What is the reason why a person is determined to do something? Be careful, high scores!

When we make up our minds to do something, we think about it in advance, think that it is feasible, and then start preparing for it.

I'm a more thoughtful girl, in other words, my thoughts are changing back and forth. I'm still an emotional person, and I like to imagine the future, and I will sift through my ideas that I think will be useful, and then after consulting with my husband, I will take action.

I remember when we wanted to buy a car, it took about two weeks to see the car and buy the car. We were action-oriented because our children were only a few months old at the time, so it was easier to buy a car, and now almost every family has a car. So my husband and I hit it off and immediately made the decision to take the car home.

I just bought a laptop yesterday, and it was also a sudden idea. Because I suddenly found that I couldn't even use the basic word.,I feel like this can't keep up with the trend of the times.。 So I talked to my husband, and it took two days for the laptop to get into my hands.

So it's more impulsive for us to make up our minds to do something, but young people always have to be a little bit motivated, so that they can be energetic, right?

How do you make up your mind?

First, there is constant psychological suggestion.

Make up your mind to study hard, and keep reminding yourself that if you don't study, you will be overtaken by others, and you will not learn and have a hateful face. When I can't hold on to the treadmill, I will think that as long as I finish five kilometers, my male god will come to me with colorful auspicious clouds.

In short, constantly strengthen your determination and concept to do something through psychological suggestion, so that this thing can reach the point where you can't do it, and your life will be fulfilled if you do it, and you will naturally actually do it.

Second, constant self-blame.

After the psychological suggestion of the first step, things have reached the point where they can't do it, so if they really don't do it, they will continue to blame themselves.

For example, I run four times a week, and one day because you're lazy, procrastinating, and don't go to the gym because you don't have a good schedule, you'll blame yourself for not being able to do it, and you'll feel guilty. I feel that I can't even stick to this little thing, I don't even have this bit of self-control, and I don't want to fail it. This kind of mental pressure can torture me so badly, it's better to go to the gym and sweat and work for an hour.

For example, if I don't read a book for a day, I can't wait to read a book all night to make up for the missing time. Mental torture is far more painful than physical torture.

In the end, everything is difficult at the beginning, and once you start to do anything, it will not be difficult to persist after that. The so-called habit becomes natural, and after a long time, the body and mind will accept what they are doing every day, and at that time, things will not be so difficult.

As for the driver's license test, I just signed up before I was ready. It just so happened that day that my brother came back after registering and told me that it would be very difficult to get a driver's license in the future. When I was about to take the first subject, I regretted it, but there was no way to do it.

In fact, if you make up your mind to do something, don't ask anyone else. If you think it's worth it, then you should go without fear.

You are asking this question very stupidly, if this matter is so important to your life, maybe you don't need to think about it to do it, how to talk about making up your mind, you don't know how to make up your mind to do a thing, then you have to measure, how much weight this matter has in your heart!