and for the vast majority of people, when they reach a certain age, they will find a partner, fall in love, and get married. ......But there will also be some people who have very good conditions of their own, but they don't fall in love. The practices of these people are puzzling to many.

The reason why this situation occurs is that some people can't find a partner because they are very demanding because of their own good conditions, some people like to be single and don't want to fall in love at all, and good or bad personal conditions are not the decisive factors in falling in love.

1. Some people have very good conditions, so they have very high requirements for finding a partner, and as a result, they can't find a partner.

According to most people's understanding, good personal conditions should be conducive to falling in love. But for some people, it affects their ability to find a partner. ......The reason why this situation occurs is because these people have high requirements for their love partners because their conditions are very good, and the result is that there are too few qualified people, and they can't find a suitable partner, so they have been unable to fall in love.

2. Some people like the state of single life and don't want to fall in love at all.

For others, although their own conditions are ideal, they very much like to live in a single state. ......As a result, these people don't want to fall in love at all, they just want to live a single life that they like. ......Although these people have good personal conditions, they still won't fall in love.

3. Good or bad personal conditions are not the decisive factor in falling in love.

Fundamentally, whether or not a person falls in love is related to personal conditions, but this is not the decisive factor. It's not that people with good personal conditions will definitely fall in love, and it's not that people with poor personal conditions can't fall in love. ......In fact, there are many people who have good personal conditions but do not fall in love, and there are many cases where people with poor personal conditions successfully fall in love.

The fundamental reason for this is not how the individual is digging, but whether he is willing to fall in love, and whether he can fall in love in the right way. This is the key to whether a person falls in love or not, and whether he can successfully fall in love.