When children enter the rebellious period , what should parents do right?

Every child has a rebellious period, parents must care more about their children, respect their children, communicate with their children more to understand their children's thoughts, and patiently accompany their children through the rebellious period.

The first thing is to communicate more with children, don't let them go and ignore them, understand their hearts, don't always annoy them, and understand their needs.

Don't scold and blame your child, because the child is rebellious at this time. The more you beat and scold against him, the more he will not listen to your opinion. Don't be in a hurry to refute some of your child's ideas, analyze them first, let him realize some problems by himself, and be more understanding and tolerant.

When the child is rebellious, parents should communicate with the child calmly, and do not accuse and scold the child. Every child will have a rebellious psychology during adolescence, which has a lot to do with the parent's education method. If two people have communication problems, it will make the child feel that their parents do not understand them, and they will not want to communicate with their parents.

And parents will feel that their children are becoming more and more disobedient, and the gap between the two people is getting bigger and bigger.

Parents should learn to observe and observe the way their children communicate with themselves when they reach puberty. Many times parents should abandon their role as parents and look at the problem of their children's rebellion from the perspective of a bystander. Properly accommodate the child, so that the child can come out of this negative emotion.

And parents should stay calm at all times and places, if parents are always acting very impatient, then parents should remind themselves to wait for both parties to have a talking attitude, and then discuss the problem.

If parents find that their children have some interests and hobbies that affect their learning, do not immediately prohibit their children from doing these things. It is necessary to understand the child's condition first, and strive to enter the child's inner world, so that you can get along with the child more harmoniously. And parents should learn to change the way when disciplining their children, when the children are young, the parents are generally speaking, the children are listening, and when the children grow up, the parents should also change this method, and then communicate with the children of the troubled people in both directions.

Listen to your child's advice, and if you find that your education is not working, you can change your education method appropriately, so that your child can become better.

And I think every parent should be heart-to-heart, and don't always force their children to do what they don't want to do, so that the relationship between them can be more harmonious, and the children will not become disobedient because of the rebellious period. While analyzing the child's rebellious psychology, parents should also fully explain the situation to the child, so that the child's rebellious psychology will slowly disappear, and he must change his attitude and ideas towards doing things.

1.Give children a certain amount of time to think, specifically means that parents can not force their own ideas to their children, but let children think carefully about the right choice after late sales. 2.

Give yourself a certain amount of time to calm down, which specifically means that parents should control their emotions reasonably and wait for both parties to calm down before communicating. 3.Communicate patiently with your child often, which specifically means that parents should communicate with their children frequently, listen to their children's ideas, and patiently explain the reason to their children.

In the face of the child's rebellious period, the family should give the child more respect, listen carefully to their voices, put down the elders and bury the dust and become friends with the child, what needs to be paid attention to is the communication skills with the child.

At this time, parents should be cold and calm, because the child is in the rebellious period of youth, right and wrong are often disobedient, so parents should be gentle when speaking, understand the child's thoughts, and do not deny them, so that they will be obedient.

Children will have a rebellious period, so as parents, how should we treat our children's rebellious period correctly? Today, Lao Wei will talk to you about this topic.

1. Accept your child's rebellion

I believe that most children will go through the special period of rebellion, especially those who are just in their youth, children at this stage are more likely to have some rebellious psychology and misanthropy, but this is a normal physiological phenomenon of children, and it is also a process that children must go through. Therefore, we parents should accept and understand the personality variables of children, follow the children's psychology, and make them feel respected.

2. Control your emotions

Children in the rebellious period often do things that exceed their parents' bottom line, which causes parents to be very angry and have arguments with their children. In fact, as parents, we should not let our emotions control our thinking, we should become masters of managing emotions and not get angry easily. Try to be as rational as possible to deal with some of the bad things that children do, understand and reason with them, communicate with them, and guide them at the same time.

3. Respect the laws of children's development

Children's growth is a very long process, and as parents, we all come from childhood, so we should reflect more on whether our education methods are reasonable and what impact it may have on children, so as to better understand their inner thoughts. At the same time, we must also learn to let go moderately, and let children do things according to their own wishes on the premise of ensuring their personal safety, and the potential of children is something we cannot predict.

4. Successful and effective communication

Successful and effective communication can make things more effective with half the effort, for example, when we say, "Go to the potato and wash the dishes" and "Child, can you go and wash the dishes for your mother today". For example, if you want your child to be careful, you can say "gently put the bowl in the cupboard", and never say "be careful, don't break the bowl for me".

You only need to know two words to communicate, and you can communicate well if you have any complaints and problems, and you can avoid many problems. The rebellious period is only a stage, and soon the mu mill will be able to pass.

Parents can respect their children's opinions more and do not work against them, otherwise the children may become more and more rebellious.

I think parents should give their children proper freedom when they are rebellious. This can ease the parent-child relationship.

When the child is rebellious, parents will feel a lot of headaches, because during the child's rebellious period, the parents don't care? Reason with the child, the child is always not in the oil and salt. During the period of rebellion, Lingma will also choose to talk to the child more and tell the child's parents some inner thoughts.

The reason why some children don't do some bad things during the rebellious period is mainly because parents pay more attention to their children. And parents usually pay more attention to their children's inner thoughts, so children will not be very strict and rebellious, and at this time, we can also choose to care more about the children and protect the children. If the child does something wrong, we should not always choose to blame the child, or imitate the beating and scolding of the child, we should choose to make the child happy in a calm and peaceful way.

During our child's rebellion, parents should not always accuse their child of some wrong behavior. Because parents also have rebellious periods when they are young, we also know that we can really listen to what our parents say during the rebellious period. At this time, we should tell our children that they know that their parents are always their strongest backing, and that they will tell their parents that they will solve problems for you when they encounter something like this.

But if you always choose to hurt your parents in this way, your parents will also feel very sad and uncomfortable.

Parents must educate their children in a correct way, so that the children can be more acceptable, and the children will choose to tell their parents after encountering problems. We must know that the rebellious period of girls is very important, if the parents of girls do not educate their children well during the rebellious period, then it will also lead to the children to regret for a lifetime.

When the child is rebellious, I will definitely communicate with the child, I must cultivate the correct three views of the old nuclear shirt child, tell the child what to do and what not to do, and I will often communicate with the child to understand the child's thoughts.

At the same time, we will respect the children's ideas and obey the children's opinions, but we must have principles, have a bottom line for reform, do not blindly compromise, and strengthen education.

I will try to calm the child's emotions, and I will also calmly reason with the child, so that the child will not be rebellious.

It will respect the child's ideas, communicate with the child patiently, and will not interfere with the child's choice and personality, but will strengthen the three-view education.

I will communicate more with my children, do not put pressure on them, get along with them as friends, etc.

Communication with children during the rebellious period mainly includes learning to listen, staying calm when communicating, exchanging roles, respecting children, not making moral evaluations, and finding people that children believe in to enlighten.

1. Learn to listen: In the process of communicating with children, parents should learn to listen, so that children can express bad thoughts, bad emotions and grievances. Give children a certain understanding when they express themselves, and then give them some guidance and help.

Don't rush to give instructions or help that you think will be beneficial to your child, listen patiently, let your child express his emotions freely, and let him feel that you understand and agree with him very much;

2. Keep calm when communicating: In the process of communicating with your child, you must stay calm, avoid communicating with your child in a rigid way, and don't beat and scold your child when you are in a hurry. In addition, parents should communicate with their children when they are calm, and the effect will be better;

3. Swap roles: Parents should understand their children's rebellious psychology in the process of communicating with their children, avoid occupying the main role of the bank, and should switch roles with their children, and listen to their children's inner thoughts, including their views on adult education. Understand your possible shortcomings through communication and find effective solutions;

4. Respect children and do not make moral evaluations: When children are rebellious, parents should not be too strict. Once the child is rebellious, do not label the child as disobedient, and avoid using such disobedient words to teach the child in the process of communicating with the child.

It is conducive to reducing children's rebellious psychology and achieving effective communication;

5. Find someone who is convincing to enlighten the child: whether it is a girl or a boy, there will be someone who he is happy to talk to. When the child is in a rebellious period and cannot communicate well with the parents, the parents can find someone the child trusts to communicate with him and avoid forcing the child to communicate with the parents.

When you are more cautious, you should talk to your child, and you can also find some relatives and friends to talk to him to know what the child thinks in his heart, so that he can control the rebellious child well.

I'm going to beat him up, really, and I'm going to call on my father to show your authority and beat up these stinking brats from time to time.

Boys and girls are different, girls are generally well-behaved, they don't have to fight when they are young, they are all obedient. The vast majority of them are also worry-free, and you can't fight the individual rebellious. I ran away as soon as I hit it, someone took it in, and I didn't go home for a year or two.

Therefore, when a girl is rebellious, she generally has to coax her, drag her, and when she is older, she will be sensible.

Boys are different. The boy being beaten is not only a punishment, but more of a grind. Fathers of the post-70s and post-80s, when you recall your childhood, how many of them have never been beaten by their parents?

How many haven't been in a fight outside? has been beaten and beaten people, this is the boy's childhood.

1. At first, I thought of finding some good articles on the Internet and sending them to my child, hoping to make him change. But more often than not, the reply I get is cold, and he doesn't want to interact with me.

2. In the middle, I asked my family, relatives and friends to persuade the children not to delay their future future. As a result, the child angrily told me that the ugliness of the family should not be publicized, and I went to let so many people blame him, and he felt so stressed. Because of this, he ignored us adults for a long time, and was very disgusted with us.

3. Later, I took my son to see a psychiatrist, and I originally wanted to use a psychiatrist to help him check the code and peace, but who knew that it would backfire. When he came back, he told me that I didn't lose my illness, why should I go to the doctor, because you are sick.

In this way, the result of self-exploration and self-salvation again and again is: the child seems to be more rebellious. One day, the child yelled at us and said:

Do you really understand me? Are you my biological parents? In this way, my father and I were very miserable and shocked!

Later, when I chatted with my best friend, I heard that his child was also rebellious before, but now there has been a great change, and my best friend recommended Wang Lao to me.