What would I do if I were him, what would I do if you were him?

Caesarean section is a common mode of delivery, which can protect the safety of the mother and baby in some special situations. However, some men do not understand their wives after caesarean section, and even scold them for being lazy, useless, unvirtuous, etc. What would you do if you had a husband like that?

I will try to stay calm and not quarrel with him. Because the argument can aggravate my emotional stress and affect my physical and mental health and recovery. I will try to communicate with him and let him know the causes and consequences of caesarean section, as well as the care and support I need.

I would tell him that a caesarean section was not an option for me, but a doctor who recommended it to avoid danger. I would let him know that a caesarean section is a surgical chain surgery that will cause me a lot of pain and trauma and will take a long time to recover. I will express my feelings and difficulties to him and hope that he will understand and respect me.

Second, I seek help from family or friends to keep me company, encourage and comfort me. I will also find some professional psychological counseling or counselling to keep myself in a positive state of mind and enhance my self-confidence and self-esteem. I try my best to adjust my life rhythm and habits, rest more, drink more water, eat more nutrients, and do more appropriate exercise.

I will pay attention to my physical changes and recovery, and seek medical examination and ** in time.

In the end, I will decide whether to continue the marriage or not based on his attitude and behavior. If he can realize his mistake, sincerely apologize, and change his words and actions, then I may give him a chance to re-establish our trust and relationship. But if he is still stubborn and constantly abusing and hurting me, then I may choose to leave him and protect my own rights and the well-being of my children and my children.

For such a husband is not worthy of my love and patience, nor is he worthy of being a good father.

The last time I broke down and cried, it was when my child had a fever, but I was the only one at home, my partner was working overtime outside, and I couldn't come back, and I couldn't drive

Life is not easy, and we are eager to meet warm-hearted people.

We are at home, and we hope to have a warm-hearted lover who thinks of you in everything, speaks in a measured manner, and never makes you angry, how good.

In the unit, there is a warm-hearted group that doesn't care about everything, doesn't laugh and speaks unbalancedly, and never talks to you, how good; Cherry oranges.

Outside, there is a group of warm-hearted people, there are people to help them in everything, everyone is kind, and they never blush with you, how good.

If there is such an opportunity, I am afraid that he will be the happiest person in the world. I would like to be such a person, and I don't think anyone would want to. However, looking back, is he a person who thinks about his lover in everything at home?

I always want my lover to treat myself well, but do I treat my lover well!

The ancients said that they respected each other as guests, and did you treat your lover as a guest? Perhaps, it was okay when I got married for a while, but after a long time, my lover's face became wrinkled, not beautiful, and her speech was vulgar, so I got tired of it.

Quarrels are frequent, and it is not pleasing to anyone's eyes.

So when you ask people to be nice to you, first you have to be nice to people. Those who love love to return, and the love is deep. On the contrary, complainers complain and ...... when they are distracted

In the unit, you are eager to meet a group of warm-hearted groups, everyone is a group of harmonious, empathetic, do not care about things, the overall amount of others, every day smile at you, never quarrel with you.

But have you done that? Do you give your brightest smile to your colleagues every day?

Do you think about your colleagues and leaders every day? Don't you ever take your anger out on others?

If so, congratulations, you must be the most popular person and the happiest person.

But the fact is that you always put your emotions on your face, one will be sunny and one will be cloudy, one will be bad, one will be that bad, and you will say right and wrong in front of your colleagues, although it is not a big deal, but it makes people feel that you are always a little wrong, colleagues are alienated from you, and the leader does not trust you, such a day can be called a good day.

If you can afford to make a mistake.

If you miss what you can wrong, you should still have time to repent.

If you don't tell the whole story.

That little turmoil brought a smile through.

In front of feelings, talk about self.

It's better to get by.

It's all my fault. Be silent when you shouldn't be silent, be weak when you're brave.

If it weren't for me, I would have misunderstood myself.

Let's be sad.

But you at the beginning, and me now, if you start over.

If that day. Say what you should say well, and be considerate and not attached.

If only I hadn't been emotionally provoked that day.

What you'll do.

So much if, probably if I.

It's a pity that there is no if, only the result remains.

If you had known it earlier, you would have been spontaneous.

Or a little later to meet the mature me.

But oh, it's all my fault.

Be silent when you shouldn't be silent, be weak when you're brave.

If it weren't for me, I wouldn't be able to do it myself.

Let's be sad.

But you at the beginning, and me now, if you start over.

If that day. Say what you should say well, and be considerate and not attached.

If only I hadn't been emotionally provoked that day.

What you'll do.

So much if, probably if I.

It's a pity that there is no if, without you and me.

It's all my fault. Be silent when you shouldn't be silent, be weak when you're brave.

If it weren't for me, I wouldn't be able to do it myself.

Let's be sad.

But you at the beginning, and me now, if you start over.

If that day. Say what you should say well, and be considerate and not attached.

If only I hadn't been emotionally provoked that day.

What you'll do.

So much if, probably if I.

It's a pity that there is no if, only the result remains.

It's a pity that there was no if.