I find out that the person I like actually has children, what should I do?

Think about it, can you accept it? Marriage is not a word of love that can be married There are too many examples of those who regret getting married desperately as long as they love Marriage is when two people are suitable and together, not just because of love Think about it carefully, whether your love for him is enough to tolerate these phenomena, if not You should separate early, otherwise both of you will be hurt in the future If you really choose to be together, don't think about him Some objective things Respect your choices and cherish your choices

How is it similar to a girlfriend next to me, she also met a man she likes very much, and finally found out that he has children and a family, but my girlfriend is very determined not to contact the man, the long pain is not as good as the short pain, it is shameful to be a third party, I hope the landlord will think clearly!! It is recommended to break up completely right now!! Or never contact again !!

Are family or other external factors stressing you?

If there are and there are not many, then you can only try to forget.

If not, try to accept his life and discover the strengths that make him different from other men.

Do you love that man so much? Think through a few questions for yourself:

1.Do you have what it takes to be a good stepmother?

2.Have you ever wondered if your family would agree?

3.Have you ever wondered how to deal with other people's rumors in the future?

4.That man wants to marry you?

5. Does that man love you as much as you love him?

6.Do you know what the reason for the man divorced his wife? Wait a minute. I hope it can help you, because I'm also a woman, so I hope you are cautious.

Love is endless, nothing will stop you, love the house and the black bar, like him and like his children by the way.

The key depends on whether he has a wife and whether he likes and falls in love with you. If... That's it.

I am not afraid of having children, but I am terrible when I have a wife.

Agree with the second floor.

After all, life is more important than love.

First of all, this woman cannot be a person in the "siege" of marriage. Was this woman divorced? Or maybe there's no marriage contract, right?

If she is bound by marriage, then it doesn't matter how much you like her, or how much you like each other. I advise you: to let go, to let go, to let go.

Bury this love deep in your heart, or slowly dissipate. It's a sign of respect for one's own feelings, but also for others.

Secondly, do you have a good eye on this woman? What is she like? Can you let go of her past once and for all?

This is a critical question. There are many people who leave this problem behind when they love it, but in real life, this problem will often run out of the depths of their hearts inadvertently and destroy the relationship between two people.

Can you truly accept and care for her children? From now to the future. You can't treat your child with the mood of "loving the house and Wu", you must like this child from the bottom of your heart, and your marriage will be strong in the future. Children are the heart and soul of mothers, especially single-parent families.

The mother has a guilty mentality and is easy to pamper the child.

Are your parents willing to repent and her parents willing? Although it is said that it is now the freedom to marry. However, a marriage without the blessing of parents is a shortcoming after all. It could also be a trigger for quarrels in life in the future.

Have you thought through all these questions? Therefore, no matter what decision you make, you must have a responsible attitude towards yourself, the woman, the children, and the family to decide whether you continue to walk with her. There is a good saying, love the house and Wu, since you like this woman, you have to accept this child, because the child is the mother's heart, if you are prejudiced, the child is not your own biological child, simply like her mother, then this woman will not necessarily accept you, in the face of family and love, family affection is great, maternal love is great, she will not want affection for love, you have to understand this truth.

If you like it, you shouldn't care about those, as long as you really like it, it's just a child, and there's nothing you can't accept.

In fact, you should be tolerant of each other, and if you love each other enough, you should be able to accept it.

Summary. Hello, here's how: if you have no interest in this person or no emotional foundation, you should be honest with him about what you think.

You can tell him that you are happy that he has a child and wish him and his family happiness, but there is no possibility of development between you. At the same time, respect his feelings and try to avoid hurting his feelings. If you have a certain crush on the person, you can talk to him about your thoughts and feelings and see if you can further develop the relationship.

But before you think about being with him, you need to seriously think about your own feelings and future, and whether you can accept living with his children. I hope the teacher can help you and wish you a happy life

The person I liked before has a child, what if he wants to chase you later.

Hello, here's how: If you have no interest in this person or have no emotional foundation, you should be honest with Lar about your thoughts. You can tell him that you are happy that he has a child and wish him and his family happiness, but there is no possibility of development between you.

At the same time, respect his feelings and try to avoid hurting his feelings. If you have a certain crush on the person, you can talk to him about your thoughts and feelings and see if you can further develop the relationship. But before you think about being with him, you need to seriously think about your own feelings and future, and whether you can accept living with his children.

I hope the teacher can help you, and I wish you a happy life

Actually, you can't let go of each other.

Is that so?

The key is that the person you like, just have children, or have a family. If it's the former, ask about his past so much, and think about it, whether you want to like it or not. Anyway, you have to love yourself in everything, and then like others, and put yourself first.

If it's the latter, then please stop immediately. Don't have any ideas. Don't let yourself get stuck in the sludge.

If you're receptive to acceptance, just let it be. If you can't accept this fact, you have to find another way.

It depends on whether you can accept this fact in your heart, if you are mentally prepared to accept all this, then be brave to pursue it, if you can't accept it in your heart, it is recommended that you stay calm.

It depends on what your opinion is on the child, because it is an unchangeable fact that the other party has children, if you want to combine with the other party, then you have to accept the reality that the other party already has children, if you can't accept this reality, then choose to break up, there is nothing to hesitate, breaking up now is much simpler than divorce in the future, and there will be no sequelae!

You have to make sure if the other party has a family, if not, you can face it bravely, if there is, it is best to keep a clear head and not to destroy.

Either you love the house and Wu, and raise him and her children with her, or you don't really like it.

First of all, you have to find out if he has a wife now, and if he is divorced with children, you can think about the next question. If he has a wife and children, then you have to stay away from him and break off the relationship. Because if you continue to persevere, there will only be pain, and you will not be happy.

Personally, I think that others can't help you in this matter, but you still have to respect your own heart, if you can't let go, it's true love, then accept this child. However, I advise you that it is not easy to be a stepmother, and you also have to consider the feelings of your parents.

If the other party is still married, it is best not to get involved. If you are unmarried, I think you can boldly show your love, and having children does not mean anything.

If you or your family are very concerned, then don't continue to get along, and if you don't think the child is a problem, you can raise it together.

I should congratulate him. This is a very good thing, and you can worry less about dim sum .

Without anyone, you won't be able to live, at most, you can't think about it for a while, find something else to do, and after a long time, it will fade.

About the same age! It's okay to live without a home.

Go with the flow, mainly depends on the quality of the person's character Some things to pay attention to also need to be communicated in advance.

It also depends on the specific situation.