What counts as a decent living?

To ignore the opinions of others is to live a decent life. The focus is different, and the results are naturally different. When you feel very shameless, others don't care at all.

When you think it doesn't matter, others swarm and blow hard. So it's really tiring to be alive, I can see it, the most important thing is to be happy, and the so-called floating clouds can only be seen when I look up. Decency is the same, when you care about decency, that's when you feel about life.

Decent life, it shouldn't exist, sometimes you think that people live a decent life, have a car and a house, etc., but the parties still feel that it is not enough, and people think that they have to live a decent life. The key is what kind of attitude you have to look at this issue, and when you figure it out, decency has no meaning in existing. Write whatever comes to mind, maybe your thinking is a little messy.

Excuse me.

Maintain a certain relationship with the outside world, this relationship is still detached, have your own space, not big, enough to accommodate you and the people you love, the focus is also clean, you have to clean every day, not you clean the house, but clean your eyes and heart. Comfortable, healthy, have a certain amount of money, can resist the impermanence of life, this money should not be lent to anyone. Because maybe you need it tomorrow too.

It's comfortable to live in the moment, and it's thoughtful to think about tomorrow. This is what I call a decent life.

Some people think that as long as their food, clothing, housing and transportation are reasonable, it is also a decent life, while some people think that life should be vigorous, just like a person's wedding should be very lively, that is decent, and some people feel that life should be simple and plain, which is also decent. So I think it depends on what kind of life you like, whether you achieve what you want, and if you do, maybe it's decent.

The definition of decency is: when an individual's actions are recognized or praised by the time and space in which they live, in layman's terms, they can be divided into two kinds, one is external, that is, whose quality of life you take as the standard or who you think wants your quality of life to meet a certain standard (such as your parents, your wife and children) then this standard is decent for you, and the second is that you personally feel that your current quality of life is not good but not bad in contemporary society, and you are also satisfied, that is decency.

The body maintains basic health and soundness, can independently complete all behaviors involving privacy, economic income can support daily expenses, and have freedom, which should be the most basic decency Self-esteem, self-love, self-reliance and self-improvement, decency is not what others see, it is whether you are satisfied from the heart.

I think the word decent seems to be outward, it is to be recognized by others, you can buy more brand-name clothes for the first level of decency, and it is better to buy a car, and people who are not familiar with you will think you are decent. Of course, I think that true decency is when others see your rich inside, and feel that your outside is not important, that is true decency.

Perhaps in the eyes of many people, decency is how much money I have, how good my background is, how beautiful my clothes are...But the decency I experience is the performance from the inside out, and the embodiment of the strong inner appearance will be healthier and sunnier, you don't need to perform, what is shown to everyone is the so-called decency, low-key and unassuming.

Things can be content, and people are self-exalted without seeking quality" - Qing writer Ji Xiaolan first taught Chen Ziya, first quoting a particularly favorite sentence, and then come. The height of the temple, or the distance of the rivers and lakes, completely depends on one's own state of mind. Decency is for others in my understanding, but I don't care about other people's eyes at all.

Life is very simple, it is to live well. Having dreams, plans, goals, happiness, friends, and relatives is a good life. No dreams, no goals, no plans, few friends, no relatives, this is a boring life.

There is jealousy, hatred in the heart, resentment, sadness, and depression, which is a dangerous life. Of course, there is no guarantee that life is good, but it can guarantee that life is more exciting. In fact, in life:

There are dreams, slimness, plans, losses, goals, failures, happiness, sadness, friends, atmosphere, relatives, quarrels, jealousy, disputes, etc., life is more exciting. As long as you adjust yourself better in life, you can grasp good opportunities and experience life better. With permission** from.

Recently, I went back to the countryside on vacation, on the one hand, I took care of my old father's diet and daily life, and on the other hand, I went to see my fellow villagers, and I couldn't help but have a lot of feelings.

An elderly couple living with their son. He raised two children, the eldest was nearly fifty, and the two were forty-eight, and they each gave birth to a boy, both of whom worked in other places. It is said that he bought a house in the city and paid a down payment of more than 300,000 yuan.

It has not been renovated yet, and there is no object yet. Because of the pressure of my own life, I can't take care of my old parents. So the old couple lamented that life was stressful, and even said that they couldn't borrow their strength, so they had to go to the field every day to help the autumn harvest and pick up buds, and their hands hurt so much that they were tired.

The other is better, with children working in the city, and it is said that he has a small achievement, a car and a house. Every winter, the elderly go to the city to celebrate the New Year and help take care of the children. You can also bring back 20,000 yuan of New Year's money every year, which is very beautiful.

There is also an elderly person who has purchased pension insurance by himself, and does not rely on his children to provide for the elderly, but plans to spend the winter in a nursing home, and then return to the countryside to grow vegetables in the summer for himself and his children.

The above three old people are real examples of real life around us, telling us how to arrange our own life. As the saying goes, there is nothing more enjoyable than reading a book, and it is better than teaching a child. What kind of children to raise and what kind of life to choose are related to the happiness of two or even three generations.

I also once thought that decency meant driving a luxury car, wearing famous brands, and using luxury accessories, but later I realized that this kind of self-confidence built up with money could not allow me to really live a decent life, but used money to cover up my inferiority.

I have a roommate who is a girl, and I found that she has a lot of shine during our time in the room. One day I saw her coming back late with her phone leading to a supermarket shopping bag, and I asked her how many things she bought? She said that vegetables after eight o'clock in the supermarket are cheaper.

I thought she was frugal and had to go to the supermarket to buy discounted food. I saw her cooking in the kitchen, very simple instant noodles.

She also made her own scrambled eggs with tomatoes.

I saw her holding instant noodles and scrambled eggs with tomatoes.

Come out, I asked; The cooking is good, it's so fragrant. She said; Would you like to try it? I said no, I ate it. I suddenly felt that a bowl of instant noodles and a simple egg could be so fulfilling.

What is Decency? It is to be happy and happy in everything when you do what you can, because life is your own, and at the same time, you need to manage it yourself.

What is a truly decent life? It is a kind of intention for yourself and life, which allows you to be positive and optimistic in this utilitarian world, looking for a different kind of beauty of life.

What is a truly decent life? Even when you are alone, you must be responsible for your own life, never slack off, never relax, and not be lazy; Even when you are alone, you must learn to love yourself, you can also buy a bouquet of flowers, drink a glass of wine, and cook a sweet and delicious meal to comfort yourself. A person who can love himself has the ability to love others.

Uncle Ha's definition of a good job is: a job that can meet your needs is a good job.

If you want to buy a house and a car, and you want to earn a lot of money, then a high-paying job, a job that can make you grow quickly, is a good job, and it is worth doing.

If you want to find meaning in life, then a job that can give you a sense of accomplishment and enrich your heart is a good job, even if it is tiring and not even understood.

When you feel lost when you have difficulty choosing a career, you might as well ask yourself two: 1. What do I want; 2. What kind of person do I want to be?

I don't think there's anything wrong with pursuing a decent job, and there's no one who doesn't want to do a decent job and be glamorous.

But what I want to say is, don't blindly pursue a glamorous job, sometimes you have to recognize the reality, whether you can choose a decent job.

Why?

Because I want a lot of people to understand that decent work doesn't mean a decent life.

Some jobs are indeed very decent, no wind and sun, no dust and fumes, leave work on time, no KPIs....

Such a job is good, but the salary is often not high.

A very real problem: in today's era, you don't expect to live a happy life, just living an ordinary life is already very expensive.

It costs money to see a doctor, to buy a house, and to raise a child. Each one is not a small amount.

I have never been ashamed to talk about money, and I have never hidden my love for money, as long as it comes from the right way and is earned by ability, it is worthy of praise.

In my opinion, a truly decent job is not about how beautiful it looks, but about giving you the confidence and sense of accomplishment that you can take on the responsibilities that you should bear.

Sometimes, a person who has the ability to make the family live well is the one who has the ability.

What is not a dead life is a life with a dry and smiling face.