If the love between two people wants to last for a long time, what principles should be understood?

The first is that no one will accompany each other for a long time and will leave, the second is that the relationship is a matter of two people, and one person cannot pay, and the third is to learn to pay to one person.

Learn to adapt to the dull days, you can't take your feelings seriously because of the long time, and surviving the dull period is a lifetime; To learn to keep love fresh, think more about the other party, and create some small surprises to enhance the relationship.

Trust. The most basic thing in a relationship is trust, no matter what the other party does, you can trust the other party wholeheartedly, you can solve all kinds of problems calmly, and you will trust the other party no matter what happens.

If the love between two people wants to last for a long time, they should understand the importance of communication between the two parties, and spend a little bit of thought on each other in daily life.

When two people are together, if they want to maintain a long-term relationship, they must work together. Even if one party works hard and the other party does not work hard, it will not last long.

Be tolerant of each other in your daily interactions.

Everyone has a different personality and lifestyle, and the other person's lifestyle may be different from yours, but since you have chosen to be together, you must tolerate each other.

Since I went to university, I have eaten very light, a little salty, and I feel uncomfortable eating. My boyfriend's house is more heavy in their food, and my boyfriend is also the kind that is not spicy or happy. Later, after being with me for a long time, he also ate more and more lightly.

Because every time he cooks, he takes it a little lightly. Otherwise, I will be very uncomfortable when I eat salty, and at the beginning, in fact, he is not used to eating so light, so he will make a cold dish by himself and make it spicy.

I think the most romantic thing for two people to be together is to eat together in life. Eating is a pleasure, especially with someone you like. I especially enjoyed the process, if we were always arguing because of the saltiness of the meals.

Then this meal is meaningless, and maybe we can't go on for long.

Mutual understanding.

Sometimes we make a big fuss because of a small thing, and that's because we always think about things from our own standpoint. I feel that the other party doesn't think of us and can't understand us, but in fact, often we can't empathize.

If he eats with his colleagues outside because of work, this girl can't tolerate it and can't understand it, how can he live in the future? Work is for your better life in the future, if you don't have a job, what will you rely on to support your family in the future.

Two people run into each other in getting along, and over time, they will adapt to each other. I love the lyrics, "The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you." "I also hope that a lover can eventually become a family.

1. Care and care about each other.

2. Strive to make yourself better for each other.

3. Respect the wishes of the other party, and neither blindly stubborn nor blindly retreat.

4. Have time alone. Everyone is an individual, and even when we are together, we need personal space to be alone.

5. Learn to trust each other and give each other a sense of security.

6. Learn to forgive. Don't be duplicitous, which will cause you to turn over old accounts from time to time and affect the relationship between husband and wife.

7. Respect each other's dreams and don't hit or ask them to change.

8. Compliment each other.

9. Learn to confide. Tell the other person about your heart, worries, or fears.

10. Support each other no matter what you encounter.

11. Don't point fingers at each other.

Both parties need to tolerate each other, and if there is no tolerance in the relationship, it is equivalent to eating instant noodles without seasoning, which is an unnecessary feeling, so tolerance is very important, and only by tolerating each other's feelings can we grow old together.

Both parties need to understand each other, and if you can't understand what the other person is doing, why you are doing something, and getting angry, that's a terrible thing, and you need to understand in a relationship, and only by understanding the other person can you understand his feelings, and enter his world, which is part of love.

You need to talk in the relationship, people, there are often misunderstandings, which leads to both parties being angry, one doesn't know why she is scolded, and the other starts scolding because she doesn't understand clearly, this phenomenon is very common, in order to maintain a long-term relationship, both parties should talk well, talk a lot, but not to the extent that everything is explained clearly, and it is necessary to give enough girls enough security to maintain the relationship.

Both parties should take care of each other's emotions People have seven emotions and six desires Anger Conflict is inevitable In the relationship, both parties should take care of each other's emotions For example, the girl's menstrual period The boy's career is frustrated This kind of two parties should coexist peacefully should not get along with emotions It is not easy to accommodate all the emotions of the other party But you should understand why the other party has emotions.

You can have different hobbies and different ideas. But accept each other's ideas and preferences, and be able to understand and communicate.

Core RequirementsIt's important to be able to meet each other's core needs.

For example, if a man's core need is the woman's family background, which he thinks is very important, then a poor girl is needless to say.

There is a limit to everything. It's okay to make trouble once a month, and it's okay to make trouble every day. True public deeds will also be dumped.

It's okay to dislike each other's parents, at least superficially polite. scolded each other's parents every day, and even did it in person. Any human with a bottom line will stop their losses.

More than 90% of couples break up because of a lack of comfort. Finding the right way for two people to get along is the foundation for maintaining a long-term healthy relationship.

Love is a two-way emotional exchange, the admiration of two hearts, the joy of two feelings, and the spark of soul and soul collision. If two people love each other, they don't need to deliberately change themselves to please each other. If she (he) doesn't like you, it's useless to pursue it no matter how deliberately you try to pursue it.

If you really like each other, it's too late to like it, and you need to be desperate to please them? Even if you move her (him) with sincerity, the feelings you get are a little reluctant, she (he) did not accept you so much, it must be that some of your conditions are not so in line with the requirements in her (his) mind, and you are moved by your temporary actions, but after a long time, if she (he) meets the ideal person in his mind, it is difficult to guarantee that she (he) will not change his mind. But it is often said that:

I can't live if I give up on her, I love her (him) very much! In fact, this idea is ridiculous, in life, who can't live without it? Without whom, the earth cannot turn?

Unless you really don't want to live anymore, no one can stand in your way. Usually what we think is the "only" thing is not really true, but we don't look for it with our hearts. True love stems from the heartfelt admiration for each other and is built on the basis of mutual affection.

Anyone who is crazy about loving others without caring whether he is loved or not, or who only cares about taking and not knowing how to give sincerely, will not end well. How many fateful people will be encountered in a person's life? Those who love you, who you love, all pass by one by one.

But the only thing you remember the most here is your first love. Experiencing the sweetness of love for the first time is deeply imprinted in my heart, so that the conditions of future friends are all based on TA. Maybe you still have the love letters of the year in your mailbox, every word is hard for you to forget, and when you can't continue to love, you can only turn it into family affection.

When I see him again, I won't have the urge to do it again. A feeling in the palm of the hand and the back of the hand. What you don't get is the best.

People are often like this, what they get is not cherished, they pursue a person for a long time and fail to get it, they feel the mystery of it, and they can't see his embarrassment. The heart is always a perfect image. Therefore, it is cherished and precious.

What do you get? After a sweet love, the transition from the perfect image period to the ordinary. From strange to familiar, and even a few moles on the body, they all say that the long vulture bed is desolate and the wonton is slashed?

The precious thing about love is not passionate love, but the ability to accept ordinary life. Women will love men 100%, but men will always have room to love, when one day the man said to the woman: you have to keep 30% to love yourself, the woman cried, because this sentence is too late, 100% has already been paid.

Even if love is gone, life goes on, happiness is always in the future, but fate may be in your hands. Love is a duty, not a feeling; Please don't talk about love easily! Promises, promises for the future, if not sure, then, don't promise!

Happiness is directly proportional to sorrow! Every love creates a myth, and love is mythical.

A long-lasting relationship should be one in which both men and women are close, cohesive, secure and ethical. Although men and women have the natural attribute of opposites attracting, it is only through fate and the painstaking management of the relationship between the two people that this relationship can be made long-lasting.

Lovers should be close to each other like friends and considerate of each other. Only when two people are heart-to-heart, there is no distance, can do heart-to-heart communication, tell each other, truly let go of their true selves in front of each other, and will not worry about letting the other party see their weaknesses, can they find the key to a good relationship and find a comfortable state.

The two sides have a sense of commonality together. The two parties see each other's relationship as "we", not just as family, but more like an independent "aggregate". Without this mindset, it is possible to essentially continue to live a single life even after marriage.

Only by trying to discard differences in ideas, avoiding rifts as much as possible, and trying to reach a consensus, it is possible for such a relationship to continue.

Take a correct view of the economy and other practical factors. The reality faced between the two, whether good or bad, should not be an obstacle that affects the relationship between them. We can share weal and sorrow and struggle together, but we can't stay away from each other and be cold.

It is possible to share a solid and happy life, but not to touch too much emptiness and depravity. Can't let firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea occupy the vast majority of the space in life, let yourself ignore the cultivation of feelings, and even damage each other's self-esteem and hearts.

The state of each other should be consistent with moral convictions. The basic requirement for two people to ensure a sense of security with each other is to remain loyal and take responsibility for each other. In addition, many of the attitudes, words and deeds of two people should at least conform to the basic moral code.

Let the interaction between two people be pure and flawless, and be upright and honest in front of others. Only positive feelings, free from hypocrisy and deception, can be blessed in the long run.

Two people should care for each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, trust each other, and face and solve difficulties together, so that they can go for a long time.

It is necessary to understand that two people need to help each other when they are together, understand each other, support each other, communicate well when they encounter problems, and do not deceive each other.

Don't just think about giving everything for the other person. Don't touch your own principles and bottom line for the sake of the other person.

For most young people, they are eager to get a love that can make two people last for a long time, but I personally believe that whether love can make two people really long is not entirely dependent on the personal subjective will of two people.

First of all, if love wants to make two people last, two people must have the subjective will in this regard, that is, two people must recognize and accept each other from the bottom of their hearts, which is the most important premise for two people to be together. After all, only to achieve a happy relationship, can be really long-lasting, if only one of the parties loves each other, and the other party does not recognize themselves, then such a relationship is destined to not last, because even if you pay more, you can never get the other party's recognition and affirmation, don't always fantasize about paying through your own efforts, you can finally move the other party, and finally let the other party accept yourself, such a probability is very low, and in this process, It will only waste their precious time and energy in vain, and they must have a clear understanding of starting a love, that is, whether the other party can truly recognize and accept that they do not have the conditions in this regard, they must not force themselves and force each other, otherwise this will only make themselves miserable and make each other more embarrassing.

From another point of view, if love wants to make two people last, in addition to mutual recognition of love, it also requires two people to be able to understand each other, respect each other and tolerate each other in the process of getting along, which is the most important foundation to ensure that the relationship between two people can last for a long time. It is necessary to realize that it is not possible for two people to have smooth sailing in the process of starting a relationship, and it is very likely that there will be a certain estrangement and contradiction in the process of getting along with two people. But in the face of these problems, we must learn to adjust our mentality, we must learn to tolerate each other more, listen to each other's true thoughts, two people through communication with each other to resolve these estrangements and contradictions, so that the feelings between two people can be further warmed, so that we can achieve the purpose of making each other's feelings really long-lasting, and in this process, we can also make the love between two people really stand the test. Let each other find true happiness in this relationship.

In short, if love wants two people to last for a long time, they need to be happy with each other, and they need to pay together with each other and work together, and only in this way can they feel the sweetness and beauty of love between each other.