Why are so many middle school students confused and unrepentant?

When I was in middle school, I worked hard and my grades were okay. For a long time, I can't understand the psychology of those who have nothing to do every day, eat and wait for death. In middle school, students who felt that their grades were poor were gangsters.

I think they're all looking for sensual entertainment. There are self-proclaimed sisters, brothers, and karaoke fights every day. In my opinion, it would be very stupid to do all this in junior high school.

At that time, the principle of "good and bad" was very popular, so I sat with a group of so-called bad students for a while. But fortunately, there is no difference between these poor students except for their poor grades. The time with them was still very harmonious.

Although they understand that everyone is not the same kind of person. Once a girl showed me her class notes, the handwriting was beautiful, the penmanship was neat, and she was much more serious than me, and if I didn't usually know her grades, I would even think that she was a student with excellent grades.

So I asked her, do you usually have a habit of reading notes?

Don't look. So you write so well, why?

Feel comfortable. When I graduated, I asked her what to do in the future (she didn't make the list), and she hadn't thought about it yet.

So what to do. Take a step, look at a step. She laughs.

Later, I learned that she went to a professional school of her choice through the school. I studied nursing, and now I am working in a famous hospital in the city, and my life is stable and happy.

And I, when I came to university, also found that there are many people who only indulge in their own world, even if they used to be hard-working students.

Last semester, I took an elective, tennis. And I found that no matter how much I practiced, I couldn't pass. The contemptuous look of the teacher, the whispers of my classmates, and then I realized what it was like to be a poor student.

In the field that he is not good at, he is forced to excel, otherwise he will be looked down upon and treated differently.

Because they have not yet seen how the coffin wept, let them taste the bitterness first.

It was the same when I was in junior high school, but I felt more that the reason why I felt muddy was because I was at a loss and my grades were slow to improve, I felt that I had a lot of things that I lacked, but I didn't know how to improve, and I felt that I had worked hard, but my grades were still like that. At this time, we will feel very guilty, once we relax and watch TV and play games or something, we will feel sorry for ourselves and our achievements, and we will fall into self-blame and helplessness. However, if you want to arrange your time well, it means that you still love to learn, and if you want to improve yourself, you may just not find a way.

In terms of personal experience, during this period, I will be more inclined to relax, tell my friends more about my worries, communicate more with my classmates with good grades, and encourage each other. I would also go to the playground every day and go out for a few good meals; I'll look for nearby malls or set aside some free time to watch TV. After a period of adjustment, I found that this was actually quite good, and then I was motivated to start organizing my plans and studying hard.

Whenever you feel confused, don't put too much pressure on yourself, give yourself a few days off, and then identify the shortcomings, make a study plan that suits you according to your study habits, and pay attention to the combination of work and rest.

If you really can't do it, start brushing the questions, and after brushing the questions, you will know what you really can't do, what needs to be made up, or sign up for a cram school to make up for the weak subjects.

As a middle school student, if you are confused all day and don't know how to change, I think you can talk to your teacher or parents, and the teachers and parents will give you the best solution.

I remember that when I was in the third year of junior high school, I was in this situation, because the study pressure was too much, so I was not interested in anything, I lived every day, and I didn't pay attention to class, so I went to my homeroom teacher in order to adjust this state.

My homeroom teacher told me a truth: if you don't work hard, then your life will stop once, and you won't be able to see the outside world at all, and your circle will become smaller. If you're really confused, then you can read the books of successful people and see what their experiences are like.

I listened to the words of the head teacher, borrowed a few books of successful people, and after reading their books, I seemed to have found a way forward, no longer confused, no longer confused.

When you are in a daze, you can choose to read a book, or you can talk to someone.

It's good to find your own interests, and if you really don't have an interest in learning, look for other hobbies.

In addition to studying, sports students, art students and other special students are all an option.

Find what you want to do, and then work hard to do it, no matter what, it's better than muddy... If you really can't do it, you can experience labor, often in labor, you will understand the difficulty of life and the necessity of struggle!

You have to understand what you want, and then make a choice, but I use my personal experience and the experience of the people around me to tell you that if you don't study well in junior high school, it's really very difficult to graduate from graduation, if you want to work in a good unit without a degree, it basically won't work, plus there are people around me who haven't studied after graduating from junior high school, and what they were like at the beginning hasn't changed much, so it's the most important thing to study hard and live every day.

Middle school students still belong to the stage where the psychological age is not very mature, and at this time, they are confused and do not know how to change, which shows that they lack a correct guidance.

First of all, it is necessary to evaluate his personal ability, find out the shining points in him, and expand them so that he can increase his self-confidence.

Next, correct his erroneous three views and guide him to the right path.

First of all, you have to understand the good intentions of your parents. You can go and see what your parents are doing every day, and the hard-earned money they earn is so hard for you to go to school, but you waste their hard work like this, and you will realize that you are worthy of your parents' kindness. When you realize this, you should study hard and repay your parents with better grades.

I think you need a little chicken soup for the soul at this time, if you know that the current situation is not suitable, then you also show that you are still self-motivated, at this time you can talk to your teacher, your teacher will give you good advice, and will encourage you, you can listen to the teacher's opinion, and then combined with your own situation, make a plan to change yourself.

And you have to improve your self-control, because changing yourself is not an easy thing and requires a lot of perseverance, so you have to be able to persevere until the end to really change yourself.