Am I mentally ill, what s wrong with me, am I mentally ill?

You can't say you're sick You shouldn't say you're insecure with someone like this This relationship can give you too little security, so you keep asking for peace of mind From the only description you have, I can understand why you say this Your boyfriend may not seem to love you as much as he used to, or you have a sense of crisis in this relationship If all you ask is for him to accompany you and he can't do it, why are you so persistent?

To be a person who gives up his dignity, maybe a little heavy, will make you happy to love? You know, we want love because it can make us happy

Both of you are too childish, both of you are a little selfish, and you are not very good at empathy. Love is not like this. There is no harvest of love that is not giving. Let's take your time and experience it for yourself.

Well, you and I are a bit alike. My husband and I were together three years ago, and I'm also a very clingy person, and my husband and I both know that. So after reading your text, I asked him, and he said that the first year he was in love with me, so he didn't think I was clingy, on the contrary, it felt very good; After a long time (especially when arguing), I will feel that I am very annoyed; Later, he wasn't used to it if I didn't stick to him!

He said it was a matter of time. You've only been together for a year, and you're still a long time away, so you need to keep running in. Of course, one point that needs to be emphasized is:

My husband never refused to pick up my **, never spoke ill of me, never told outsiders about the unhappiness between us, but sometimes said that I was sick, I knew that it was his angry words, not from the heart. So I don't think you have any mental illness, just a lot of dependence, and a strong sense of insecurity. But you have to think carefully about how your boyfriend usually behaves and whether he is sincere to you, if he really loves you as much as you love him, then you should sit down and talk to him calmly, talk to him about your thoughts, and at the same time understand what he really thinks; Then if you find that he doesn't love you as much as you love him, we are all very cute and good girls, there is no need to stick to him, let him go, the real relief is you, happiness needs to be grasped, but also needs to be cherished, grasp and cherish to see whether it is worth it.

Wishing you happiness!

This is also a kind of stage break for people in love, just like the couple after marriage will have a run-in period, but you have to grasp the speed of such a step, and when he is not by your side, think more about his good, more of your own space, so that you will be better, I have confidence in you.

After listening to the lecture "How to manage a life without regrets", you can resolve the troubles in your heart.

If you feel aggrieved and aggrieved, you will say it calmly, and your lover will calmly say your dissatisfaction, please note that you must be calm, at least let your lover know why you are angry, in fact, it is not a stingy to spend money for your husband If you really have to, you will be happy to spend as much as you want, Just like you like eye cream, he likes watches, everyone's preferences and consumption habits are not the same, and men are sometimes more impulsive when buying things like women, and they may regret it later. It's too unnecessary for a husband and wife to get angry about this little thing, and besides, if you have already bought it, you can't change the result if you get angry. In fact, you are not angry because your husband spends money, but you feel that you should save more money for your children, and after you communicate with your husband, your husband will definitely understand and feel sorry for you.

Well, this question, you have to try to stand in another angle and think that your husband bought a watch, maybe it was for entertainment, and when the people in the company saw that he had such a dazzling watch, he would have a high status in others, and the source would be good.

Relax and think quietly.

Husband and wife are flying separately when the disaster is coming!

You need to communicate with each other, communicate effectively.

Hello, generally speaking, this is a psychological problem, and the cause may be related to the environment in daily life and one's own personality and behavioral factors. It is necessary to pay attention to maintaining a good attitude and self-regulation and inhibition. If the symptoms are severe and cannot be relieved by self-regulation, it is advisable to consult a psychologist in person.

I'm not a professional, but I'm interested in psychology.

I think your performance in adolescence is too intense, you can't control yourself well, and you don't have strong self-control. And too fantastical.

I suggest you watch less romance ** and romance movies, and if you accidentally see these plots, you should be determined and skip over immediately.

Be sure to control yourself, of course, the key is your determination.

Don't be too fantasizing, and when you want to fantasize again, tell yourself that you have to reject these fantasies (at least for now).

Don't worry too much about these situations, and don't feel inferior.

The most important thing is to have the psychology of overcoming this kind of adolescence performance is too intense, to persevere, to be reflected in practical actions!