I am a family scholar, and the unit leader shows love to me during this time, how can I refuse?

Since you all have a family, it's good for you to reject him directly, as long as he doesn't confess to you, you can also turn a blind eye and pretend not to know anything, as long as you slowly alienate him and don't give him a chance to be alone with you, I believe he will naturally know that you don't like him, and it won't be difficult for you anymore.

Are you saying that the leader of your unit confessed to you?

If you refuse directly, it will be too shameful to give people face.

I think even if you have to say no, you should be tactful, you can say, we can start with friends.

You can show extreme disinterest in him, be indifferent to him, and he will retreat.

What is a Home Taxi?

Single or have a spouse? Boys and girls?

If you are single, you will be a buddy with him, and your personality will be a little bit more tiger in front of him, and she will be a little more arrogant.

There is a spouse who goes directly to take the other half to dangle in front of his eyes.

Outright refusal. There can be no ambiguity about this.

It is in the home taxi. This period of time is in unit zero. It's love.

How to refuse? Then you'll have to sell it to that house yourself. You can't just take a look.

Ten. Monkeys are. Go down to graduate school.

Demo. Later. Not stupid.

Son. You've turned positive. Anyway, this.

Big guy. I can give you one time.

If you don't like it, then you can reject him directly, don't hesitate, and don't give the other party a chance to misunderstand, so that you can quickly cut through the mess, you can tell him, I already have a partner.

Wouldn't it be okay for you and the leader to make this clear. You say that my faith does not allow me to make emotional choices.

You have to keep your distance from him first, you have to tell him clearly that you appreciate him and respect him, but they are all people with families, and you will never do anything that is not good for the family, so it will not be good for you and him in the future, because you believe that good will be rewarded with good, and evil will be rewarded with evil.

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Studying Buddhism is a very rare thing, but what do we learn when we study Buddhism? What is Buddha? What to learn from the Buddha?

Be sure to figure it out. The Buddha is the enlightened one, and the "Huayan Sutra" cloud: The great teacher of the miracle, consciously can perceive him.

This is the Buddha. In layman's terms: it is to understand yourself and understand everything.

The act is perfect. When we study the Dharma, we have to learn this, to learn to be a person who understands and not to be confused.

Realizing that he first has to be self-conscious, to understand his own mind. We will say: Don't I know myself yet?

In fact, it is exactly what it is. Most of us don't know ourselves, we don't know ourselves. Why?

We don't know how our body works, why he gets old, why he gets sick, why he dies. This is something that no science can answer clearly. We don't know how our linguistic logic came about.

I don't understand why some things can't be remembered, and some things can't be forgotten. I don't know how to do and do what is the meaning of life. This is a question that many philosophers are keen on.

We don't even know how our thoughts work, why we have such thoughts, why we have dreams and illusions. There's ego, there's fear, there's love. No one can answer all these questions. Except for one, that is Shakyamuni Buddha.

However, the Lord does not simply tell us the answer. It's about helping us understand the answer. Because the answers to these questions cannot be conveyed in words.

Zhan Cha Good and Evil Karma Sutra talks about the concept of idealism. It's the solution to these problems, and what is the solution? The first step is to observe your actions, words, and thoughts in real detail.

Observe anytime, anywhere, without interruption. In the scriptures, it is said that "all homework should be observed".

Without investigation, there is no voice. We first need to understand how the problem arises. If we want to be self-conscious, we must understand it deeply and without omission. Only in this way can we completely root the root of the problem, and only then can we be healed and happy.

Such an understanding can initially serve a very important purpose. In fact, it is also the preliminary answer to the previous question. That is "knowing only the heart", knowing that all this comes from one's own heart.

This mind is the root of all problems. It is also the source of all problems. It is not only the source of our suffering, but also the key to liberation from suffering, happiness and supreme happiness.

Excerpt from the Jizo Forum, "Idealistic Consciousness (5) Knowing the Only Heart".

They can't just make you stupid, alcohol, opium, numb you, but they will ruin your life.

Yes, but you have to take your time, unless you were a master in your previous life.

Buddhism is the solution to our problems and the liberation of us from birth and death.

No, I know what you mean, but it mainly depends on the level of your faith! You see, the so-called terrorist organizations are actually religious believers, and when their faith reaches the peak, they are not afraid of death!

Obviously, we must not deceive ourselves.

Strong faith leads to self-confidence.

Why should the landlord rush to get rid of it? To err is human.

There are some things that people will still get angry and annoyed even if they know that it is not right. Don't focus too much on your worries, just look away. Find more joy in life instead of focusing on those troubles. People are naturally happier.

I wish you to get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible.

Seeing through and letting go, using religious education to enable us to gain wisdom and use wisdom to break through troubles. so that we may be free from suffering and rejoice. Amitabha.

The helplessness of life, I'm afraid no one can do it, the rich are annoying, the rich are annoying, the rich are annoying, I personally think that working hard every day will make my life fulfilling. I don't think about any annoyance.

In fact, it is good at planning, good at adjusting, life is a journey, the result is not important, the important thing is that you have to live a full life, let your plan and plan fill your life, and then find a lot of things to do for yourself, don't force anything, force is not obtained, put the right attitude and work hard, happy life, but there will be gains, the biggest harvest is happiness, isn't it?

Human suffering is due to hypocrisy and excessive desire.

Sincerity (the mean) and reassuring (Mencius).

It is the only salvation.

I recommend reading "Selected Translations of Zhuangzi", "Yu Dan Zhuangzi's Experience", and "Learning to Be a Man with Master Hongyi" to understand that a little fur is enough to benefit for life.

Afflictions are bodhi, face him, solve it.

I have been engaged in Feng Shui research for a long time. I don't think building a pagoda will change the nature of Feng Shui! From a scientific point of view, Feng Shui is not a superstition!

I never fool people with superstition! Feng Shui structure is the natural aura associated with the human breath! Earth, water, air, and the elements of the human body have a chemical reaction on nature, including the chemical molecules that are left after death, and diffraction into the molecular chains of DNA.

Through time, aura distance, it has a feng shui effect on us. Absolutely scientific! If there is a feng shui gentleman mixed with superstitious colors to do.

Absolutely deceptive!

If you can't swim into the water, the more you struggle, the faster you sink, and you can be at ease when you let go, and you can't die if you want to. Fearless generosity will lead to health, giving away wealth will get wealth, and giving more will be given when you have it, and the more you give. Let go of fame and fortune, and what you deserve will always come. Just go with the flow.

In fact, it feels like you're relieved.

The second floor said so much, I didn't understand it at all....