A woman who says divorce when she quarrels, why do women keep saying divorce when they quarrel?

Marriage is originally a penance, and if you want to be perfect, you must deal with the feelings between husband and wife. Often in marriage, friction is indispensable, even as a couple, they will often be noisy and noisy. And if you want to reconcile, you must learn to understand and tolerate, cherish and value each other.

But often some women don't have a sense of proportion in what they do and speak, when they quarrel with their husbands, they always talk about divorce, and as their husbands, will they continue to live such a life?

I have summarized the following points!

The first point: it is not important.

In this life, marriage is the top priority, because it determines the second half of his life, and it can be regarded as the happiness of his life. Although some people think that they can leave again after marriage and find someone else to marry, who often wants to have an unhappy marriage? When he decided to get married, he must have thought about it for a long time and made full preparations before choosing to get married, and such a marriage should have been cherished, but because of the quarrel, he kept talking about divorce, which shows that he doesn't value it at all, doesn't cherish it, and feels dispensable.

If that's the case, then why are we going to be together? Forget it.

Second: irrationality.

Often a smart woman, even if she has conflicts and quarrels with her husband, will not talk about divorce, because divorce is a taboo word. This is more harmful to the other party than contradictions, and will not only destroy the relationship between husband and wife, but also bring certain harm to each other. Just like others say, you can scold me, but you can't scold my parents, the same reason, it's okay to quarrel, let alone divorce.

Because this has touched a certain bottom line, it is irrational to say that a woman who can talk about divorce.

Third: I like to work.

Often husband and wife are very affectionate, and if there are some small conflicts, they will quarrel for divorce, which will inevitably cause some small losses and make people feel angry when they hear it. Some women talk about divorce as soon as they quarrel, after a long time, they talk too much, no matter how much they love her, their husband will have enough of it one day, and there will always be a day when he will agree to "leave and leave"! When he says this, it means that you are coming to an end.

No matter how good the relationship is, it will be confiscated, so whether it is a woman or a man, some words still have to be thought about by the brain before they are spoken.

Love words: I saw a friend around me, told the story of his parents, basically quarreled every day, noisy all day long, married for decades, and said that the number of divorces is uncountable. Every time I shout for divorce, but I am still with my children, busy with housework, cooking, and feeding pigs, I feel that divorce is as common as eating.

And decades have passed, and there is no divorce. This kind of fight can quarrel for a lifetime, but this situation, after all, is still a minority, so the best thing is not to talk about divorce, what do you think?

Many people want to give and ask for when they fall in love with the person they love, although love is an act of reciprocating at the beginning, but how many can still insist on selfless giving in the end? Even if he is just a passer-by of the other party, because he chooses to love the person, he will pay for him, regardless of whether he is the person he is looking for or not.

But if they keep arguing, instead of looking for the reason for the quarrel, then the problem is in themselves. Parents persuade their children to divorce because they don't want to see them in pain, although they are persuaded to be together, but it also depends on whether they are suitable to be together again, I am not talking about your brother and sister-in-law divorce, but you should talk about it, what is the reason, do not love each other? Life stress?

Or for other reasons, solving the problem is the key.

I want Han Zhencha to make you bow your head and give in to her by saying cruel words, I don't really want to divorce, but after coaxing, I have to reason with her, don't say it casually, and tell her that you care a lot about it.