Why is the marriage relationship becoming more and more precarious?

One of the reasons is the change in the concept of marriage and love. "The night of candles in the cave room, when the title of the gold list is named". Marriage has always been a major life event in the minds of Chinese people, but with the development of the times, people's concept and status quo of marriage are constantly changing in the contradiction between tradition and modernity.

For example, in recent years, the "detached" concept of marriage and love, online dating, flash marriage and other phenomena continue to appear in some large and medium-sized cities, and they are mainly concentrated in the young white-collar class, especially new women. This is determined by a number of characteristics of this class. After the status of women in social life rises, they become financially independent, pursue the realization of self-worth, and no longer rely on men through marriage.

As the saying goes: "Marrying a wife and marrying a virtuous person is not a good look, marrying a person and marrying a heart is not marrying wealth", but what about in reality? It is the opposite, especially in the marriage of the two generations of the 8090 with an open personality.

Once you enter the marriage and get along day and night, the originally important but unimportant issues begin to appear, such as feelings (maybe there is a person you love deeply in your heart, although you can't be together for some reason, but you can't help but think of your former lover all the time), character (lazy to eat, don't go to work, don't do housework; Unfilial piety, etc.), these contradictions collide together to form larger and more complex contradictions, which deepen over time, and finally erupt at some point, and the marriage is falling apart.

Now divorce can be described as commonplace, why life is getting better and better, and people's divorce rate is getting higher and higher, because now men and women are equal, not men are inferior to women, they used to be male and female dominant, but now, women have to do both inside and outside, take children to do housework, and go to work, what about men, most men go home after work and lie down on the sofa, don't care about anything, and say that they are so tired, friends are full of resurrection, go out to eat wine and meat. Many women can't stand it anymore and file for divorce.

Now people are no longer like the people of the past, marriage just to find a long-term meal ticket, now people regardless of men and women, as long as they are willing to work hard to eat and dress will no longer be a problem, now people have their own views and opinions, since they can't get along, they are no longer willing to settle, divorce and not marry and do not want to have children will be the general trend.

Men and women live a sweet two-person world life before marriage, carefree and free romantic feelings. Since getting married and having children, the burden on the family is very stressful. Often because of the economic contradictions, after a long time, the relationship is not harmonious, and the contradictions are deepened, which leads to divorce.

Now the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult, some men feel that there is only one mother, and the wife can be found again, many mothers-in-law look at their daughter-in-law unpleasantly, sowing discord between their sons and daughters-in-law, causing the two sides to often quarrel, and in the long run, men look at women unpleasantly and mention divorce.

There are more flash marriages. Young men and women often work outside the home, and when they return home, due to the forced marriage of their parents, most of them are introduced by matchmakers (intermediaries) and get married in a short period of time. After getting married, they found each other's shortcomings, and no one could settle for them, and then they chose to divorce.

First, there is a lack of real understanding and communication. In a marital relationship, communication and communication between the two parties is very important. Without adequate understanding and communication, it is difficult to establish a deep emotional connection.

Many couples only spend some time together before marriage through dating, etc., but do not get to know each other fundamentally. After getting married, I found that I and my partner had many differences in personality and values, which made it easy for Rong Xiangtang to lead to misunderstandings and contradictions between each other.

Second, the responsibilities and pressures in marriage. Marriage is not just an emotional matter between two people, it also involves issues such as family finances, children's education, etc. The solution of these problems requires the husband and wife to share the responsibility and pressure, otherwise it is easy to shirk each other's responsibilities, thus exacerbating the conflict between each other.

Third, the tediousness and consumption of daily chores. The trivial things in life often make people feel tired and bored, such as housework, taking care of children, work, etc. If you don't have enough time and energy to deal with these trivial matters, it can make the marriage relationship full of twists and turns.

In addition, factors such as work stress can also reduce the amount of time and communication between couples, further weakening the relationship between each other. Local rush.

Fourth, differences in socio-cultural backgrounds and expectations. A marital relationship is more than just a game of chess between two people, it also involves a wide range of social and cultural factors. For example, some couples come from different regions, countries, or cultural backgrounds, and their lifestyles and values may vary greatly.

If these differences are not properly addressed, it is easy to lead to conflicts in the marital relationship.

First of all, marriage and love are two different concepts. Marriage is a legal and social institution, while love is an emotional experience. Although the two are related, they are not necessarily interdependent.

In modern society, there are more and more people who choose not to get married, but can still enjoy the beauty of love.

Second, both marriage and love are influenced by the social environment and cultural trends. In some traditional cultures, marriage is seen as an inevitable life choice, and the purpose of marriage is more for the good of family and society than for personal happiness. In contrast, in modern culture, the rights and freedoms of the individual are more valued, and people pay more attention to personal well-being and emotional experience.

This has also led to a change in some people's attitudes towards marriage, which is no longer an inevitable choice in life, but a personal choice.

Thirdly, the social environment and cultural trends can also affect the stability of marriage and love. In the modern world, divorce rates are on the rise, and many marriages break down because the parties are unable to reconcile each other's lives and emotional needs. At the same time, love is no longer eternal, and the emotional experience changes with time and life circumstances.

In this case, maintaining the stability of marriage and love requires effort and understanding from both parties, as well as respect and love for each other.

Finally, I believe that both marriage and love need to be based on shared values and beliefs. Mutual understanding and respect are key factors in maintaining the stability of marriage and love. Of course, everyone's attitude and standards towards marriage and love are different, so we should respect everyone's choices and opinions.

In short, marriage and love are complex and diverse concepts. They are influenced by the social environment and cultural trends and also require individual effort and understanding. Whether we choose to get married or choose to be in love, we should respect each other's choices and opinions, as well as work together to maintain the stability of marriage and love.

In recent years, the current marriage has become more and more illusory. Some couples, who only walk side by side on the surface, but are estranged on the inside, manage themselves in their own way, but ignore each other's real needs and actual state. As a result, many marriages show signs of breakdown at a certain stage.

I think the main reason is that they treat their other half as their own.

Treating the other half as their own means that they don't need to be paid attention to and cared for, they will think that the other person will always exist; It also means trust, as long as it is one's own person, no matter what kind of behavior there is, it can be understood; On top of that, they will think that the relationship will never end at any time anyway. But in reality, they are tantamount to a real denial of the existence of a marital relationship.

Marriage is a very complex institution that requires mutual care in order to have a healthy and stable life. Therefore, in marriage, you can't treat the other half as your own person, because this only accelerates the decline of the marriage. We must operate wholeheartedly and maintain it with all our hearts, so that we can build our own families and those of our children.

First of all, we need to realize that the other half is another person with his own ideas and characteristics, and he can't just take care of himself, but needs more attention. We can maintain a good married life by interacting more in our daily lives, not only by doing housework, but also by participating in various activities such as sports and crafts together, so as to maintain diversity and vitality and add new wonders to life.

Second, we need to be honest with each other and build an honest relationship with each other in order for the marriage to last. If there is a conflict or problem, you can solve it together, and don't alienate each other at will. Sometimes, as long as you can make your position and views clear, and let the other half understand your own ideas and intentions, maybe even if the dispute is not successful, the marriage relationship will communicate better and better.

Finally, there should be full trust between husband and wife. If one of the spouses has vices or bad habits, it is not a good thing to denounce and reprimand them publicly. Instead, it should be corrected by psychological adjustment and reasoning, so that he is willing to change the evil and turn to the right, and voluntarily quit the bad behavior.

Doing so not only motivates the husband and wife to work towards each other's goodness, but also makes the marriage stronger and more stable for long-term happiness.

It's not scary to make mistakes, it's not to know how to make mistakes. The same is true for marriage, in order for the marriage relationship to go on forever, both parties need to constantly adjust and improve, so that the marriage can develop under stronger unity. Only by working extremely mutual respect and management can the marital relationship be enhanced and people feel truly happy.

The marriage rate of the people around me is getting lower and lower, and the divorce rate is getting higher and higher.

There are more and more divorces among young people, and the most important thing is to be indifferent to their feelings, and they attach more and more importance to materials, houses, cars, and tickets.

Nowadays, young people pay more and more attention to materialism, but they are more and more downset about emotions, such a view is not that young people can change themselves, the influence of the environment, the main reason for the high divorce.

Because now they can live independently for both men and women. And now society is based on material. Everyone takes material things very seriously, and takes love and marriage very lightly.

So the divorce rate is very high. What they value is only material and money, houses, cars, and leaks are the main points they value, so they are weak in their feelings for marriage.

In today's society, marriage and love seem to be becoming more and more fragile, which is due to the change and rapid development of modern society. However, despite this, I still believe in the existence and meaning of marriage and love.

Marriage and love have been the basic needs and emotional needs of human beings since ancient times, and their existence can provide people with a sense of security and belonging, and make people feel the meaning and value of life. Moreover, marriage and love are also important ways for human beings to communicate and communicate, they can enhance the feelings and understanding between people, and promote social harmony and stability.

Secondly, the fragility of marriage and love is mainly caused by social changes and rapid development, such as economic pressure, social competition, changes in the concept of marriage, and so on. But this does not mean that marriage and love have lost their meaning and value, on the contrary, they are still an integral part of human emotional and spiritual life.

Finally, while the existence and meaning of marriage and love are questioned, we can still protect and preserve their value by changing our perceptions and behaviors. For example, we can build healthy marriage and love relationships by enhancing our communication and understanding skills, improving our emotional cognition.

To sum up, despite the many challenges and difficulties faced by marriage and love in today's troubled society, they are still an indispensable part of human emotional and spiritual life, and we should actively protect and maintain their values and let them play an important role in our lives.