Can the theme of two of the untitled four poems be understood as despair of life?

Because most people are unknown people, they are also silent people, and living in quiet despair can be regarded as a state of survival.

Because the feudal rule of the past dynasties was very imprisoned, it did not require people to be wise, nor did they want to fight for their own rights and interests, but to fool the people, to make them mediocre, flies and dogs, not to make progress, and to live peacefully. As a result, many pastoral poets and landscape poets wrote some works of seclusion as a little comfort. In fact, most of them can't get along from officialdom, and they have left the world with despair and determination, and they have traveled to the mountains and rivers or cultivated the countryside.

Not only literature has been affected, but also works of art, and many landscape paintings have appeared, which can be described as spectacular.

Whether they are landscape poets or landscape painters, most of them are in a kind of despair of the politics and society at that time and the hearts of the people, and they can't extricate themselves, so they put their love on the countryside and landscapes, and make fresh and simple works. And the more fresh and quaint, the more otherworldly, the more it can contrast the boundlessness of their despair, and the more it can reflect the darkness and cruelty of realpolitik.

Because of the system, most people cannot participate in politics and are only part of the group that is directed. When the political tide comes, they will only be caught in it, and they can't help themselves, like a flock of sheep, as long as the head sheep goes, they will go. As for why you go that way, if you don't go that way, you never ask, and you lose the qualification to ask.

Everyone lives in the world, and there is no need to fight for it, as long as they live, even if they are cattle and horses. Most people cannot change the aging and even death of people, and they cannot change the politics, society, and hearts around them. What can you do after despair?

The increasingly solidified bureaucracy is simply not something that people can shake, nor can they participate in it, but can only be led, directed, and fooled. As a result, some people can't change the people and things in the outside world, so they look at themselves and go to their own hearts.

Living calmly with despair is a kind of wisdom for life. After all, the ability of an individual is limited, and even the ability of most people is limited, because most people are just a concept or a word, but they can't speak out or state any demands, just a plate of loose sand. And the spokesmen they rely on have repeatedly failed them, and built one solid barrier after another, separating them from the realm of power, because they have elected the representatives, or they have been forced to admit them, and they have acquiesced in those barriers.

There is a more important meaning than a false "life".

This kind of life refers to a life that is planned in advance with ulterior motives. Think about it, most people are born with this kind of trap, born kindergarten, primary school, high school, college, work, buy a house, buy a car, get married, and have children, this is like a mental cage. This kind of cage society, most of which may seem good, but in fact it is not in line with their own original intentions, for example, xx was very fond of animals when he was a child, and he was also talented in this area, but in the process of growing up, he parted from his hobbies for various reasons, and everyone experienced a similar phenomenon more than once or twice, this depressed scene happened to be brought by society, and they couldn't love what they loved, and they were forced to accept the status quo and live falsely.

There is also a kind of life, which is a real life, to be able to love what we love, and to live happily according to our own will, this kind of life we have been pursuing all our lives, but there are not many successful people.

How to say it, except for a very small number of successful people and some glamorous people in this world, most people are ordinary and ordinary. We know that we will die one day, that we will live a dull life, that we will not have a happy love and happy family, and that we cannot be as good as others, that we are vulgar, cowardly, and even useless. But we are still serious or, ordinary life, to accept all this.

So many people want to make some changes or achieve a small wish in their hearts, but they are too afraid to take the first step

Don't you think they're just quietly despairing?

Adjust your mentality, you are your best psychologist, and mentality is an attitude that people have towards things. Everyone has many desires in their lives, and they all hope that they will earn more money, have a smooth career, become a bigger official, and live a happier life... The question is that people can't do everything well, and when these desires can't be satisfied, what kind of mentality do we have to deal with them?

Mentality indicates a person's mental state, as long as you have a good attitude, you can maintain a full mood every day. Good mentality, good luck to learn to adjust the mentality, with a good mentality work will have direction, as long as people do not lose the direction will not lose themselves. The quality of the mentality lies in the timely adjustment and cultivation of the usual time and the formation of habits.

So you should regulate yourself: 1Less desire, 2

Climb less, 3Mindset Balance Point, 4Contentment and happiness are more , 5

Change what you can, accept what you can't, and don't lose yourself 6.Live according to your abilities and don't let other people's living conditions dictate your mood.

What is a person's life pursuing? Life is a process, not a point. Life is about the process!

Life is every day, and every day is unique and cannot be repeated, so we should make every day, every minute of our own beauty, and happiness. Admit the reality, insist that things are man-made, don't be too naïve, and see the world too beautifully; Don't be too pessimistic and look at the future in a dark light. Don't think too highly of yourself, or you'll be frustrated; Don't think too badly of yourself either, or you will lose confidence in life.

Everyone's ability level is similar, and the key is how to bring it out. It's okay to accept help from others, but don't expect help from others, everything is on your own. Do not seek praise from others, do not succumb to the accusations of others, do not please others, and do not seek sympathy from others.

Once a decision is made, dare to bear the consequences, not be indecisive, complain, and shirk responsibility. Be shrewd, but not tactful. It is someone else's right to believe, and it is someone else's right to discuss.

Constantly cultivate your own interests, never satisfied, always fulfilling. Be curious about everything, be a little more childish and naïve, and be less unwanted. Learn to vent and turn your anguish to a close friend or.

Talk about it, get rid of it, and make the mood relaxed and happy.

Du Fu is a poet saint, his "Farewell to the Newlyweds".

It can also be regarded as a love poem

Du Fu's "Farewell to the Newlyweds" original text + translation.

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Rabbit silk is fluffy and fluffy, and the vine is not long; Marrying a daughter and recruiting a husband, it is better to abandon the roadside!

The knot is a wife, and the bed is not warm; Say goodbye in the morning of the twilight wedding, but you are in a hurry!

Although the gentleman is not far away, he guards the border and goes to Heyang; The concubine's body is not clear, why worship the aunt?

When my parents raised me, they made me hide day and night; The birth of a daughter has a return, and the chicken and dog have to be!

The king is now dying, and the pain is pressing the intestines; vowed to go with you, but the situation was pale.

Don't think about the newlyweds, work hard; The woman is in the army, and the morale of the soldiers is not high.

self-muttering about the poor girl, and for a long time; Luo Xiang did not apply it again, and washed red makeup on Jun.

Looking up at the birds flying, the size will fly; There are many staggered personnel, and you will always look at each other!