I m not mentally ill like this

There is nothing wrong with your psyche, your mindset needs to be adjusted.

Obviously you are struggling with the problems you feel about yourself, and you want to get rid of them, but you don't know how to do it.

The root of all problems lies in man's excessive concern for the self. Therefore, the only effective way to get rid of this problem is to forget oneself.

When you live in a spirit of selflessness, integrate your personal life into the life of all mankind, dedicate yourself to ideals, beliefs, causes, and justice, and contribute to the continuous progress of mankind, you will be able to transcend individual existence and achieve universal existence, transcend the finite and reach the infinite, go beyond the struggle for self and achieve the struggle for the freedom of all mankind, so that you can live without sorrow, live satisfactorily, live freely, live naturally, live hopefully, and obtain stable and harmonious happiness.

As long as you can actively devote yourself to the future life and work with a selfless spirit, the problems you have encountered will no longer exist, when you do your best and do not care about anything else, you will naturally be full of self-confidence when you apply, and your self-confidence will naturally be enhanced!

Hello, in fact, the best way to enhance self-confidence is to establish a successful self-image, learn to affirm yourself, and recognize your own value. You can build a notion of success by recalling past successes. Don't look back on your failures, as you will feel more unconfident.

This is not a mental illness, introversion is a personal temperament problem in psychology, the temperament here is not what we call temperament, temperament is not good or bad, each has its own advantages and disadvantages, as for lack of self-confidence, it is a lack of exercise, a lack of successful experience, as long as you participate in more activities that can exercise yourself, often psychological hints, such as: I am the best! I can do it!

Experience the feeling of success a little more, both big and small, and soon there will be a noticeable difference.

What kind of mental illness, scare yourself, relax yourself, don't take everything too seriously, take your time, it's nothing to apply, there is an opportunity if you don't succeed once, I used to be the same as you, I always feel that I am very useless, don't force myself, we have a lot of choices.

Consciousness determines existence, and what kind of consciousness there is, what kind of life form and living environment there is.

It is difficult for a person who is imperfect to have a perfect consciousness, it is difficult for a person whose consciousness is imperfect to make a correct judgment on things, three stinkers can never be worth a Zhuge Liang, the thinking of tens of millions of people can never be worth the foresight and sagacity of a saint's thinking, democracy will always be the pursuit of mediocre people of wisdom and the magic weapon of holding on to the defects, and it is a secret weapon to strangle the saints.

Our own confusion lies in the confusion of our own consciousness, the confusion of life lies in the disorder of our own consciousness, our pain mainly comes from the pain of our own consciousness, and our uncertainty lies in the fact that our consciousness is not clear, and we do not know ourselves and what we need.

Most of people's pain, frustration, anger, hatred, disappointment, despair, and other negative emotions come from the ego consciousness, "this is my home", "this is my person", "this is my ......Rather than dealing with the endless troubles of my mother-in-law and mother in my life, it is better to get out of the consciousness of the ego and go straight to heaven.

The most powerful and vital thing is not outside, but in our consciousness.

This should be obsessive-compulsive disorder, but it is just a minor psychological problem, if you really can't overcome it yourself, you can consult a psychologist. This disease can also be considered a bad habit.

He should be regarded as a mental illness like this, it should be obsessive-compulsive disorder, find a psychiatrist to take a good look, you can definitely be optimistic, you can rest assured,

These symptoms of your boyfriend should be a kind of mental illness, and he can't control himself. It is recommended to take him to a psychiatrist, and through positive psychological suggestion**, he should be able to return to normal.

It is a mental illness, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and the most important thing he should see is a psychiatrist.

Your boyfriend is a typical patient with cleanliness and extreme obsessive-compulsive disorder, and you have time to take him to a regular psychiatrist if it doesn't get better for 6 months, if it's not the doctor's reason, it is recommended.

Good luck.

Your boyfriend may be suffering from hypochondriasis! It is advisable to accompany him to see a psychiatrist.

Hypochondriasis is an abbreviation for hypochondriacal neurosis, which is characterized by patients who are preoccupied with their physical health and worry about certain organs suffering from diseases that they imagine to be difficult to do. The main manifestations of hypochondriasis are:

Pay special attention to your body. Patients often pay special attention to activities that ordinary people do not pay attention to, such as heartbeat, intestinal peristalsis, etc., or a little uncomfortable feeling somewhere in the body, such as slight pain, soreness, etc., and pay special attention to nasal secretions, fecal mucus, swollen lymph nodes, cough, etc., and infer that they are sick.

Analysis:

Opinion and suggestion: He belongs to psychological obsessive-compulsive disorder and needs to see a psychiatrist.

Perhaps the best way is to keep him busy, give him less stress, relax himself, and better see a psychiatrist.

Hypochondriasis, the psychiatrist can't solve the problem, this needs to take medication**, find a psychiatrist.