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It must be needed. Rational analysis, the economic base determines the superstructure. Doing anything requires the ability to take the consequences.
If there is no certain material foundation to ensure it, then many things can only be empty checks, and eventually disappear like a dream. Perceptual analysis, I think we must have a vision in life and work. In the concept of love, the so-called vision is to see a person's future in him.
And if there is no certain material basis and no ideals, then I am sorry, I can only think that he has not yet put his ideas into action. Naturally, it is difficult for me to see the future of a person who has no ideals but has never practiced them. So, to some extent, a certain material basis is a necessity for love.
The above is purely a personal opinion. The three views are different from each other, and I hope it will help. <>
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Introduction: I think that girls should be materialistic, and there is no problem with girls being materialistic, but this material should be a requirement for themselves in many cases, because after all, it is better to rely on others than on yourself, and at the same time, girls can not use material in the process of falling in love, if you are facing marriage, you still have to consider the economic situation of both parties, after all, falling in love and marriage are two conceptual things, and I don't think that girls are material is a manifestation of vanity, You can choose material or non-material, you must know that everyone's choice is different, and you can't completely deny that material is a girl's mistake. And the material of girls is not that girls can violate morality for the sake of financial interests, but material under normal circumstances.
For girls, avoid being too materialistic.
In real life, girls can be material, but to avoid excessive materialism, you must know that everything must be reversed, because everyone hopes that they can live a good life, for girls, if the family environment is not good, it is actually very unfair to let girls bear this kind of poverty, you must know that after marriage, you have to face life and children, so it is normal for girls to ask for material, if it is too material, it will cause a great burden to the family. It may make this family unhappy in life.
Are girls really materialistic?
In fact, girls are not particularly material, not so much that girls are material, many times it should be said that girls want to seek a sense of security.
And this sense of security is based on material, so on the surface, you will feel that girls are particularly materialistic. This is also a thing that many men can't accept, they will feel that girls value money very much, but this kind of thinking is also particularly unfair to girls.
Summary. Finally, now everyone's ideological concept has changed, and now many people, especially girls, do not pin their lives on marriage, but choose not to marry or marry late, because they have seen through and then choose the other half, they are given too many material conditions, so this has led to many people being afraid of marriage.
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I think girls should be materialistic, but they should also be moderate, not materialistic. In daily life, many people will criticize some more materialistic girls, thinking that these girls are too vain. But I don't think female material is exactly a bad thing, because female material is the reality of their lives.
Maybe many boys will feel very disgusted when they see girls are more materialistic, and feel that they are with them just for money. But before you make this bold idea, you also need to understand how much money you have. <>
Is it worth the girl's effort to stay by her side, just for her monthly salary of 3,000 yuan. If a girl thinks that your salary of 3,000 yuan a month is too small for two people to live together and rejects you, it does not mean that the girl is material, but thinking about her future. After all, everyone has to plan for their future life, if the financial situation of both people is not good, how to maintain their life after marriage?
When looking for a girlfriend, many people can hope to find a woman with a good figure, good looks, housework, virtuous, and non-material. But such a girl's own conditions are already so good, why should she find an ordinary boy as her partner? Love doesn't last a lifetime, but material things can.
Maybe everyone didn't care about material things when they fell in love when they were young, and they felt that as long as two people loved each other, it was okay. <>
But when everyone grows up, enters the society, and feels the pressure of the society, they will find that love itself is an ethereal thing. If you can't guarantee the most basic materials, let alone love, it will be difficult for two people to finish a meal calmly. Girls value material things, and they just hope that they can live a better life in the future, just like boys hope to find a young, beautiful, and virtuous girlfriend when they are looking for a girlfriend, and girls also hope to find a boyfriend with good material conditions.
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<>I believe that many people will have their own opinions on this issue, that is, do you think girls should be material? Indeed, the topic of material for girls in today's society has been frequently hot, and whether girls should be material has also become a concern for many people. In my opinion, I think girls should be more materialistic.
Maybe this remark will cause some men to be angry, but I still think that girls should be more material in certain situations, after all, for today's society, everything needs to have a certain material foundation. Maybe we didn't understand the importance of material things when we were young. Maybe you are still the simple little girl you were at the beginning, hoping to let love redeem you, but poor couples mourn everything, even if there are a lot of feelings between you, when you live together, you will find that you will continue to quarrel because of material things, and feelings will disappear in your tedious quarrels.
So that's why in most marriages that talk about love, they are actually not very happy.
Of course, I also think that in the relationship, both parties need to go to each other together, and under certain circumstances, they can't let the other party blindly pay, but the other party should also have a certain material foundation, so as to attach a layer of plastic wrap to your love, so that your relationship will last for a long time, isn't it? Some people may not agree with my views, but I believe that most people must have seen such a news on the Internet, that is, after a girl and a boy have been in love for six years, they parted ways because of a bride price of 200,000 yuan, but the boy is willing to spend 200,000 bride price to marry a strange girl, so this incident also makes us feel that if you still blindly pursue feelings, then you will lose everything, isn't it?
Of course, you can choose to pursue your feelings, but remember not to throw away material things, because love without bread is vulnerable.
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I think girls should be materialistic, because girls love to buy things, and luxury goods are a big hobby of girls, and this is also a major characteristic of many girls, so I think girls should be more materialistic.
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Personally, I think girls should be materialistic, the current society is very realistic, if girls only talk about love, they may suffer, and it is true to hold what they have in their hands.
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Yes, but don't be too materialistic, when you fall in love or get married, you must pay attention to the material conditions of the other party, you must think clearly, and you must have correct values and three views.
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Personally, I feel that girls should be materialistic, and now society is very practical, if girls only talk about love, they can be at a loss, and it is true to hold what they have in their hands.
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I think girls should be materialistic, girls will be very comfortable and very happy, if they are not material, it is very easy to be deceived by others.
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In fact, whether a girl's material is good or not depends on the degree of the girl's material. If a girl is too materialistic, then this girl is not right, and it is difficult to find her true love, so it is not good to say that material girls. But from another aspect, women's material is based on a stable guarantee of the family, and this is also what men must choose, so women need to find a man who can rely on themselves, so there is nothing wrong with women's material.
1. It's not right for girls to be too materialistic.
In fact, for girls, if they blindly pursue material things and material enjoyment, then this kind of girl is not good if she is too materialistic, and it is not easy to get her true love. And girls who are too materialistic don't deserve true love. Therefore, it is completely wrong to say that girls are too materialistic, and they are also out of touch with reality, because this kind of girl also has wrong values and views of love.
2. Girls are all right in substance.
We all live in society and inevitably deal with money. If a man does not give a woman to rely on, then it will be difficult for a woman. It is beneficial to say that a woman is materialistic, and it is also for the sake of her own future family, so it is understandable to say that a woman's material is a little.
On the other hand, the material of women is for the better development of future generations. <>
3. Women's material is in line with the law of social development.
Because the value of our society is above money, many people are driven by the concept of money. Although girls are too materialistic, this kind of material ** does not really understand love. So girls can be materialistic, but not too materialistic.
Generally speaking, women are materialistic, but if they are too materialistic, they will form the other extreme, so at this time, women who are too materialistic is a wrong view of love and values, so it is wrong to be too materialistic.
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I think it's right for women to be material, poor couples mourn everything, and they can't live without money. Those men who say that women are materialistic, you might as well work harder on your own.
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There is nothing wrong with a woman's materiality, but it is not right to use material as the only criterion for judging things.
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A woman's material cannot simply say whether it is right or wrong. If a woman gives up her bottom line for the sake of material things and does something immoral, it is not right.
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I think there is a degree to everything, and if the material requirements have exceeded the love or the other party's affordability, it is not right.
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I think this is right, because life is so cruel, how can you live without material things, with love for you? Love will also have a souring day.
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A girl who only has money in her eyes.
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In the emotion, the girl can't be too materialistic, because the girl is too materialistic will seduce the boy's material desires, so that she is in an awkward competition, because it is in love that two people talk nonsense, the girl can keep his young or so, but the boy's potential can be sustained.
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Whether it is a man or a woman, material or not, there is no need to be entangled. We are hungry to listen to our inner voice and find our true selves, which has nothing to do with the outward rotten money. If a person wants to achieve his own goals, he has to spend a lot of financial resources, which is what we call "too material", in fact, there is no need to criticize too much.
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Because Sun holds too materialistic girls, they can't find real feelings at all, and they will have to bring or not the trust of the stupid Kaiwu other party, and the other party will feel that what the girl does is purposeful.
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If it is too materialistic, it will make the boy look down on him, and Qi Dai will make Shengkai live a more tired life, and he can't find a boy who is really good to him, so he misses a good marriage.
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Because girls are too materialistic, they will be looked down upon by the other party, and even doubt the girl's love for each other, and they can't establish trust between each other.
This kind of boy is really stinky and shameless, needless to say, such a boy is not attentive to his girlfriend in the first place, if he loves his girlfriend, he will try his best to meet his girlfriend's expenses, instead of picking the girl's money, such a man is taking advantage of you, spending your money and sleeping with you, and finally if you break up with you, you will not suffer a loss.
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