I m about to graduate, and we ve been in touch less and less lately, so maybe you re busy looking fo

After graduation, we didn't have much contact.

First of all, I'm not from here, and secondly, you don't have to wonder why you are so entangled and contradictory, because most people face the problem of breakups... I think in this kind of situation where you don't want to continue, you shouldn't leave the problem to yourself, you should talk to him, and it may be a good way to ask for the other person's opinion, after all, this is the love of the two of you, not either of them. Make your point of view, ask for each other's consent, solve the problem, and leave no regrets for anyone.

Your real thoughts are clear to him, no matter how calm as long as it is the feelings of the heart, it is sad to separate, but this must be faced Your thoughts are clear, don't drag the mud and water, cut off directly, everyone still has a lot of good time, don't waste it in this tangle. Personal thoughts: I hope it helps.

In fact, now because the distance between the two people is too far, the final result is mostly separation, parents will not agree, and they will be wronged in the future, and separating as soon as possible is the best way, unless he is willing to give everything for you to be with you, then you can consider it. There are a lot of people around me who are good at the beginning, and in the end they are separated a lot, so don't regret it if you think about it.

Once you've decided, don't dwell on it anymore. Love without love is hurtful to everyone, and it's not very fair to him to go on like this, tell him, and besides, it's really hard for a girl to be too far away from home, and it's too hard to face too many things by herself when you get married, and few people can't bear it

Normally propose to break up, this thing barely comes, and you have to make your boyfriend realize that it is impossible, or wait for him to work to know It depends on your boyfriend's maturity.

Emotional things can't come reluctantly Everyone wants their own life You and your boyfriend are not on the same road You don't have an intersection in the future Break up decisively It's not easy to meet someone you can talk to It's not bad to have good memories.

Why do you want to make it clear? If you're sure you want to go home and develop, you go back. Time and distance can dilute everything.

1: To put it bluntly, it means that we are not suitable because of the total reason. But the most important thing is that I don't love you anymore, I want you to find someone better than me to love you and give you happiness.

2: Let's just say that my mother doesn't agree.

If you don't like him anymore, then let it go, barely there is no happiness, be brave.

1. Graduate school may not be able to find a good job, so it is recommended to communicate with her more;

2. Studying in graduate school does not affect marriage, you can get married first, if the other party does not agree, it is recommended that you look at other girls;

3. Take more time to accompany her at school.

I have a girlfriend, but I love my buddy.

Although they are going out to graduate at the same time, their development at work cannot be synchronized. It is possible that she has developed better than you for the time being, and it is possible that you have developed better than her. Therefore, the person who is less developed should follow the person who is well developed, which is realistic.

Among the two people, take care of one first, and then talk about it, don't take care of both of them.

In fact, it is nothing more than that you go back to her hometown with her, or she goes back to your hometown with you, or the two of you stay in the third city together to work hard. There are only these three options.

It still depends on the development opportunities. **If you have the chance, go first**.

First of all, I think you should think about the question of where your future development direction is, which is what industry you are going to enter, identify the industry, and then go to a city that will help you, for example, if you want to be a civil servant, then you should go to a city where you have a relationship with your family, if you are going to work in the private sector, then go to Beijing, or some big cities, if you want to enjoy life and not get stuck in traffic, then go to some small and medium-sized cities, the key is what kind of plan you have for the future, not necessarily to go to your home or her hometown Don't be too far away After all, the transportation is very convenient now, cars can't trains, trains can't planes, Shanghai to Beijing is only 2 hours, think about your life path, and then choose a place suitable for your development Bring the people you love to create a world!

I'm in pretty much the same situation as you, but it's better than you to be closer to our hometown. I think you can choose a medium-sized city where both of you can find a suitable job, so that you can be together and your career will be conducive to the development of your career, and you can reduce the cost of living in the beginning. It's best to be close to both of your hometowns, and then go back to your two homes alternately for the New Year's holiday!

You have to discuss with her first, where you plan to develop in the long term in the future, that is to say, where to settle your home, and then adjust your work according to the situation, it doesn't matter if you are not in the same city, it is important to have a long-term plan, remember to think realistically, not too far apart, feelings often can't stand the test of distance, as for her refusal to live in your home, it is understandable, or get the certificate first! These are just suggestions, and only you know what is best for you.

Are you thinking about the present or the future、、?

In a word, don't use your own happiness as a bargaining chip.

Love is sweet and warm. There are very few college romances that last. Since you have persevered, respect each other. It's also quite happy to go to a place together and struggle together.

You can make some concessions! Go to your girlfriend's city! If you don't want to! You can communicate more and communicate more! This is the most important thing.

It's nothing in a different place, as long as it's not too far away.

Wife· Of course you have to follow yourself!! Brothers! Of course he's embarrassed to live in your house now!

Girl, I'm sorry! @这样的女孩很不错哦! Delicate, you can help her find a good job, otherwise how can you ask people to go to your city, it is best to have a job to ensure accommodation, she will live in the dormitory of the unit now!!

You can rent a house outside first.

It's not easy to live in your house before you get married.

First of all, the two of them should have a serious talk, I think no matter where you work, as long as the two of you can do well, the rest is easy to say.

Of course, choosing a more developed employment area is good for both people.

I think it's a bit risky to fall in love in different cities, many girls have encountered long-distance relationships, and eventually broke up, some reasons are that boyfriends and girlfriends can't be together, it doesn't feel real, and some reasons are that parents don't agree to marry women in other cities, in short, I don't feel suitable for you in a long-distance relationship, plus your character, in fact, it has been doomed from the beginning, if it is someone who really loves each other, a person with fate, there will be a topic to talk about at the beginning, and it will not become a lack of talk, so you still don't have to contact him. for thy destiny has not yet come.

I just want to say: you love face too much. Finding a classmate as a partner is a joke.

It seems that you don't love him, and you don't have feelings for him yet. If you think the other person is good, cherish it. Before I started, I gave myself so many questions, so many worries, and I was tired.

It should be left to the flow. Don't push too much and ask for more. Words to say:

After seeing people's hearts for a long time, you don't give a chance, ** there will be marriage.

In fact, a small advantage of friends as a couple is that you have a basis for understanding Don't want to be like that kind of stranger, but people will change the moon will be full for a long time not to understand each other Maybe he is no longer the one he once was The people who have walked in society will change a little If you feel a little bit of feeling, you can start to try it Often men and women will have some contradictions and small frictions after 3 months of getting along At this time, if you are resolved, you will also find his strengths and weaknesses in the process See if you can accept his shortcomings This is the key Go with the flow, you will know how to go, and if the love that doesn't start must be a lifetime, you can really go with him for a lifetime, but the love that begins must be heartfelt Only when you are attentive can you feel the real side

See if he's your favorite type, and then look at other external conditions. You hesitate so much, you shouldn't really like him.

I think I'm slowly getting used to the feeling that I don't have him around! You probably haven't seen each other for a long time, and you used to be very sad because of the separation, and you slowly got used to not thinking about it. You don't want to reply, maybe it's because you're afraid that you'll pick up the pain of longing.

However, before he went to study abroad, you must have made an agreement that you would be together in the future, so keep going with this belief! When he is worthy, it is up to you to judge, if you love him enough and he loves you enough, it will definitely be worth it. But since you can ask this question, maybe you can't be sure whether you really love him that much.

Half like the sun and half like the moon, I was bitten by the golden dragon, the stars are moving, everything is good, let me make up for it!

Only when people learn to love themselves first, will they be loved, love is unavoidable, contemporary women should cultivate independent personality, whether it is ideological or economic. It's best to be yourself. It doesn't matter if you live for love or work, you are always living for yourself.

It's right to have a boyfriend in college, and it's good for both of you to be able to go in the same direction together. Vice versa.

It's normal to have a boyfriend, but it's not normal to have it, the key is to endure loneliness and emptiness, and studying in college is still the main thing!

In a person's life, she has a career in addition to feelings, if there are only feelings, then what do we study for? Just run all to fall in love, then our days will come to an end, although we are girls, so what? No one has ever said that girls can't succeed, come on, you will be happy

No, there are more than 30 million singles in China, and girls have enough capital to be singles Don't worry.

I don't agree with the view that college must have a boyfriend, which is the recommended answer Maybe the relationship in college is relatively pure, and we don't need to think too much about it, just enjoy it together. Sometimes I go to the extreme of saying that this is a waste, but in fact, everyone measures love, family, and friendship on a different scale and scale.

It is estimated that your personality is not a strong woman, so feelings are very important to you, and the most important thing in your life is to find a good husband. Don't ask for too handsome reasons not to explain, you should know, it's best to find a better background, good looks and figure, work and life will be more stable in the future, and it will be easier to get along with and have a good temper.

It's normal to fall in love in college, it depends on how you look at it, you can encourage each other and help each other, and work together to achieve your son's life ideals. That's right.

I graduated this year, 4 years of college basically not close to women, chased 5 girls, but because my vision is too high, others don't fancy me, since then I don't think about it, climbing with friends, games, picnics, rowing, etc., 4 years are over. You said that it is difficult to find a partner after completion, and this is true.

Well, feelings have to be fateful, I know you may not believe it, but this is accurate. Don't deliberately pursue feelings, and don't hide from them. It's good to go with the flow, feelings are important, but put your focus elsewhere, and when you turn your head, maybe someone is waiting for you.

Hurry up and decide what your future path will be! There is no emotion worth sacrificing your future happiness. You're still young, and you'll have plenty of opportunities in the future.

Put the future first and think about feelings. Actually, this is not a contradiction. Just don't get too caught up in it.

Men don't do to you the way you do to him. They don't sacrifice their careers for the sake of their feelings. Think about it.

For girls, there may be less social pressure, but everyone must learn to live a life. What's more, our parents are also getting old, should we think about them?

Everyone's life is different, money, career, love, fame, etc., everyone wants differently, but in the end, the purpose is to be satisfied and happy. Since feelings make you feel unhappy and confused, why not try to seek other things to make yourself happy.

Most (not absolutely) college love is due to loneliness and comparison. After graduation, there are very few people who can get together, and they will break up because of various problems such as further understanding or work location, and on the other hand, it depends on fate, and this thing cannot be forced, so don't think about it.

Focus on how to find a job when you are about to graduate, this is the safest thing.

There are no mature men, do you care so much? After you graduate, if you can work in a city, you might be able to keep going. If you separate the two places, you basically want pears.

It's your junior, and it's time to think about how you're going. Nowadays, this society likes women who are mature and have their own careers.

Of course, how can you give up anything else for the sake of feelings? And relatives, friends, careers...

There are many, many things worth paying for!! Feelings are really important for your concerns, but if you lose yourself because of this, do you think it's worth it? You wouldn't want his woman to be an independent person.