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Su Dongpo was a famous literary scholar in the Northern Song Dynasty, and he had a good relationship with the monk Huairen of Baiyun Temple at that time, and they admired each other very much. But when the two were together, they often quarreled, and a lot of humorous stories were circulated.

One day, Su Dongpo went to play with Monk Huairen again, and as soon as he entered the temple gate, he shouted loudly: "Where is the bald donkey?" ”

When Monk Huairen saw that it was Su Dongpo, he smiled and said, "Dongpo eats grass." ”

The story of Boya and Zhongzi. Boya is good at guqin, and Zhong Ziqi is good at listening to the qin.

Boya is good at drumming and piano, and Zhong Ziqi is good at listening. Boya drum and piano, aiming at the high mountains, Zhong Ziqi said: "Good, like Mount Tai!" Aiming at flowing water, Zhong Ziqi said: "Good, like a river!" "What Boya reads, Zhong Zi will get.

This is the story of the famous Boya meeting a "bosom friend" in history.

In addition: Chen Taiqiu and his friends are on the line, in the middle of the period, and if they don't arrive, Taiqiu will go. Go after and even.

Yuan Fang was seven years old at the time, and he was playing outside the door. The guest asked Yuan Fang: "Is the monarch here?"

He replied: "If you don't come for a long time, you're gone." The friend said angrily

Inhuman! Walk with people and go away. Yuan Fang said:

The king and the family are in the middle of the day, and if they do not arrive in the middle of the day, they are not trustworthy; It is rude to rebuke the son to the father. ”

Friends are ashamed, get out of the car and lead it. Yuan Fang entered, regardless of it.

Guan Zhong and Uncle Bao.

The reason why Guan Zhong can become a hegemon is inseparable from Uncle Bao's intellectual talent and good recommendation. Guan Zhong said movingly in his later years: "I did business with Uncle Bao and made more money, he didn't think I was greedy; Working with Uncle Bao, I did things badly, and he didn't think I was stupid; I fled from my position three times, and he did not think that I was cowardly and afraid of death; I was expelled as an official, and he didn't think I was unscrupulous; I assisted my son in being imprisoned and humiliated, and he didn't think I was ashamed .......

The parents of those who gave birth to me, and Bao Zi, who knows me! Guan Zhong has a good friend Bao Shuya, and the two have a deep friendship. The two of them went into business together.

When he made money in business, Guan Zhong always gave more to himself and less to Uncle Bao. And Uncle Bao never bothered with Guan Zhong about this. In this regard, people talked behind their backs that Guan Zhong was greedy for money and did not talk about friendship, and after Uncle Bao knew about it, he explained for Guan Zhong, saying that Guan Zhong did not talk about friendship, but only greedy for money, and he did this because his family was poor, and I was willing to give him more money.

Guan Zhong participated in the battle three times, but all three times he escaped from the battle. Therefore, people ridiculed him, saying that Guan Zhong was greedy for life and afraid of death, and did not have the spirit of brave sacrifice, after Bao Shuya heard this ridicule, he knew that this was not in line with Guan Zhong's actual situation, so he explained to people that Guan Zhong was not afraid of death, because his family had an elderly mother, and he relied on him to support him alone, so he had to do that. Guan Zhong's friendship with Uncle Bao is very sincere, and he has also tried to do some good things for Uncle Bao many times, but it has not been done; Not only did it not be done, but it caused a lot of new difficulties for Uncle Bao, so it is better not to do it well.

Therefore, people think that Guan Zhong has no ability to do things, but Uncle Bao doesn't see it that way, he understands in his heart that his friend Guan Zhong is a very capable person. It didn't work out because the opportunity wasn't ripe. In the long-term relationship, the two of them have formed a deep friendship, and Guan Zhong has told people many times:

It was my parents who gave birth to me, and it was Uncle Bao who knew me.

You can go and see Mr. Yu Qiuyu's "Distant Sound".

It is written about the dating stories of Ji Kang and Ruan Ji, Shan Juyuan, etc.

During the period of Yu Boya and Zhongzi, because the bosom friend was gone, Yu dropped the piano and stopped playing.

cut off the robe and cut off the table, because he has different beliefs from his friends, and he will no longer live with him.

Taoyuan Sanjieyi cannot be born on the same day and month of the same year, but he wants to die at the same time in the same month and year.

Boyazi period Boyazi period is a story that tells a story that is difficult to find, and Yu Boya and Zhong Ziqi are a pair of best friends who have been recited through the ages. Yu Boya is good at playing, and Zhong Ziqi is good at appreciating. This is where the word "bosom friend" comes from.

After Zhong Zi died of illness, Yu Boya was very sad, thinking that his bosom friend was dead, and no one in the world would be able to experience the artistic conception of his performance like Zhong Zi Qi. So, I stopped playing the piano for the rest of my life.

Baoyu and Daiyu, Baoyu and Baochai, Baoyu and Miaoyu.

Mountains and rivers make a good story.