A boy always emphasizes that we are friends, does he not want to develop with me?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-16
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If a guy always emphasizes this, he may basically regard him as a friend and don't want to develop a relationship with you. As for whether you want to pursue him, think about it yourself.

    If you're going to pursue him, share some tips:

    Tip 1: Be proactive.

    Many people may feel that being a girl should be a little more reserved. But if you're going to pursue a more introverted guy, if you take the initiative, then there will be little communication between the two of you. In that case, it will be very difficult for you to catch him.

    So we have to have different ways of expressing ourselves in different ways when facing different people. But the person we pursue is a more active guy, so we can be a little more reserved to attract his ideas.

    If the boy we want to pursue is an introverted boy, then we have to take the initiative ourselves. In this way, you will be able to find a direction that suits your relationship. Because a lot of romances start with friends, if the two of you aren't even friends, then it's hard for you to be able to be together.

    Therefore, for introverted boys, girls must be proactive.

    Skill 2: The language is humorous.

    We should all understand that introverted boys tend to be bored and have little interest in many things in their world. So if we want to catch him, then we need him to be interested in us. This requires us to be humorous when chatting with boys, so that boys think you are particularly interesting.

    In this way, he will think that you are more special, very different from other girls.

    If both of you are bored, then the atmosphere between you will not be very good. So I need you to be lively and humorous, so that he will be more open in front of you and no longer so introverted. But at the same time, let's not go too far.

    If you don't grasp the degree of humor well, it will make people look impolite. Therefore, when you communicate with boys, you must master the scale.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    At least for now, I don't want to associate or develop with you, so I will emphasize that you are just friends, and he has no good feelings for you, so it is difficult to say what will happen in the future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It should be, because the boy keeps emphasizing that the two of you are friends is mainly to remind you that you don't want to have other reveries and delusions. Moreover, if a boy is going to develop with further is not going to say so.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A boy always emphasizes that we are friends, do you not want to develop with me, I think this boy may be with you for a short time, and you haven't thought about it yet, you don't have to be busy, when I really get to the right person, he will confess, you don't have to worry.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Thank you for your question!

    Boys and girls sometimes get along well, but they don't necessarily turn their relationship into a couple. It's not that I don't like it, it's just that this kind of liking is not premised on falling in love and being together.

    The author believes that if two people can only be friends with good relations, then this relationship should be maintained, and there is no need to change to another relationship. If you force a change, you may not be able to maintain even the original friendship. So, the best way is to choose to respect the other person's choice.

    As for girls, you can find a relationship that truly belongs to you. Thank you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If a guy always emphasizes that you are friends, he doesn't want to continue to develop with you, but just as ordinary friends, it will not develop into a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    That's not sure enough about you, doesn't know what you think, and if he knows that you like him, and he says that, it's that he doesn't like you very much

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It means that he hasn't thought about dating you yet, but he hasn't developed into a girlfriend or lover relationship!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello, a boy always emphasizes that we are friends, which means that he is more reserved. As for whether you can develop to the point of falling in love, it depends on the development of the situation. If one day, when you really love to die and come back to life, he will naturally tell everyone.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Boys are better together, so they emphasize that they are friends, and hope that girls can pay attention to each other's feelings and be together and truly love each other.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, but he should like you as a friend and can talk to you more easily, but he doesn't want to be a lover with you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No, it's to see how you perform and give him the idea to move forward.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Is there such a possibility, he just happened to, unintentionally, and wanted to find a topic, so he mentioned it.

    If you don't suggest it, you can add more details, otherwise he will just mention it in your complaint, and he has no other intentions.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If a girl likes a boy, she will rely on the boy as her own and will treat the person she likes wholeheartedly. And the attitude is different from other boys. The first manifestation of the difference is to remember more clearly what the boy commands.

    If a girl is interested in a boy, as long as the boy explains something, she will record it in her heart, and occasionally provide you with some surprises. For example, you can do what you like, or give a surprise gift on your birthday. Another manifestation is that he will be very patient and gentle with men.

    Once a girl likes a man, she will be very patient with this man, and her usual savagery will become gentle, and she will accommodate the boy in everything in life. When a girl likes a boy, she thinks about him even after a breakup, and she will contact him from time to time. If a girl breaks up with you, but contacts you frequently and harasses you, it means that she is in love with you.

    Girls like boys' performance and always speak for boys in front of others. When a girl falls in love with a guy, she will often defend you in front of others. If you defend you in front of outsiders, it means that this girl likes you very deeply.

    There are four aspects of a girl's liking of boys, she will remember very clearly what the boy commands, be more patient and gentle with the boy she likes, and constantly harass and contact the boy when she breaks up, and counts or criticizes the boy in others.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. Hello dear. There is hope for the future. In this case, the other party is still in a period of confusion and has not yet come out of the hurt of the previous relationship.

    A guy said maybe we were better suited to be friends and wanted to be with me in his heart but didn't want to be with me in fact and said he didn't have me in his heart but he wanted to be with me because he didn't want to hurt me and treat me unfairly so he wasn't together, so there was hope between me and him He hasn't come out of the previous relationship yet.

    Hello dear. There is hope for the future. In this case, the other party is still in a period of confusion and has not yet come out of the hurt of the previous relationship.

    The advice is not to be in a relationship with him during this time, you can keep in touch with him, but not to be in a relationship with him. When he comes out, he'll take the initiative to find you.

    Dear, the damage caused by a failed relationship can be healed at least two or three months. So if you want to establish a relationship with him, wait two or three months before taking action.

    But we didn't talk anymore, and I didn't want to take the initiative to find him, I don't know what to say, but the main thing was that if I took the initiative to find him, he just posted it upside down, which was very humble, and I didn't want to, but I was afraid that this time I didn't contact each other and ended up being strangers, and we weren't in the same city.

    Dear, don't worry, people have a long life, and they won't become strangers because of a month or two of non-contact, and you have no grudges. So don't worry.

    I was also scared of other girls getting involved.

    Dear, if the problem of being in a different place is not solved, this risk will always exist. It is recommended that before falling in love and determining the relationship, you must first solve the problem of being in a different place.

    At the beginning we were together, and when we broke up today, he said he didn't have me in his heart, but he wanted to be with me again, but he had concerns, and finally he said that he couldn't be together.

    Dear, this situation is very good for the current situation, because for a long time, the two will have more and more contradictions, and in the end, the contradictions and quarrels will end in greater harm.

    I'm afraid that I won't talk in the end and really become a stranger.

    Dear, don't worry, as long as the two people who have been in love don't break up after a quarrel, they won't become strangers.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. Contact is the only way to generate a response. You try to contact and contact him, and you can't wait to come back if you are indifferent.

    A boy obviously likes you and wants to be with him, but he does say that it is not suitable, and it is impossible, so he can only be friends, and you say that you don't want to be friends, you just want to be right.

    It's frustrating. Why do you want to refuse when you like it, are you sure he really likes it?

    That is true. There was a guy who really wanted to be with me, and he was studying very well, so that it didn't interfere with his studies, and I told him that we couldn't be together, and he said, "Then be good friends." After that, he never came back to me and messaged me again. Why is that?

    After he was rejected by you, he didn't look for you and reply to the message, maybe he felt that he couldn't be friends if he couldn't be together, and he couldn't do it, so he could only alienate you to calm down. Do you like him?

    Like. Since you like it, let him feel it directly, don't refuse. The boy's thinking is more direct, he thinks that if you refuse, it will be fruitless.

    Two people together can also facilitate learning. If you refuse in order not to affect his learning, and you are reluctant to give up after refusing, it is better to accept it and go with the flow. You tell me?

    I don't know what to say to him anymore, we haven't talked in months.

    His mind is probably that you reject him and don't like him. Do you want to redeem it?

    Think. Contact is the only way to generate a response. You try to contact and contact him, and you can't wait to come back if you are indifferent.

    But I was afraid.

    What are you afraid of? It seems that you have the advantage in this relationship because he confessed to you first.

    Don't do things that backfire in the future, you can probably get what you want, at least not in your heart. <>

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