Man is always the subject of contradictions, and man is a contradiction

In fact, feeling tired, physically and mentally exhausted, because your inner burden has been loaded, experienced too many ups and downs, mental overdraft, just stop and rest, deep relief, bravely let go, calm down, close your eyes and recuperate, a scene of meditation, cultivate your mind, release your mood, adjust your mentality, get rid of troubles, reduce some inner pressure, let go of the burden you bear, change a simple way of life, let yourself have space to relax, and seek some happiness, It's better to feel better, so why bother yourself, otherwise you'll only experience a lonely long journey and scars all over your body. Many good things often become eternal after the vicissitudes of life in the soul. Life can cleanse a person's soul, time can cover all traces, a person can stop thinking about life, and for memory can subconsciously choose to forget life.

If you are injured, let yourself hide in the corner and use time to heal slowly, return to nature to heal the wounds of the soul, and wait for the wounds to heal. When you are tired, please put your heart on the shore; If you're wrong, please don't regret it; Only when you are bitter do you know how to be satisfied; When you are hurt, you understand that you are strong; When you are drunk, you know that it is unforgettable; Laugh and experience happiness; When you're bored, talk to a friend.

True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is the ...... to have everythingPlease cherish the time, love well True love is a kind of care and care from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

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People, whether it is more good or evil, no one can tell, everyone has a soft place in their hearts, but also a hard place, kind, everywhere exudes the smell of love, evil is ruthless, the air is filled with the smell of suffocation, people are a contradiction, sometimes kind, sometimes demonic, sometimes, good and evil in an instant, the change is so fast that even they don't have time to react.

There is a sinister human heart, there is darkness and shouting, there is an indifferent side, there is also a kind, enthusiastic, enlightened side, I am afraid that those who use the appearance of kindness, enthusiasm, and enlightenment to cover themselves, disguise themselves, do sinister, black judgment, indifferent things, human nature is a product of the environment, will change with the change of the social environment, stay in a good environment, don't run to a bad environment, people have a selfish side, have a greedy side, don't rely too much on others, some benefits need benefits to exchange, Some of the pay is a trap in front of them, and there are no people who don't want to reciprocate, and there are not many, and ordinary people can't meet them.

It is a compulsory course to maintain the innocence of the ambition of the sedan chair, but also to be vigilant against being used by others and protect yourself.

Summary. Everyone has to interact and get along with others, and many contradictions will occur unconsciously, and the root of the contradictions mainly comes from five aspects: First, the grasp of one's own role is not enough.

Everyone has a certain role or set of roles in the social arena, for example, children, spouses, parents, leaders, middle and lower levels, friends, collaborators, passers-by, servants and servants, etc. If you don't do a good job according to the requirements of the role, you will have conflicts with the characters you interact with. For example, if the deputy acts in place of the first leader, can the first leader accept it?

Can a husband accept a wife's disobedience to her husband and children? People should always analyze the connotation of the role they have assumed, and reflect on whether they have played it properly. The second is the difference between personal labels and personal actual understanding.

Everyone has a label on their head in the minds of others, and this label may not be very clear to themselves, some people are not self-aware, and some people are not understood by others, these two situations exist in the interaction between people, and they will lead to contradictions. For example, you think you are an expert, others think you are an unrealistic alternative, others will not respect you at all, and you will also resent others. At a banquet, if you tell everyone that someone is the supreme leader (which is not), everyone will listen to his nonsense, and to you (no one knows.

Everyone has to interact and get along with others, and many contradictions will occur unconsciously, and the root of the contradictions mainly comes from five aspects: First, the grasp of one's own role is not enough. Everyone has a certain role or set of roles in the social arena, for example, children, spouses, parents, leaders, middle and lower levels, friends, collaborators, passers-by, servants and servants, etc.

If you don't do a good job according to the requirements of the role, you will have a conflict with the characters who interact with each other. For example, if the deputy acts in place of the first leader, can the first leader accept it? Can a husband accept a wife's disobedience to her husband and children?

People should always analyze the connotation of the role they have assumed, and reflect on whether they have played it properly. The second is the difference between personal labels and personal actual understanding. Everyone has a label on their head in the minds of others, and this label may not be very clear to themselves, some people are not self-aware, and some people are not understanding by others, these two situations exist in the interaction between people, and they will lead to contradictions.

For example, you think you are an expert, others think you are an unrealistic alternative, others will not respect you at all, and you will also resent others. At a banquet, if you tell everyone that someone is the supreme leader (which is not), everyone will listen to his nonsense, and to you (no one knows.

It is also possible to explain the change of history and feudal dynasties because their individual contradictions have not been resolved and the conflicts are too great. This is also in line with the basic structural unit of our country's resolution of the contradictions among the people, that is, the contradictions caused by the selfish desires of individuals. Even Western countries are consciously or unconsciously resolving this basic contradiction, which is an instinctive behavior of human beings, which has existed since the beginning of mankind and has developed in a way that is beneficial to mankind.

When I was young, I wanted to grow up.

When I grew up, I missed the innocence of my childhood.

When I was young, I lived in the countryside and wanted to go to the city.

Now I live in the city and miss the life in the countryside.

When I live in a bungalow, I envy the view of the building.

When I lived in a building, I missed the air when I lived in a bungalow.

When I work from 9 to 5, I crave time freedom and want to start my own business.

When I was running around to start a business, I missed the 9-to-5 life of having time to spend with my family.

When you don't have money, you envy what rich people can buy, and when you have money, you miss the desire when you have no money.

When you don't have a car, you envy the uninhibited people who have a car.

When I have a car, I miss the ease of not having a car.

When you don't have a TV, you crave the colors on TV.

When I have a TV, I miss playing games together as a child.

When you don't have a mobile phone, you crave the convenience of having a mobile phone.

When I have a mobile phone, I miss the communication between people when I don't have a mobile phone.

Ordinary people envy the lives of celebrities.

Celebrities also yearn for the freedom of ordinary people.

Man is such a contradiction. But society must progress, human beings must develop, the past can never come back, just memories, this is history, this is progress.

I often hear my parents say that today's young people can't endure hardship, they all want to fall from the sky, they are lazy to do, I understand their concepts very well, but I don't agree, different times have created different concepts, before the 80s, the country was basically in a society where basic life can not be guaranteed, so at that time, no matter how smart it was, it was useless, and it could only rely on diligence to fill the stomach, of course, at that time, there must have been a lot of talents. So in this day and age, it is not enough to just look at brute force, then you need to use your brain, social development is too fast, if you can't keep up with your thinking, life will be very sad! A society cannot progress if it relies only on brute force, but without laborers, the basic livelihood of human beings cannot be guaranteed.

So how to balance these things, that is, everyone does their best to do their own things in their own positions, live their own lives, no longer entangled in the past, live in the present moment, and meet the future with a smile, continue to learn, and keep up with the times! Come on, everyone who works hard to live!