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The wife is too strong, it is generally a superficial phenomenon, there is no woman who does not want to get the care and love of her husband, strong women are fragile in their hearts, so as a husband, they should express their love more, give their wives more comfort, care and love, and overcome rigidity with softness, in the face of love, no matter how strong the wife will become, she will become gentle.
If as a husband, he feels that he has paid more for the family, feels that he is more capable, and has a good job, that is, because his personality is more gentle, the wife does not care about her husband's feelings, and is blind and strong, in this case, the husband should communicate with his wife at the appropriate opportunity, give his wife a little reminder, talk about his feelings, don't suppress himself, his wife knows, and will naturally change a little.
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There is no perfect marriage in this world, and 99% of harmonious marriages are based on mutual understanding and understanding after communication and exchange. If you think your wife can't communicate, you don't have to communicate anymore, just treat it like air. By the way, is this really possible?
How far can your marriage go in this way? Woman, I think it is still an animal that needs to be coaxed, and raising a pet also needs to be petted often, affectionate, nicknamed, patiently fed and cared for, not to mention a woman with complex emotions. Speaking of landlord, objective me, can you accept your wife's correct views and concepts?
Do you think accepting a woman's point of view is a sign of cowardice? How long has it been since you went shopping with your wife? Are you playing the role of a mentor?
I haven't seen you mention your wife's kindness to you from beginning to end, have you become accustomed to her kindness to you, or even ignored it? In fact, no matter how terrible a woman looks, she is actually a wounded heart that is erupting. A happy woman must have a man to rely on behind her.
Landlord, when she married you, she must have trusted you to give her happiness, right? You may think that material money, family background is the root of all conflicts, you are wrong, and the heart you put into marriage is very important to women. Unless she is so poor that she has no face to see people, and she is deceived before marriage and learns the truth after marriage, a woman will not break out frequently for the sake of material things, and most of them are emotionally unsatisfied.
If you can't afford a decent gift, make a DIY gift for her. Let me tell you a little secret: life is very trivial, sometimes women will be anxious, if you put your mind into it, she doesn't realize it.
Don't blame her, she faced all this complicated things because she chose to marry you. You might as well tell him softly every time you spend your thoughts on her, in time, before going to bed that day: What did I do today, I thought, you can be happy, happy, and relaxed when I do this.
I don't know if I do this, do you feel happy and relaxed? Hehe, you will definitely receive unexpected results. Modern women, as long as they are not financially inseparable from each other, will not always tolerate the other party and take cold treatment against her.
If you want to divorce and divorce quickly, treat it coldly and fight coldly every day. If you want to make your home more warm and warm, or if you want to find the gentle and lovely wife you met at the beginning, you might as well take the first step in communication according to the method I said. This is difficult for men, but you must not associate communication with cowardice, and men who can't even coax their wives will be laughed at by the same sex outside.
At this point, only after you are divorced, will you find that all men who are happily married use sweet words in exchange for ease, tenderness, and a warm home. I'm afraid that **** can't be an exception, and he can't blindly deal with the conflict between husband and wife.
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Being strong is not a problem The question is whether there is a reason to be strong behind the strength If it is vexatious, the solution to the problem is 1 Beat violently 2 If the woman continues to be strong 3 Still strong and fight again until you can't be strong 4 Divorce directly Ask the law to help you.
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Forbearance, 100 forbearance into gold, ninja invincible, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles! You can't fight like this.
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What should I do if I encounter a strong girl?
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First of all, I want to state that I am not a man, but as a woman, I am definitely a strong person, so I will help men analyze and analyze how to get along with a wife like me from the perspective of a strong person, or share with you the more successful mode of getting along with my husband and me.
As a label that I have grown up with for many years, it seems that from the beginning of school to the beginning of work and marriage, it has always been with me, I think that the good thing that strong people say is to be assertive, dare to say and dare to do, and to say it is ugly, that is, to be self-centered, not to consider other people's feelings, not to accept other people's ideas and suggestions, and even to interfere with other people's actions.
1.Be assertive and show weakness appropriately
For the strong me, I have to be more serious in everything, admit death, often do not take into account his face problems, for example, I will force my husband to smoke less, at least not in front of me, go out to eat with friends, if he smokes at the dinner table, he will ask me for instructions first, and my friends are also accustomed to it, thinking that he is a strict wife.
In fact, my husband does the same to the outside world, and what he often says is: A good man is not afraid of his wife, but respects his wife. The reason why I want to ask for instructions for smoking is because I know that my wife is for my good.
In many cases, on many things, my husband will discuss with me to make a decision, and it is also on the premise of guaranteeing the tone and attitude, and if I start to disagree, he will change the time, change the way, and say it again, until I also approve of his approach.
In short, have your own ideas, but keep showing weakness, step by step.
2.Pay attention to the attitude and overcome the rigid with softness
For strong people, they are generally bodhisattvas, how strong they are on the outside, how soft they are on the inside, and such people generally respect me an inch, I respect people a foot, and meeting such a wife can be said to be a great blessing in life.
Because when you meet such a wife, as long as you ensure that your attitude is good enough, enough to put your heart into your heart, and do your best to give her the best, she is easy to be satisfied and moved, such as my husband.
He would always want to bring me local specialties on a business trip, and on the way to work, he would buy those things that I casually said I wanted to eat, and some of the things I forgot I said I wanted to eat yesterday. On a thunderstorm, he would pick me up from work at work because he knew I was afraid of thunder. When you have a cold and fever, he will never say "drink more hot water" perfunctory, but must deliver the medicine to your bedside, cool the water to the right temperature, and serve it to you together.
Even if I am aggressive and self-centered in everything, I will always consider him as much as possible, and I think my husband has done the ultimate in overcoming rigidity with softness. For a strong wife, this is the best wrist.
As the saying goes, people's hearts are flesh and blood, as long as you can compare your heart to your heart and understand her deeply, even if you are a strong wife, you will definitely be able to get along happily. After all, married life is not a chess game, there is no confrontation, there is no game, only mutual affection, hand in hand to the end.
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After getting married, what should I do if I find out that my wife is very strong?
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This is a blessing for you. It's just that you have to be a little more tolerant of your lover. She has a violent personality, but she loves you. So, having a strong wife is a good sign.
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My wife is strong, as long as I am still centered on you in front of outsiders, and I will consider you for face, then don't worry. But if you're like that even in front of outsiders, then you must find a time to talk to her.
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On the 2nd floor, I would like to ask you, what should you do if you encounter a woman who has nothing to do and is angry with a man? I just want to be a friend of mine who is small to big, his wife goes to work, the team leader troubles her, she helps her all in her heart, and when my friend comes home, she scolds him, can you pet such a woman? How should I be petted?
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First of all, don't go head-to-head with her.
As the saying goes, a good man is a good man if he doesn't fight with a woman, and a man who doesn't fight with his wife is a good man. A strong woman is definitely unwilling to admit defeat, even if she is required to be light in many things, she is undoubtedly playing with fire, a little unexpected, afraid that it will only lead to fire, the two sides are hard, and they are doing it, which is also an important test for their own marriage foundation, no matter how they run in with each other, there must be contradictions, once the contradictions intensify, they will weaken your emotional foundation, so as a generous and responsible man, it is best not to choose thankless things, and do not go toe-to-toe with her.
To retreat as advance, soften her strength.
This is an effective way to deal with a strong wife; While avoiding contradictions, she strained her fighting spirit. Some strong women, when quarreling with their husbands, like to have the upper hand, do not accept softness, and do not bow their heads, in the face of such a strong woman, we take a step back The effect may be better, do not care about small things, and be more tolerant of big things, over time, she realizes less strong and less contradictions, and naturally will not target you for no reason. No matter how strong a woman is, she can't resist the "soft grinding and hard bubble".
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First of all, in a family, everyone has a position where they should be, the combination of men and women is the cooperation of yin and yang, women are too strong, the impact on the family is not very good, it will affect the harmony of the family, women belong to yin, should be soft. With men as the main and men as the mainstay, the luck and financial luck of the whole family will be more prosperous in all aspects, and the family atmosphere will be more harmonious.
But many times, when the woman is too strong, we men should not blame the woman, we should first examine ourselves, whether we are responsible enough in the family, responsible enough, do many things need to be solved by the daughter-in-law, to face? In terms of their own ability, do they still need to improve? In fact, many women don't like to be women, they are forced out by life.
As the saying goes, being a mother is strong, she is not strong, she is not strong, who will carry it for her.
Every woman hopes that she has someone to rely on and can rely on, and she can be a beautiful little woman according to others. But often many times, because of the man's ability, various reasons do not meet the responsibility of a family, the woman must support the family, she will appear stronger. Then if she is too aggressive and puts pressure on you, you can try to communicate with her.
In the process of communicating with your daughter-in-law, you can tell him what will happen in the family in the future. Leave it to you, you have the ability to solve it, let him believe in you, and at the same time, you yourself must work hard to improve your ability in private, so that you have enough ability to solve all aspects of family life, in this way, slowly put yourself. Adjust back to a dominant one-family status.
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The wife is too strong, you have to know how to pay care.
The wife is too strong, which means that under normal circumstances, the wife pays more, the husband may not be as good as the wife in terms of ability, the wife is a little lost, and she will become strong, no woman is willing to work so hard, so strong, so as a husband, you should take more responsibility, more for the family, share some for the wife's work, etc., pay a little more for yourself, take more care of your wife, and naturally the two of you will be able to get along in harmony and be safe.
The wife is too strong, you have to know how to remind it properly.
If as a husband, he feels that he has paid more for the family, feels that he is more capable, and has a good job, that is, because his personality is more gentle, the wife does not care about her husband's feelings, and is blind and strong, in this case, the husband should communicate with his wife at the appropriate opportunity, give his wife a little reminder, talk about his feelings, don't suppress himself, his wife knows, and will naturally change some.
The wife is too strong, you have to know how to break out occasionally.
As a wife, if she is too strong, regardless of her husband's feelings, regardless of her husband's self-esteem, she often counts her husband, and her husband is not a lazy person, a person with weak and stupid ability, the husband can't always indulge his wife, so that his wife doesn't know how to respect others, and has been weak and tolerant.
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Do you think your wife's strength is really strong? If I just say that he is confident and assertive about some things, I don't think it's too strong. Of course, even if she is particularly strong and assertive, she should respect your ideas, so you can have a good chat with her, you can tell her what you feel uncomfortable with, hoping to get her respect and recognition in the future, I think if your wife likes you and really thinks about you, she will definitely listen.
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Let me tell you my personal opinion, in a family, men and women match, work is not tired, this everyone knows, but it is not good for a person to control all the decision-making power, you can slowly change her, after all, she is also used to being strong, you talk about your own ideas, change slowly, don't be in a hurry, communicate with your daughter-in-law more, and you must find a way that she can accept when making decisions, which will be better.
The wife is too strong, it is generally a superficial phenomenon, there is no woman who does not want to get the care and love of her husband, strong women are fragile in their hearts, so as a husband, they should express their love more, give their wives more comfort, care and love, and overcome rigidity with softness, in the face of love, no matter how strong the wife will become, she will become gentle. >>>More
Then you should communicate with him, after all, husband and wife can't always go toe-to-toe.
My wife is relatively strong, of course, the one that is strong at home and not too strong outside. My daughter and I usually tolerate my wife, and everyone in the family is basically the same, of course, there are many times when I can't stand the quarrel, but in the end, I coax and let go, and my wife is angry. There are also serious enough that they want to divorce, but they still haven't said it later. >>>More
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