My feelings of communicating with parents 10

I feel like I talk to parents a lot.

Then, I wanted to sum up a set of methods.

1.Don't think that just one talk can change a lot. Talk about it once, just to get to know the child's situation.

2.Parents must be allowed to say more, exposing parents' educational thinking, including the places where education is good and rough, and the misunderstandings of education.

3.Mr. Deng has worked hard.

4.Affirming parents' good motives and pointing out parents' good motives, but there is no good way, this is counterproductive. Let the parents be happy first, and be motivated to listen to you.

5.Insist on positive education. Insist that parents see their children's strengths and shining points, and realize that every child actually has a heart for the better.

And then the shortcomings, the child himself wants to change. It's just that the child himself is not capable enough, not energetic enough, and does not have the courage and wisdom to objectively understand himself and change himself.

Therefore, parents are guides and supervisors. Therefore, parents themselves must have the wisdom of guidance.

6.Treat problems as opportunities for growth, and give growth opportunities to children.

Teach parents not to be all-encompassing.

The all-encompassing here is not only the organizational level of clothing, food, housing and transportation. It also includes the spiritual level, don't carry any problems of the child!

The child's problem is actually the child's own business, and the responsibility should be returned to the child, and the child's own problem-solving ability should also be exercised, and the spiritual giant baby cannot be cultivated. Here's how:

1.Throw out the problem: Let the child describe the problem, and if the child can't describe it, then the parent will add it.

2.Say what you feel: Let your child say how you feel, and adults say what they feel. (Give enough time for the little ones to feel here, don't be in a hurry).

3.Say what you think: The most important thing is for the child to speak up and the adult to add the idea.

4.Develop a solution: With the foreshadowing ahead, the little ones won't resist.

You can ask the child to say the solution by the side of the mountain. A lot of kids are smart and can think of better ways than you think. At the same time, we must exercise the child's thinking ability and execution ability.

5.Execution of the program.

6.In the middle of the operation, the whole plan of Yan Weizai was adjusted: nothing can be done in one step, and it is normal to encounter setbacks.

7.Regular wrap-ups.

The experience of communicating with parents: sincere communication, close contact, respect for parents, enhance understanding, encourage help, do a good job of cooperation, treat each other with sincerity, and abandon utilitarianism.

1. Sincere communication and close contact

Teachers should take the initiative to communicate with parents enthusiastically, and build a bridge of mutual trust between the two sides in their hearts to strive for effective cooperation from parents. Hold parent-teacher conferences; Parent Open Day; Parent-child sports meetings and other activities, through these activities to shorten the distance between parents and teachers, and strengthen the relationship between children and parents. Individual counseling activities for parents can also be carried out on a regular basis to help parents solve practical problems.

2. Respect parents and enhance understanding

In the practice of education, there are many non-cooperation between teachers and parents, which is largely caused by teachers' lack of respect for parents or incomprehension between the two parties. Teachers should not put on a posture of educational authority, or overtly or covertly attack parents, so that parents are reluctant to approach.

3. Encourage and help, and do a good job of cooperation

In order to make parents and teachers better cooperate, teachers should encourage parents to establish confidence in education, help parents improve educational literacy, teachers should understand students' parents in many aspects, take different measures according to the different situations of students' parents, and should help parents specify educational plans and clarify the direction of education.

4. Treat each other with sincerity and abandon utilitarianism

The interaction between teachers and parents is to educate students and cultivate the needs of students' growth, not for utilitarian purposes, for example: some parents send their children to kindergarten, that is, they hope to get more care and preference from teachers for their children. Therefore, try everything to please the teacher, find out which one is the "supervisor" in the class, and which one is easier to talk to, and find a way or use the holiday to give the teacher:

meaning meaning".

Thank you to Tao Xinyun's father for coming to school this afternoon. We had a communication and exchange about the education of children.

Based on the characteristics of the child and the family situation, we have reached the following common understanding:

1.Parents have the obligation and responsibility to discipline their children, but they must pay attention to methods, not excessive coercion, and not let them go. Parents should be on the same page in managing their children. Otherwise, the child will not know who to listen to.

2.The fundamental purpose of education management is to allow children to develop their own learning habits. Therefore, children must have relatively independent time and space to learn well.

Try not to have toys, mobile phones, computers, or TVs in the study room, and parents should not make any noise that is not conducive to their children's learning. Just check the learning results.

3.When your child wants to search for questions with his mobile phone if he doesn't know how to do it, he must tell him to wait until his homework is written until there are only questions that need to be searched. Try not to search, especially for elementary school students, and don't let your child ask the teacher.

4.The requirements for children should be lower, for example, if the child is not able to learn all subjects well, you can slow down and let the child choose one to learn first, and the rest is not too bad. Because learning the same well is better than learning anything badly, which fight is stronger.

In fact, there is no other subject as a foundation, and it is difficult to learn one well. Saying this can boost your child's self-confidence.

5.Detect and reward your child's progress and good performance in a timely manner, and Kina should punish your child's bad habits. Punishment should grasp the principle of proportionality and effectiveness.

For example, if your child completes a learning task or has other good behavior, reward him with more than half an hour of TV. Otherwise reduce the amount of TV he watches for half an hour.

6.The requirements for children should be realistic, and children should not be asked to correct all problems at once. It's better to make a plan, and it's better to change one than not to change the other.

In short, children's education needs to be done hand in hand with home and school, and with your participation, our education can do better.

It is recommended that parents communicate with their children before they come back to find out what problems you want me to help you solve so as not to waste our precious time.

1. Warm-up steps before communication.

1. Greet students in a pleasant tone.

2. Observe words and colors, determine students' mood and time to speak.

3. Ask for the student's opinion and ask if you can talk to him now.

4. Try to start with topics that interest students.

2. Listen to students.

There must be a reason for everything. There is a valid reason behind every abnormal behavior of a student. They may be venting negative emotions caused by mental or physical trauma, or they may be calling for attention to help them vent better.

3. Thank you for your willingness to share.

Express gratitude to students for their communication efforts. On the one hand, it will show respect for him, and at the same time, it will also encourage him to communicate with you again next time.

Fourth, being a consultant is not a good leader.

Replace "You should ......You can't ......"Instead" I suggest you can consider ......, I remind you ......What could be a downside ....... In this way, students will feel respected and cared for by their teachers.

5. Students are angry, but you stay calm.

If a student gets angry and gets excited, you must not dance with it. At this time, the teacher's highest behavior is that the hotter you are, the colder I am.

1. Emotions are contagious, and the teacher's calmness will gradually have a positive stabilizing effect on students, which will help students restore their peace of mind.

During the holidays, the school has a unique program to communicate with parents, and here are my personal feelings about this activity. First of all, when educating children, we must give full play to the function of family education, and the responsibility of educating children should be shared by parents and children, and neither of them should give up their own responsibilities. There is a division of labor and cooperation in the education of children, and there should be no unilateral monopoly of "power"; only when parents and children share the responsibility for education can it be possible to give full play to the educational function of the family in an all-round way.

Secondly, when it comes to educating children, we as children should also actively cooperate, because nowadays, it is very common for us to have only one child in a family, and parents only have one child. When we are in adolescence, if we have bad resistance in the parental education zone, we should take the initiative to control it. We should understand that our parents' nagging is actually out of a sense of responsibility to us, out of a high hope for us.

Even if the parent's parenting style is not appropriate, we should treat it with a peaceful attitude and mood. Moreover, as children, even if there is a generation gap with our parents, we should understand our parents' sorrows and be able to take the initiative to think from the perspective of our parents. But parents must also respect their children's nature and take appropriate breaks and adjustments.

Strong curiosity, rich imagination and competitiveness are the two major elements of the problems that exist in children's growth today. When children are tired of playing, their minds will randomly burst into sparks of wisdom. Therefore, parents' education methods and educational occasions are also important reasons for their children's rebellious psychology.

So in the end, my core feeling is that in family education, parents and children can only achieve the best results of education if they cooperate with each other.

The style of regulation also plays the role of compound fertilizer.

I felt love deeply.

Grandma Bingxin once said, "Mother, the wind and rain in the sky are coming, and the bird only hides in its nest, and the wind and rain in my heart come, and I only hide in your arms." "My mother, like the drizzle and gentle breeze in March, your love, your softness, your strictness, your laughter, and your breath have all turned into bright spring light, and they have all turned into your earnest teachings. And I am just like a small grass, bathed in the sunshine of happiness, but I can't tell you enough to pay a thousand words of respect.

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world. "When I was a child, I repeatedly thought that I had failed the exam and that my mother beat me cruelly and hatefully. What kind of words like "filial piety under the stick" are not casual words, even if my mother usually takes care of me, a fledgling bird, and turns into ashes in an instant under such a stick, but now that I am older, my mother no longer beats me, and my mother just says a few words of euphemism and criticism to me.

I know, even if my mother beats me again at that moment, and says such ruthless words, she still loves me, when I was a child, my mother needs to educate me, and when I grow up, my mother needs me to experience my mistakes, maybe it is really hitting my children, hurting in the hearts of my parents, and when the stick falls on my body mercilessly, my mother's heart is also dripping blood, but when I was a child, I couldn't understand my mother's deep and strict love and quarrel.

Who said a mother's love is only that tender?She is even more majestic. Who says love has to be affectionate?

Maybe after a meal of "fried shredded pork with bamboo shoots", it is the time when love is vividly swayed, maybe the sideburns stained with hoarfrost, after the sentence of a stick scolding, the helpless and lost eyes, and hatred of iron is not a manifestation of love?Freedom is just a momentary spine, there is no restraint where to move forward, hope that the daughter will become a phoenix is not the hope that our parents have worked hard to nurture us?

Mother's love is ordinary, and great, Mom, I understand you, you said how much you pay how much you gain, as long as I work hard, your hard work will not be in vain, I also realize that all parents, hope that their son will become a dragon, hope that their daughter will become a phoenix, in my opinion it is right, life must be like a spring to have sufficient motivation, if it is just a relaxed iron line then how can it be motivated?

Mom, I will be considerate of you, you let me tutor on the weekend I am voluntary, if I have time, even if you ask me to make up painting, piano, calligraphy. I'm also happy to be motivated.

Mom, your love for me is like a mountain giving birth to a stream, the land nurturing flowers, the wind and rain you brought to me is to make me not to become a flower in a greenhouse, Mom, one day, I will grow into a towering number!

I felt love deeply. The painting is to make my hands dexterous, the piano is to let me enjoy the moving notes, and the calligraphy is to make me a Chinese. I know, you're afraid that I won't have time so you won't let me tutor this, and you want to decompress me, but I'll say something to you playfully:

Now the pressure is mine.