10 love factors determine whether two people are suitable or not

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If when we fall in love, we find that we and our lovers have different views on many things, we will definitely have confusion in our hearts, wondering if two people are not suitable for being together? People with inconsistent three views, can falling in love really have a good ending? If you also have doubts about this, you may wish to take a look at the analysis given by the author.

1. People with different views can also be together.

Why is it true that people with different views can live together? Because when you become a person who cares very much about life, you will find that whether you get along with your parents or chat with friends, you and them actually have different points of view. Therefore, the lover with whom you are very close, even if you have a lot of common topics before, may have different opinions when talking about certain things.

This is very common. Therefore, there is no need to make a fuss about this at this time.

Second, between lovers, you can find a way to seek common ground while reserving differences.

Although our concepts will be different, we can actually understand and tolerate each other, and try to seek common ground while reserving differences. Although this run-in process can sometimes be painful or disappointing, when we have a good run-in, we will find that even if there are differences and disputes between each other when we get along with each other in the future, we can find the right way to negotiate and solve the problem together. Therefore, this is the so-called "love is easy to love, but difficult to get along" saying.

When we can get along easily, even if there is a big gap between each other's three views, we don't have to worry anymore, because we can tolerate each other.

It would be unwise for lovers to give up the relationship because they have different views on certain things. When we fall in love, we should look more at the compatibility between each other and learn more about some of the advantages of each other. When we try to look at each other's strengths and look for shining points from each other, we will find that our tolerance will become broader.

At this point, when we look back at the quarrels we had with each other, we will feel that there is no point. Because we are generally compatible with each other, we can firmly continue to live with each other at this time.

I don't think so, you don't have to find another self when you fall in love. No one can agree with all your opinions, and both of you should run in with each other and seek each other for the best look of love, and the most suitable look for both of you.

It is suitable to be together, because each of us has a different point of view, and after being together, we can seek common ground while reserving differences, and we can also change our minds for each other.

I think it's okay to be together, if you are tolerant enough, different points of view will only increase your own cognition, and will not affect the relationship between the two parties.

No. Everyone has a different personality and three views, and it is normal to have different views on one thing. If two people can tolerate each other, understand each other, and love each other enough, it is appropriate to be together.

I think that in love, if two people have different views, then it is possible to run in, and this is well, it can be adjusted. Personally, I suggest that you should stick to each other, but that doesn't mean you're not a good fit. I think after you go through the run-in period, you will definitely become very tacit and the views of the two people will be very similar.

In love, two people have different points of view, but it is also suitable to be together, because two people can discuss whose point of view is correct through running-in or communication, and can tolerate and understand each other, then they will be very happy together.

In love, there will be many cases where two people have different views, which does not prove that the two of you are not suitable for being together, in fact, different points of view, it is okay to unify your views or listen to whoever is right.

In love, if two people have different views, they can actually be together, because love itself is complementary, and no two people really think exactly the same, but if the gap is particularly large, then it is worth thinking about it.

Everyone's outlook on life and values are different. Two people in love, if they have different views, need to constantly run in. There is always one party who has to compromise in order to maintain the relationship.

It is really not suitable to be together, otherwise two people will often quarrel because of differences of opinion after marriage, and may eventually embark on the road of divorce.

Everyone's thoughts are different, so the view of love must be different, but it depends on how you solve it, first of all, if you like him very much, you should use your persistence to change it, and slowly find a common love rail, so use your patience and time to change.

It depends on whether the individual's heart wants to be together, and if there is a goal, he will change his or her opinion.

After all, you still have to cater to each other in love, and you can't think about it when you have a dispute.

After all, everyone thinks differently, and who can guarantee that the next person will have the same opinion as you.

Therefore, love must learn to tolerate and tolerate each other, and then solve it together.

In love, two people have different points of view, and I think it's normal because I think everyone has their own ideas, and I think it's very suitable to be together.

The people who are suitable for being together are not set in stone.

With experience, knowledge increases, and even learning ability improves, hobbies, and opinions cannot stand still.

Suitability of two people together is more important than affection, and suitability means that two people have the same conditions in all aspects and have similar views. Two people must have feelings when they want to come together, so feelings are very important, but for life, feelings are not the most important. If it is not suitable, life will be filled with contradictions, don't think that it is not suitable to complement each other, in fact, affection will eventually be wiped out by the differences in life, if it is suitable, maybe two people can inadvertently have deeper feelings, so suitability is the basis for maintaining feelings, and suitability is more important than feelings.

Feelings are just a feeling, people's feelings can be different in each time period, for example, there is a moment when you love someone to death, but because of a trivial thing you suddenly wake up, you don't have to her, so people's feelings are unreliable. Two people come together to form a marriage relationship, the ultimate purpose is to make this relationship last longer, if it is not enough to maintain this relationship only by feelings, <>

Suitability means that the conditions of both parties are equal in all aspects, such as the economic ability is comparable, so that the two parties are in a relatively equal family position, and there will be no conflicts because of money. There are also three similar views, there are many small things in life that need to be dealt with by husband and wife, if the three views are different, there will be more conflicts because of these small things, affecting the relationship between husband and wife. The ability is equal, and there is no question of who looks down on whom on both sides.

Feelings can make two people attract each other and bring two people together, but after being together, you will find that life is not only about poetry, but also about the trivial things in life. So in life, suitability is far more important than having feelings.

The suitability of two people is more important than the relationship, if the two people are very suitable, the two people will be very comfortable together. Slowly, the two of them will have feelings. Harmony refers to the fact that two people have the same three views, two people's consumption views are the same, and two people can understand each other.

Be able to tolerate each other when they get along.

Yes, the suitability of two people is more important than the relationship, and suitability means that two people have something in common in all aspects of the condition and are also similar in terms of personality.

I think suitability is indeed more important than feelings, and suitability refers to the right personality of two people, the right way to get along, and the right family.

In fact, I think it is really important for two people to be suitable, so that two people will get along more harmoniously together, and they will also have a very tacit understanding, and the marriage will be particularly stable.

I think feelings are more important, if two people don't have an emotional foundation, they won't be happy together, and if it's just because they're together, then two people won't have a particularly deep relationship.

Of course, it's more important to be suitable. If it is appropriate, two people will not have a lot of conflicts together in life, and they will live a special happy and harmonious life.

In the process of two people being together, is life more important, or is the relationship more important? There is a saying that meet the right person at the wrong time. When two people are together, the first premise must be feelings.

Whether it is in the emotionally hazy student period, or in the gradual maturity of the study towards society, or in the period when the job has been stable, the premise of two people together should be feelings. This feeling of affection and harmony is what we call love.

But why now, most people choose to follow the arrangement of their families after working for a period of time, find a suitable person who is right with them and live together, and choose to spend the rest of their lives together? First of all, when a person misses, the best period of pursuing love misses the period of daring to fight. More people will choose to be content with the status quo, many people choose to accept the arrangement of the family, and after working for a period of time, the pressure of life has made these working-class people bruised, let alone pursue the so-called love.

Affectionate marriage

It's better to find the right person to spend the rest of your life with the right person from the family's arrangement, which has become the status quo for many people, but on the other hand, do the two of them really love each other? The answer is a lot of no, why is the divorce rate so high now? The reason is precisely because they do not have the previous emotional foundation, but only because they are suitable to be together.

There are a lot of real people and real stories on the Internet, all of which write such stories. They use their personal experience to warn people that feelings always come first, and marriage without feelings is like a plate of loose sand.

Blind marriage may be when people reach the age of 30, and they do not have the spirit of dedication to love and dare to fight like when they were students, but they will definitely have the heart to pursue their true love. It's just that I can't breathe because of the pressure of life. But love can't be compromised, and you can't choose your own marriage because it's suitable.

Don't blindly get married because of the urging of your family. This is irresponsible for oneself, irresponsible for one's own life, and irresponsible for one's other half.

In fact, if two people are suitable, I think it is not important to have feelings, because if two people are suitable, if there is no emotion, they will not talk more than half a sentence together, so I don't approve of it.

That's right, because it's really good for two people to stay together, then their marriage will last longer.

No, I think that if a relationship is only suitable, there will be problems later, and the relationship is the most important.

Between feelings and suitability, many people have no choice, and they are very entangled, not knowing which is more important, suitability or affection. But according to my personal opinion, it is more important to feel suitable, because two people will definitely experience a lot of things in the process of getting along, and life will always bring tests, if two people are suitable for each other, they will be able to overcome difficulties. Although feelings are equally important in a relationship, if there is only a disagreement between feelings and personalities, it will eventually break up because of quarrels.

First, it is more important to be suitableThe divorce rate in today's society is very high, and most of these people have feelings at the beginning, because two people have love, so they choose to get married, regardless of everyone's opposition, and resolutely want to be together. But this does not mean that these two people are living together, after two people get married, they will find some shortcomings in life, and then find that they are not suitable for each other, and find that they have not considered it before, so they choose to separate. Therefore, it is very difficult to meet a person you like and very suitable in a relationship, and if you choose the wrong one, it will lead to a bad marriage.

Second, you should think carefully about your own affairsNo one in this world can truly empathize, and what they have not experienced may be useless no matter how others persuade them. Many people may feel that their feelings are the most important in love, and if they can't marry the person they like, they would rather be single. But after people reach a certain stage, their thoughts will change, and suitability is indeed much more important than feelings in a relationship.

Because as the old saying goes, feelings can't be eaten, and people in ancient times should also pay attention to the right person when determining marriage, because what represents two people have similar interests, three views, and similar habits, so that they can live a relaxed and happy life. If two people only have feelings, but they don't have any foundation in life, they will be all over the place when they live, and the desire to live will slowly wear out. Therefore, whether you choose your feelings or choose the right one, you must think carefully and think about the consequences.