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Friends don't just come easily. Most of the camaraderie is exploited. So don't worry too much.
Just be yourself. If you feel like you have a clear conscience. Then look down on them.
I don't think it's necessarily true that a person can get someone else's affection if he has the right.
Thinking like this is a misunderstanding.
If you're really open and honest with each other. Then don't be afraid that you won't be able to call friends.
How did you become your squad leader? Was it a direct recommendation from a teacher?
Or is it a democratic campaign? If it's the latter, then people still appreciate your talent.
In fact, when you can't call friends, you have to summarize your own faults.
Is it your own shortcomings that discourage others?
Don't expect too much, because you can meet two bosom friends in this life.
It's already a great blessing.
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You can try this method, it's very practical.
That is, "first to understand others, and then ask others to understand you".
The specific way is not to rush to express yourself when interacting with others. Instead, we should listen more, listen carefully to what others say, feel the demeanor and tone of the other person's voice, and understand their inner feelings through the other person's words, rather than just listening to the surface, because everyone is eager to be understood.
For example, if a friend says to you, "What do you think of xx (a girl)?" ”
Just listen to the superficial words, and you might say "xx? She's good, how is she?"
That's when you feel differently about him. Because he thinks you really understand what he means.
In addition, it is necessary not to be humble or arrogant, not to be thousands of miles away from others, and not to please others.
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It's not a question of whether it's a friend at all, according to your requirements, you have to thank God for making five friends in your life, the current society, so things are based on interests
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Belch. Anyway, I am rarely hurt by others.
Maybe I can't understand the mood of the landlord.
Don't drink and meat friends, don't do it.
Now friends have no interests, they have always been bland, so it's also very good, talk about ideals, make jokes, don't have to be false and wronged, how good it is to intrigue.
It won't be like this in society.
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Don't be afraid that others don't know you Afraid that you don't have talent Friendship is also fate, learn to wait when you can't meet it, and cherish it even more when you meet it (You will not be lonely, come on.)
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Friendship is a very precious emotion in human society, it can make us feel love and support for each other, and it is an indispensable part of life. But sometimes, we inevitably lose some friendships, which can bring us pain and regret.
First, accept reality. Losing a friendship can make us feel lost, frustrated, and sad, but we must accept the reality and look forward. We need to realize that everyone has their own trajectory in life, and we can't be together forever.
We must learn to let go of the past and cherish the friendship of the present and the future.
Second, let go of resentment. Sometimes, pretending to be pure will cause disagreements and disputes with good friends for some reason, which will lead to the breakdown of friendship. However, we can't keep complaining and blaming each other, which will only make us more miserable.
We need to learn to be tolerant and understanding, let go of resentment, and take control of our emotions so that we can embrace a better future.
Third, try to communicate with the other person. If we really care about the friendship, we can try to communicate with the other person and understand the other person's thoughts and feelings. Perhaps, we will find out that everything is the result of a misunderstanding.
Through communication, we can reconnect and regain friendships.
Fourth, look for new friendships. Losing a friendship doesn't mean we've lost all of our friendships. We can meet new people by participating in social events, joining clubs, or volunteering.
New friendships bring us new experiences and joy, helping us to move on to the shadow of lost friendships faster.
Finally, cherish the people around you. Instead of dwelling on past friendships, we should learn to cherish the people around us. There may be many people around us who care about us and need our love and companionship.
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Friendship is a very transparent emotion, and it is necessary to trust each other very much and be honest. Friendship is a necessity in life, common but extremely precious, and it is precisely because of transparency and purity that after paying a lot of feelings, once it is hurt, the blow is very big. Once hurt, most people's reaction will be to no longer trust, friendship is because of the more, transparent and pure, so the more transparent and pure, the more you pay, the more fragile it is, and it is easy to lose a little hurt.
For the friendship that is pure and transparent like a crystal ball and infused with countless true feelings, a little damage will lose a lot, and the injury will be very deep. Sometimes it's even comparable to love, you can imagine that friendship will hurt deeper than love, and after giving your heart completely, you find that you are betrayed, or even a **, the loss of friendship is not like love just separated without feeling, but the two have something in common. Because they have paid a lot, the wound is deeper.
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Hehe, this is quite difficult, because it is different for everyone. For example, this friend should have a different way of dealing with another friend.
How to get friendship, my personal opinion is: first, sincerity, heart for heart. And then there's the common experience, which is quite important.
The reason why the relationship between classmates or comrades-in-arms in society is so precious is because common experience plays a role.
Sometimes you will find that friends only come to you when they need them, in fact, this is quite normal and lacking. In fact, there must not be many friends who usually come and go, because we don't have so much time, most of them are pretending to be hungry and have something to get together, of course, we usually need to contact occasionally.
You feel taken advantage of, and I think it can be seen from your friend, maybe he's not a friend worth giving too much to. Of course, if a lot of people give you this feeling, then you have to reflect on yourself, maybe something is wrong with you?
That's it.
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Nature! You can't enjoy all the good things alone!
I'm just enjoying friendship and longing for love!
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Yikes
What is love for sentimental people?
It's a bowl of dishes! ~
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It depends on how you choose?
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