Why do you not know more until you lose?

Why is this kind of problem again?

Something we once thought was important to us was easily replaced by another object.

Some of the people we once thought were important to us were easily replaced by another person.

Many people and things that we thought we couldn't live without were gradually lost over the years, only to find out that they were irrelevant. We stressed its importance at one point, but in the end, it was no more than that.

People and things that we once tried our best to keep boring manuscripts have been polished beyond recognition by time.

Someone once told us that some things don't matter until they're lost.

Is that really the case? A lot of times, maybe those things that have been lost over the years have just been eliminated by time.

Discarding old things is like a rebirth.

Only by letting go of the old love can there be enough love for the newcomer, and only by throwing away the old things can there be a new attitude.

We make choices because of comparisons, and we eliminate old things because of choices.

People with a truly strong heart will be able to distinguish what is right and what is wrong, and they know how to choose to move on at a fork in the road in life.

Summary. Hello dear, people have a common disease, what you get will never be cherished, unless you lose something to prove its preciousness by disappearing. Some people always think that if they leave each other, the next one will be better, but in the end, they find that the first is the best.

The saddest thing in life is not that you have never had it, but that you once had it but lost each other because you didn't cherish it, leaving only your own regrets. What we already have has a low presence for us because we have become so used to it that we forget to care about the other person's feelings. If the other person suddenly disappears into your life one day, you never know that the last thing you see today may be the last time, and tonight is the last meal together.

Hello dear, people have a common disease, what you get will never be cherished, unless you lose something to prove its preciousness by disappearing. Some people always think that if they leave each other, the next one will be better, but in the end, they find that the first is the best. The saddest thing in life is not that you have never had it, but that you once had it but lost each other because you didn't cherish it, leaving only your own regrets.

What we already have has a low presence for us because we have become so used to it that we forget to care about the other person's feelings. If the other party suddenly disappears into your life one day, you will never know that the last person you will see today is Fan Huichun, and tonight we will have a meal together with Bihui.

Most of the "gains" in life do not make us happy, while the "losses" make us feel miserable. Therefore, people always know how to disturb and cherish after loss, because the pain brought by loss is far stronger than the joy brought by receiving dust songs. Some people always look at a mountain high, eat pie Li Zheng bowl and look into the pot, and when we miss the past, we often feel regretful, this is precisely because we don't know how to cherish the people in front of us.

Eh: There are a lot of philosophies involved in this question

It's a little dizzy

Losing should be the so-called letting go.

Whereas. To get it is to have it.

It's harder to have this than to let go. I think both are quite difficult. How can you fight and put it if you can't say it, you can't bear it in your heart, even if it's not because of the other party, you will be reluctant because of your emotional dedication.

Besides, you have to pay before you have it. You have to work hard to get everything, right? After all, there are still very few pie things. Only the parties concerned know best

So, these two questions are not very easy

It's all up to your own thoughts, and other people's opinions are just giving you advice on the side, and you need to think a lot about how to do it

Perhaps, he will never blame you, because you are the little girl he loves in his eyes, whether you are bullied or in difficulty, he will solve your worries, as long as you are happy, he will also be filial and happy in his heart, he will be very happy to see what you wrote today, because Xue Xue has grown up to stare at and guess, and she is already a sensible and understanding girl. There are regrets, there are sadness, and more is the silent missing, snow and snow, come on

Yes, there are some things or some things guess only some people, when people have it, they don't know how to cherish it, love it, once they lose it, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have already warned us, cherish what Zhen Zhaohui has now, and don't regret it until you lose it, but it's too late.

Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because I have been hurt, I won't be friends; It can only be the most familiar strangers. Love has been known, drunk has been drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately.

Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not.

What you hold in your hands is not necessarily what you really have; What you have is not necessarily what you really inscribe in your heart.

There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

For those who don't love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation, and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy. Don't let this turn into pain.

Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy. Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.