How can the love of two people last longer

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

If two people want to have a long-term relationship, it is not easy, they need to understand each other, love each other, respect each other, consider the problem from each other's point of view, and pay sincerely. Only in this way can the relationship be happy and stable.

In fact, whether two people are operating with their hearts, this relationship has a lot to do with it, and the three views of two people also play a decisive role, and if one party does not have a strong ability to solve problems, then it is difficult for this relationship to last, how to manage a relationship for a long time?

1. Common progress, two people want to manage their feelings well, there must be a history of common progress, if two people do not carry, with progress, then the fast progress of the party will get rid of the other party who is standing still, one person goes forward, the other is not moving, the gap between the two people is getting bigger and bigger, and getting farther and farther away from marriage is not conducive to the development of feelings.

2. Don't rely too much on each other, even if you love that person again, you are an independent person first, love yourself first and have your own independent personality in that other party, and you can handle all aspects of life very well.

3. Trust each other, you have to learn to give yourself a sense of security, many things to choose each other, but there will be unexpected gains, try voice input to the other party, let the other party according to your meaning, so that you can feel at ease, then it is a big mistake, some things can never be controlled, it will only add unnecessary trouble to the two of you.