Why do men nowadays want to get married less and less?

Because now there is too much pressure for men to get married, both before and after marriage. So a lot of men are reluctant to get married now.

Because the expenses are too big, many girls always regard themselves as princesses, which is too difficult to serve, and there are not many women with three views.

Fear of responsibility and increase economic spending. I just want to live with a woman for my own pleasure, and I don't want to be responsible.

Nowadays, men don't want to get married more and more, because the pressure on men is too great, men have to buy a car and a house before getting married, they have to face their wife's family, they have to face a high bride price, and then they have to face a willful wife, so they are also very tired and very fragile.

That's because the pressure of life is too great, starting a family has to provide a house, paying a car for work, and then raising a family and children and parents, it is really too much pressure, big responsibility, and greater burden, so now men don't want to get married more and more.

Not only men and women are also less and less reluctant to get married, the current fast-food love, and the high divorce rate, make people physically and mentally exhausted, when marriage becomes a burden, more and more people don't want to get married!

Because the pressure of many men to get married is very great, not only to buy a house but also to buy a car, and also to bear a lot of work pressure, so they are reluctant to get married because they feel that the pressure is too great and they can't bear it.

In the current society, there are more men and fewer women, and girls are more selective and have higher vision, which invisibly increases a lot of pressure on boys. There are also many examples around me, such as having a car and a house before getting married, or having one of them, but for boys who have just graduated for a few years, it is difficult to buy a car and a house, especially to buy a house, the current house price is comparable to sky-high prices, even if you pay a down payment, you have to pay off the mortgage in the future, which is a condition before marriage. After getting married, boys are more stressed than girls to bear the family's financial pressure, especially after having children, the pressure is even greater, and the pressure is overwhelming.

So now there are a lot of men who are reluctant to get married.

I don't think it's that men nowadays don't want to get married, it's that men nowadays are under a lot of pressure, so they don't want to get married.

There is too much pressure to get married, and there are too many things to think about, so I should be a little afraid of marriage.

It's not that more and more men don't want to get married, and they can't afford to get married at all, and it is difficult to maintain a happy married life after getting married. There are so many divorces now, and some of them are afraid of it.

When you get married, you have to buy a house, buy a car, take care of your children, and give money to your wife, so you don't want to get married!

Why am I reluctant to get married, this is my situation.

One, there are many failures, and there is no enthusiasm.

To say that you don't want to get married is false. Seeing others in pairs, I still have some envy, and I also hope that there will be someone together.

Every time I put a lot of time and effort into it, I failed, and now I start to doubt that I can still get married.

Second, the inferiority complex in the heart.

When I just graduated, with a salary of 2,000, I always felt that 18,000 yuan was a small amount of money.

Now that I'm older, I'm no longer tempered by reality, I've lost my ambitions, and there's no light in my eyes. Looking at such a pitiful salary every day, I feel that it is difficult to support myself, and I have the courage to get married.

Now even if you meet a girl you like, you don't dare to pursue it boldly, for fear of rejection, and for fear that you are not able to take on family responsibilities.

It's still single to save money, nibble on steamed buns, eat a bowl of instant noodles, and the day can pass.

I feel that I have achieved nothing, my income is not high, I have no house or car, not only do I hate it by others, but I hate it.

Third, get used to living alone.

After so many years of being single, I have long been accustomed to living alone. In addition to going to work every day, I basically stay at home, and I usually don't like to talk or communicate with others. It's nice to be alone and quiet.

Once you get married, you are faced with the woman's chattering every day, and sometimes it's scary to think about this kind of life.

I'm used to being single, it's hard to get along with others, and I don't know how to get along with girls. It's difficult to even communicate, let alone coax girls to be happy.

For my introverted personality. Chasing girls is much more difficult than taking exams.

There is a high probability that no one will want this kind of honest person, this kind of person is very boring, not the type that girls like, so it's good to be alone.

It is mainly caused by the asymmetry between social development and social ethical development.

In today's society, equality between men and women is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, but women hold their daughters to marry men cheaply, ask men to pay a lot of dowry, prepare a garage, and can't follow three or four virtues, that is, in the name of equality, give men a lot of housework, and justifiably ask men to earn much more than women, and give them to her, what is even more hateful is that many women still hide money in their parents' homes for the future. Some don't even know how to do housework or cook.

Men are stupid, but they don't guess that they can always suffer dumb losses. Men do all kinds of things when they resist, and it is the majority of women who file for divorce, and men also have tempers, and they are not used to getting divorced.

Some women say that if they earn no less than men, they will not be so angry if they are financially independent. This is also the reason why there are many divorces. As soon as a woman gained economic status, she thought that she wanted to abandon her previous traditions and be free.

It is a tradition for men to support their families, you don't want to be traditional to support your family together, when men occupy the position of the master, you have to do your best to support your family, and women don't have to support their families when their status improves? What logic, raising offspring is a shared responsibility of men and women. The fact that women's ideological progress lagged far behind the improvement of their economic status was the main reason.

If you want power, you have to take responsibility for the corresponding tasks, otherwise you will die alone and will not leave offspring, because you have violated the laws of nature.

This is an era of alternating old and new ideas, where men lose a certain amount of ground and still want to take full responsibility, and women get some resources but don't want to take any responsibility. In about 20 years, I think it will enter the stage where both men and women don't want to start a family, men will recognize their status and will not do their best to support their families, and women themselves will be selfish, let alone support their families. Everyone happily fell in love, and when they got tired of breaking up, they had no worries, and everyone was happy.

Because I don't have the money to get married, I'd rather not get married.

Because the cost of marriage is too high now, and the current marriage is not strong at all, and you can divorce at every turn, and you can't afford to get married, and you can't afford to leave. And the people who are staring at the file now are very realistic, there is no real emotion, those who have money will follow you, and those who have no money will look down on you.

Nowadays, people are also under a lot of pressure, so it is not easy to support themselves by themselves, and it is really difficult to get married early.

Today's men are facing a variety of tests when they get married, resulting in a lower and lower willingness to get married

The first is economic pressure. The cost of marriage is not the same as the cost of living for a single person, and if you don't have a certain economic foundation and family conditions, the pressure of life is still quite high. Instead of living and getting married, it is better to live happily alone.

The second is to advocate a free life. One person feeds the whole family and is not hungry, and he can do whatever he wants, which is a portrayal of a single life. After getting married, you have to consider the partner's plan, the child's time, and the feelings of both parents.

Then there is the complexity of the relationship. In his own home, except for his parents, there is no one else or Zheng Yu. The relationship is simple and easy to handle.

After getting married, forming a family is to deal with the relationship between three families and six or seven people. If they are all reasonable, it is easy to say, but if there are one or two unreasonable people who live in dire straits every day, there is no happiness at all.

In the end, I just don't want to leave my comfortable life. When I was single, my parents always took care of themselves, and I had no worries. After getting married, not only do you have to take care of your partner and parents-in-law, but also your children.

Even their own parents live separately and need to take care of the balance of the family, and the degree of hardship increases exponentially.

Why do more and more men not want to get married? Not "don't want to", but "don't dare".

Nowadays, young people's willingness to marry is generally low towards their friends, is it the progress of thought, or the escape from reality? Everyone has a different understanding of marriage, but these perceptions are often subjective. Objectively speaking, when you enter a marriage, your life may not be comfortable, and even occasionally make you feel burdened, painful, and sad, but happiness must also happen and make you feel safe.

When some major life changes occur, choose the right partner, who will always support you with love and generosity, and re-establish a new belief in the oak life. Suddenly, the meaning of marriage is found and understood, and an emotion and connection between a man and a woman is established that cannot be established in any other way. It's just that we're all too susceptible to external influences.

Often because of the misfortune they have seen, their views and confessions about marriage subtly occur, such as increasing their fear of marriage.

Life is stressful, bride price and housing prices are high.

We're seeing more and more boys now, and they don't want to get married. It stands to reason that for boys, they are also very eager for love. We all know that love is happy, and it is very beautiful.

It is precisely because love is so happy and beautiful that many people hope to have love.

Especially when we meet someone we like, then many people will. I want to be with the people I like. So in order to be able to be with the person you like, many people are.

To be more positive, and even to be more proactive, they hope that through their own initiative and initiative, they can make themselves better with the person they like, and also allow them to have happiness and beautiful love.

But to our surprise, there are a lot of boys nowadays who don't fall in love and don't want to get married. So some people wonder why many boys don't want to fall in love and get married.

First of all, because there are a lot of girls now, and they are very realistic. Especially in love. They will demand a lot of high demands from boys.

They demand good jobs and good families. That's why I'm willing to be with boys. Still in the process of dating, in the process, they also ask the boy to be able to.

I have always cared for and cared for girls. As long as the boy is doing a little bit badly, then the girl does not want to be with the boy. Seeing that although there are a lot of boys, they all want to be able to get along well with girls, because they can't meet or can't meet the requirements of girls, so he can choose to be single.

Of course, there are also young people who themselves feel that they are not so good. So they want to put more time and energy into trying to improve themselves. Because only they themselves are better, so that they can find a suitable person.

In this way, they will be able to have a beautiful love in the future.

So we see that there are indeed a lot of young people now, even some older boys, who don't fall in love, and they don't get married before Qing. But in fact, they also know that love is happy and beautiful. So if they want to have a good love.

Then they should work harder.

Because only when they themselves are more active and hard-working, so that they can be more excellent, and only when they are more excellent, so that they can be able. Find someone who is right for you. In this way, two people will get along more together.

In the end, it can also allow them to marry with the person they like, and it will also make their marriage happier and better.

His own boy needs freedom, if he gets married, he will take care of the family, and when he has a baby, he needs to take care of the child. I don't have time to go out with my friends to play with Bright Oak, and I have something to tell the woman.

After getting married, life is tedious, and the pressure of life next to Jingqiao increases. Before getting married, you only had to bear your own daily expenses, eat and live at home, and after getting married, you had your own small family. And also have to pay water and electricity bills, personal contacts, and visit relatives during the New Year's holidays.

The cost of marriage is high. To get married, you need to give the woman a bride price, buy hardware, and some need to buy a house. The man needs to take out the consumption pie at one time. In addition, getting married also requires expenses such as banquets.

There are many contradictions in marriage. After marriage, in addition to dealing with the relationship between the husband and wife, it is also necessary to maintain the relationship between the woman's family and the relationship between the man's own family. The most important thing is to maintain the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

However, men and women living in the city have a little fear of getting married, which makes them not very eager to get married, resulting in many Cong Xian people are in their 30s and have not yet started a family. But why is this happening? This has to be analyzed from many aspects.

Whether it is now or in the past, we can see such a phenomenon: children who drop out of school in rural areas, in addition to working, will quickly decide their lifelong events. This is because they are exposed to society earlier than those who go to school, but society has reduced the possibilities for them, so they have to choose to start a family first.

But in today's information age, many people have ingested a lot of knowledge, so they will have a lot more choices, and there is no need to start a family first.

Clause. Second, the dazzling outside world makes us greedy, and starting a family has become a bondage.

Marriage represents a family responsibility on oneself, and all one's words and deeds are invisibly constrained, and even many occasions are not suitable for them. But Brother Wan is single but does not have so many constraints, coupled with the fact that the current Internet seeps into the dust imitation network and makes people see a different world, there will naturally be many people eager to contact the outside world. Who will get married at this time?

After all, chasing represents that you may give up the opportunity to open your eyes.

Clause. Third, the independent thinking is deeply rooted and the quality of life is improved.

Whether we work or start a family, we have only one motivation: to improve our quality of life. Nowadays, many office workers have become accustomed to the mode of being alone and are quite satisfied with their quality of life.

Since they can achieve their own satisfying life by living alone, why should they get married? After all, marriage involves two families, which makes many people afraid of getting married.

Clause. Fourth, marriage has too high requirements for material and money.

Everyone knows that the thing that must be experienced before getting married is the bride price and dowry, which is a big burden for an ordinary family, after all, the bride price and dowry are not a small amount. What's more, the premise of many people getting married now is that they must have a house, but now housing prices are not affordable for ordinary people.

Therefore, many people think that they do not have the financial ability to start a family at present, so they would rather be single.

In fact, late marriage is not only a major phenomenon in China, but also gradually appears in other countries, because people nowadays are still very independent in the economy, and their thinking is quite advanced, so there is no need to depend on anyone to live.

And their quality of life is not low, there is no need to live with the other half before they can have a qualitative leap in their quality of life. Therefore, late marriage is not because girls have too high requirements for men, nor because boys are not capable enough, but because everyone has different pursuits and requirements for life. Marriage is not something that everyone has to go through in their life, if marriage makes you happy, then get married and vice versa.