On the fifth day of my breakup, he texted me and asked how I was doing

After breaking up, I found that I was reluctant to save the other party, and I still wanted to save the other party, but I didn't know how to save it?

I believe many people don't understand what kind of mentality is needed in the recovery process. Because most people's first reaction after a breakup is to be restless, and then they will be cranky, and some even can't control their emotions, and will be angry or weak and kneel and lick. Such a mentality is quite unfavorable for recovery.

In the process of redemption, you have to have a strong belief that the separation between you is only temporary, and that she is not the best in your heart. You must understand that men and women are equal, although you are at fault, but it does not mean that all the faults are on you, you can admit and correct your own mistakes, but it does not mean that you can take all the faults on yourself.

Many students will have a question when they see this: Obviously, I love her very much, and I will only redeem her if I regard her as a true daughter, why do I want to treat her as not the best in my heart now? Well, if you take her too seriously, will you constantly expose your sense of need in the process of recovery, and it is easy to have emotional fluctuations because of her, thereby lowering your own value, which is very detrimental to your recovery.

Then, be sure to figure out the reasons for the breakup, not only to understand the fuse of the breakup, but also to know what the fundamental problem is between you. In this way, we can know ourselves and our opponents in the follow-up recovery, so as to win all battles. In the process of redemption, know that you are equal to each other, so that you can avoid too many inappropriate behaviors in the process of redemption.

The process of adjusting the mindset is very hard, but it is also very necessary and the most important thing, since you have decided to redeem it, then you need to pay 200% determination and perseverance, so that is the first step to success.

The mentor wrote some experiences and experiences in redeeming love in ***wanhuimiji. If you want to save true love, you can ***** the book "Saving the Standardized Process". There are many ways to redeem (the freezing rule, the three-three-three chat method, the puzzle theory), and how to get along with the object more harmoniously.

I guess it's just about you, nothing.

After a breakup, if the fundamental problem is not solved, even if you get back together, there is a high probability that you will be unhappy, and you are likely to break up in the end. So, you don't have to care what he thinks, what you should do is to block and then delete it first, completely disconnect, and don't let him affect your life anymore!

Your boyfriend can't forget you after breaking up with you. So I will send you a text message, but I think it's not good, because we broke up, so I told you not to reply to his text message. It's a very ambivalent psychology.

He definitely can't let go of you, and he really still misses your feelings, so he will look for opportunities to contact you and want to get your response, so don't think about giving up if you still have feelings.

And the two of them are also fate together, and they really should learn to cherish it.

If he often texts you after you break up with your boyfriend, it means that he is still nostalgic for you, but he is worried that it will affect you, so he wants you not to reply to the message.

Maybe your boyfriend just wants to break up with you completely, or doesn't want the two of you to have any such connection, so I don't think you need to contact your boyfriend, or break up with the other person.

It shows that your boyfriend hasn't really let go of you, and he still has you in his heart. After he lost you, he may regret it a little, and he will miss you, so he will send you a message.

When a guy sends you this message, how are you lately? He's probably still thinking of you. He may have calmed down for a while after breaking up with you and found that he couldn't bear you, but after a while, she was still more in tune with you, so he would send you this message to find out how you were doing.

How is it going? It's a lot like a conversation between two friends, but this sentence is given a lot of new meaning when placed in a couple who have broken up. As long as you observe carefully and find out carefully, you may find that this man still has a crush on you.

When a man messages you and says can we go back in time? This shows that she still has a crush on you. Can we ever go back in time?

These few words fully express his feelings for you. After he broke up with you, he still thinks that you are good or can't do without you, so he wants to ask you to get back together. This is a man who says very bluntly to you.

They are saying this with sincerity and redemption.

After a breakup, a person texts you and says they want you to be happy. Then he still misses you. A blessing she expresses to you when she wishes you happiness.

I really want you to do well. When a man expresses his heartfelt blessings to you, he is really good to you. He really misses you, and he still misses you.

Just imagine, if a man has really forgotten about you, then he will no longer care about you and take care of you, will no longer ask you anything about you, and will no longer care about whether you are happy or not, whether you are doing well or not. Wishing you blessing is also an expression of his love for you. I also want to ask you if you are doing well, if you are not happy, then he will come to you and give you the happy life you want.

If at this time, you still have a trace of thoughts about him, and you still want to get back together with him, then please say it decisively and don't let each other miss out.

When a man who has broken up with you sends you messages, can we still be friends? He may also be obsessed with you. A couple who has broken up can still be friends, which means that she still has a memory for you, and he still wants to maintain a friend relationship with you.

So when a man who has broken up still says this to you, he still misses you.

Love is not smooth sailing, it will always go through many tribulations to reach the other side we want. In this way, you may meet a lot of people and many things, they may become your future bonds, but there must be a person who is the most suitable for you, who can reach your last shore with you and join hands with you for a lifetime. Please cherish the people around you and don't let each other miss out and leave a lifetime of regrets.

I can't say love, at least not hate. There are several possibilities for this situation, one is that he wants to redeem it and convey his care by sending messages every once in a while; The second is that he is thick-skinned, whether he is in a big heart, boring or other situations, "initiative" is the embodiment of a person who breaks (or does not) arrogance and principles. By the way, the "want to redeem" in the first case is not necessarily love, but may also be a derivative behavior of emotions such as unadaptability and unwillingness.

However, since I send you a message, at least it means that I don't dislike you, because disgust will run away, like avoiding stinky......

I don't feel like I love you, but I want to torture you, such a person, just not happy in my heart, if I really love you, I will definitely find you in time, or cut off contact directly, and I won't harass you.

He doesn't love you anymore and only sends you messages because he's used to you being around him, and the sudden departure makes him a little uncomfortable, so he does it.

Love needs to rely on each other, which is the deepest love; To love you is to be willing to accompany you to do boring things; To love someone, it is enough to love to seven points, too much love is not love, but great harm; Good love is when you see the whole world through one person, bad love is when you give up the world for one person....Love, to promise, but also to persevere. Family affection is the weakest, but also the longest, irreplaceable, but sometimes it can be left out of the first place, and it can be remedied. Can always return.

Friendship is the strongest, but also the deepest, may be diluted, but can not be forgotten, sometimes it will deteriorate, or even reversed, but it can be basically relied on. Love is the strongest, and it is also the easiest to change, time will dilute but if true love will not disappear. The problem is that it can be replaced, and not everyone can be relied on at all times.

Depending on the situation, the importance of the three is different. In the overall consideration of life, the order that you can always have is the order of the questions, and the order that you feel is the most obvious is the reverse order. What you can't cut off is family affection, what you can't forget is friendship, and what you can't remember is love.

There is no exact answer to this question, after all, I don't know them.

Let's give you a literal answer.

The person who sends you messages every once in a while after a breakup, he can be separated from you because he regrets it, you don't like him or his parents don't agree, etc., so he doesn't want to disappear in your world, so he always sends you messages to brush up on his sense of existence.

But he can also be separated from you and have no thoughts about you, so he doesn't care that you have been together, and he lets go of the past and seriously treats you as an ordinary friend.

After the breakup, the person who has no news, he can love you very much, so he silently withdraws from your world, so that you can rest assured that the past will run to the next person without worries.

But he can also not love you, but hope that you are doing well, or he doesn't want to have anything to do with you anymore, and make an end with you and the past, completely withdraw from your world, and separate everything from you.

In the end, I think that whether it is the person who sends you messages every now and then after a breakup loves you, or the person who has no news after a breakup loves you, you don't have to care, you just need to know who the person you love and who the person you want to spend the rest of your life with is good, don't dwell on the past, adjust yourself, clear your heart, and meet the next person who loves you (you love).

That should be the person who will message you after the breakup, and will love it even more.

The ex still cares about your performance:

Clause. One, you can still reach him.

Although he may no longer reply to your message, he will answer it if you call **, or he does not block you, then it means that he has not ruthlessly cut off contact with you.

In this age of the Internet, it is very simple to contact someone, but if the other person wants to cut off contact with you, there must be a way to completely disappear from your life.

As long as you are still in his address book, you can still contact him, which shows that he still has a trace of reluctance in his heart for you.

Even if he blocked you when he broke up, but then secretly added it back, and insincerely told you that if you can't be a couple, then be friends, this kind of performance shows that he can't forget you in the short term.

Clause. Second, the breakup was not told to anyone.

Although you have broken up, he has not told anyone the news that you have broken up, and his relatives and friends still think that you are still a couple.

As long as the breakup is not made public, he will leave you room to redeem it.

If he is still willing to contact your family and friends and does not expose the breakup, then he will definitely not be able to let go of you, and he may just be angry for a while!

Clause. 3. No status related to you has been deleted.

I believe that many couples are eager to let the world know that you are together when they are in love, and there will always be a show of affection in the circle of friends from time to time.

But for a period of time after the breakup, he did not delete the affection that he had shown in the circle of friends, and the state related to you is still there, indicating that he is still nostalgic for the time with you.

If you have a couple's avatar and he hasn't changed his avatar yet, then this possibility is even greater, and if you want to get him back, you have to seize the opportunity.

After the breakup, the person who sends you a message every other day loves you or the core of the breakup, my hero's person loves you, then it must be the person who sends a message every other day who loves you more, and the person who has no news must not have you in his heart.

Now that we've broken up, I hope both parties don't bother each other anymore. The person who sends you a message every once in a while, although he has not forgotten you, he may just be dependent on you, and after the breakup, they will be fine, and it is better to be the most familiar stranger.

I think since we broke up, we have to break up cleanly. People who send messages every once in a while. I think I'm just harassing you. I don't really love you. People who don't hear from you don't necessarily love you. If you really love, you won't break up.

Now that they have broken up, sometimes not bothering is also a sign of love, and some people may feel that two people have broken up, so there is no need to bother anymore.

I feel that it should be sent to you every once in a while, you should love you, or like you, you still have you in your heart, and I can't let go of you, so I will always send you messages.

After the breakup, send a message to your lover the next day, or the person on WeChat loves you in the second after the breakup, I don't understand what this sentence means? After breaking up, it means that two people are looking for their own happiness!

I feel like the person who hasn't heard from you since the breakup, and I love you because he's already a very strange person to you, and then he doesn't want to message you.

I broke up, and I still send you messages every once in a while, I don't think it's too interesting to send you a message since we've broken up.