You learned what it means to get along wisely

Getting along with others is an art, no matter how highly educated and capable you are, if you don't know how to deal with others, you must be a failure. Learn to keep a low profile when dealing with people. Being a low-key person is a kind of character, a kind of demeanor, a kind of cultivation, a kind of mind, a kind of wisdom, a kind of strategy, and also a kind of supreme realm.

Those who want to succeed must be tolerant of others, and then be accepted, appreciated, and admired by people, which is the foundation of people's ability to build the world. When the foundation is solid, there are branches and leaves, and the fruits are abundant; If the foundation is shallow, it is inevitable that the branches will be weakened and the leaves will not be affected by wind and rain. And being a low-key person is an excellent gesture to strengthen the foundation of the world in society.

Being a low-key person can not only protect yourself, integrate into people, and live in harmony with people, but also allow people to secretly accumulate strength, quietly sneak, and achieve self-achievement in the inconspicuous mountains and water Learn to be a low-key person, you must not be noisy, not pretentious, not pretentious, not involved in right and wrong, not suspicious, not jealous, even if you think you are full of talent and ability, you must learn to hide clumsy. And complaining that you don't have a talent is just a superficial behavior. The death of Yang Xiu in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" is attributed to his "arrogance".

Such a person, even if he has amazing talent, can only win people's sighs. To be a low-key person is to look at everything in the world with a peaceful mind, and to cultivate to this realm, you can start and finish well, which can not only make people happy and open-minded when they are humble, but also make people make profits and losses when they are prominent, not arrogant or arrogant. When you get along with people, you also have to learn to be respectful.

Politeness is the foundation of a person, if you are rude, how can you win the favor of others? We live in a country of etiquette, believe in benevolence, righteousness and morality, and have been taught poetry and books since childhood, so we naturally understand that we must treat people with courtesy. However, some people mistake flattery for mildness, and more people mistake rudeness for frankness and sincerity, but I think that politeness is equal to knowledge and life.

The sages have long warned us: Those who love others will always love them; Those who respect others will always respect them. A person who does not respect others will never be respected by others.

It's like a person shouting at an empty mountain, and you are kind to it, and it responds in a friendly way. In interpersonal interactions, your attitude towards others and things often determines the attitude of others towards you. Only by learning to respect others can we earn the respect of others.

Let us uphold the low-key and courteous way of life, and get along with others with humility and respect. You will be delighted to find that the eyes that pay attention to you are so warm and friendly, and how gratifying it is to give you in return!

It is to tolerate and tolerate each other.

Husbands and wives, friends, colleagues, and collaborators should get along with each other in line with the principle of "intentions, don't scheming", which is the great wisdom of communication.

I have seen too many smart people, but in the end, they are not too self-conscious, they have no spirit of cooperation contract, they don't know how to suffer, they grasp small and magnify, but they are not top smart people, humble and firm, have endurance, take a step a day, and have the sea in their hearts.

The greatest regret among friends is best described in the words of Nietzsche (Germany): I feel sorry for Zhongkuan, not because you deceived me, but because I can no longer trust you.

Although he sees through the ugliness, selfishness, and hypocrisy of human nature, he can understand other people's desires and limitations, so he chooses to forgive human nature and not take other people's absurdity too seriously.

I saw a rather incisive sentence:

Wise and foolish people usually do not actively hide their talents, but the level of others does not see their intelligence.

I am willing to go away for half my life and return as a teenager.

I'm hellen forging ahead in the mist, and I want to grow old with interesting souls!

If you move your feet slightly, your horizons will be broadened. Motionless, like a mountain, it is the obstacle that stays in place. Look at the current situation and measure the current situation, and the fortune can change. It is not worth not wanting to forge ahead and be content with the status quo.

The premise of all wisdom in life must be based on the principle of understanding the right to change and using it as the basis for the trend, in order to create a good result, rather than only relying on one's own subjective consciousness as the basis and obsessively living in one's own standards.

When a person avoids excessive self-righteous obsession, in order to avoid the subjective consciousness of the extreme result of the opposite of things, in the process of change and development of things, let the natural conditions of the existence of things themselves drive themselves to develop in a good direction, this is the law of existence of wisdom.

There is a sentence in the Tao Te Ching: The movement of the opposite Tao, the use of the weak Tao, this sentence is a good description of the state and role of wisdom.

There is no fixed pattern of wisdom, and those who conform to the form are the highest.

Wisdom mainly refers to the ability to bring happiness to others, to society, and of course to oneself as a whole, especially the rational ability to weigh the pros and cons and then correctly choose what to do and what not to do!

If you want to have wisdom, it is best to read more books with high wisdom content, such as philosophy, historical strategy (politics, military, diplomacy, business strategy), scientific principles, psychology, especially books on the psychology of happiness, such as what is good, evil, beauty and ugliness and think about it!