How counsellors manage relationships with students

English-Chinese Simultaneous Interpretation Department: Ran Dongqing As the manager of the class, the ultimate goal of the class teacher is to create a harmonious class group. The teacher-student relationship plays a vital role in this process.

How to deal with the relationship with students, in addition to actively caring for students in life and doing their best to help students, if you really want to be friends with students and get along well, you need to pay attention to the following aspects: 1Respect students.

Successful educators must deeply understand and respect the natural and personal characteristics of students, and on this basis, teach them according to their aptitude, and give them a free and broad space. The process of class teacher management is essentially a two-way emotional communication process between teachers and students. Only by respecting students' personality and self-esteem, treating every student equally, and exalting the value ideal of "people-oriented", can students have a sense of pleasure, security and dignity in their studies and life, and can their potential and wisdom be fully brought into play.

First of all, treat students equally and well, and do not dictate to students with a condescending attitude and paternalistic style. Second, teachers need to trust their students from the bottom of their hearts. Trust in students is a special kind of respect, and it has a special educational function for students.

Unfounded suspicion is a sign of disrespect for students. 2.Encourage students.

The most important role of the class teacher is to give students upward motivation. Encouragement can maintain students' dignity, tap students' potential, and cultivate students' independence and resilience. Students who do something wrong or do not study well are often under greater psychological pressure, blame themselves and be overwhelmed.

At this time, what he needs is not harsh criticism, but the help and encouragement of his teacher. When students do something wrong, they often have good motives, but it is only because of improper methods that the mistakes occur. At this time, what he needs is the right guidance and encouragement.

Teachers should know more about students, capture all the shining points of students in a timely manner, and correctly treat students' achievements and shortcomings, so that they can learn lessons from failures and stand up tenaciously. 3.Listen to your students.

Deep down, people have a desire to be respected. As a class teacher, it is necessary to respect students in order to educate them effectively. To respect students, we must learn to listen to students' voices, understand their sufferings, know what they are thinking, what they are doing, what they are happy about, what they are worried about, what they are successful in learning, and what are their confusions.

By learning to listen, you will be able to understand the inner world of your students. Students are willing to tell you their hearts and seek the teacher's care and understanding, and the communication that takes place at this time is the heart-to-heart communication, which is the soul and soul rippling. Therefore, listening is a prerequisite for effective education.

As the saying goes: "To water flowers is to add roots, and to educate people is to nurture the heart." "Only when teachers truly respect, understand, care, help, support, and appreciate every student can they consciously accept education and increase the opportunities for communication between teachers and students.

In short, the class teacher should set an example everywhere in his work, so that the students he teaches can achieve harmonious and all-round development.

1. When you see the counselor, you should greet you seriously and let the counselor get to know you first. University is half a society, and dealing with a counselor will be of great help to your future path, so don't be like high school and dodge when you see a teacher. Look at each other carefully and greet each other.

2. Do a job in the class. Class presidents and study committee members in college have many opportunities to get along with counselors, so in college, you must run for a position to increase your chances.

3. Be proactive in doing things. If there is something you need help with in the class, or if the teachers need to do something, you should take the initiative to help, and it doesn't matter if you suffer a little loss.

4. Work hard to show your talents. In college, you must show yourself so that the counselor will have an impression of you, so that the next time you ask the counselor for help, it will be much smoother.

College counselors are actually equivalent to the role of class teachers in junior and senior high schools, but the management of classes is more, usually do not need to take classes, and do not appear in the class much, but counselors are closely related to our college life, such as some important notices of the school, to be conveyed by the counselor, the candidates for the annual evaluation and awards, to be determined by the counselor, usually leave of absence, but also through the counselor's consent and so on. Therefore, it is best to have a good relationship with the counselor during the college period, so that the college life will be more convenient, but if you ignore the counselor, then the four years of college may be difficult.

I think try to lower my attitude in front of the counselor, don't be too proud, and then talk to the counselor about the situation in the class.

If you want to have a good relationship with the counselor of the university, of course, you must first perform well, especially in some tasks arranged by the teacher, you must actively complete them, and mobilize your classmates to support some activities arranged by the counselor. If he appreciates you, he will definitely have a good relationship with you.

You can clean up the counselor in your spare time, chat, and talk about your own thoughts, so that you can deal with the relationship with the counselor.

The work of the study committee usually involves a lot with the counselor, so it is good to be active and serious when you work.

College counselors are very important. It depends on the ability of the counselor, and it is very important to deal with the relationship with the counselor

You don't need to talk to college counselors too closely, because they may not necessarily know you.

If you don't deal with him, you just need to ask, I don't know what homework, or if you don't deal with him, just ask, I don't know what homework, or the homework you and your classmates assigned, let him see if it's suitable.

If you want to deal with the relationship with the university counselor, you still have to be familiar with him, but he also has to start from personal preferences, that is, you must be clear about what he likes and what he likes to do, and you must understand it first.

In fact, the college counselors don't care much about their own classes, mainly because some notices will be sent to us, and the rest of the time depends on us to study independently.

Introduction: When you go to college, you must deal with your interpersonal relationships, and to deal with those interpersonal relationships that are helpful to your own development, it is very important to have a good relationship with your counselor during college. So how do you go about it?

The first thing to do is to have a good relationship with the counselor, and the most important thing is to communicate more. Don't feel like you're going to bother the counselor by asking a question. The main job of the counselor is to deal with student affairs and help students grow, and if you have problems in life and study, you can consult the counselor.

Most counselors are familiar with the student's life and have common topics with the student, so they can increase the connection with the counselor. In addition, you can also help the counselor to do some things, in fact, there are some jobs in the school, and some of the jobs are related to the affairs of the college. As long as you do your job well and can indeed win glory for the college, the counselor is also very happy.

Moreover, the counselor will naturally pay attention to the development of each student, which actually affects the counselor's performance appraisal and also affects the counselor's future promotion space. Therefore, as long as you behave well and can communicate effectively with the counselor, you can have a good relationship with the counselor.

If you want to manage interpersonal relationships well during your college years, the most important thing is to learn to avoid conflicts and contradictions. If you have a very short temper and are prone to conflict with others, it will seriously affect your reputation during college, after all, the university environment is still relatively closed. In addition, it is necessary to be conscientious and responsible, in fact, when it comes to university clubs and group work, it is especially annoying people who are not able to be serious and responsible.

And it's best to make friends with like-minded people who can help you develop. Therefore, if you can exercise your emotional intelligence during college, then it will be very helpful in the future workplace.

In college, if you perform better and do things positively, you will be able to have a good relationship with the counselor, and when there are benefits, you will naturally think of you.

Respect each other, be positive, try to find a place in the student council, and be the class president.

In normal times, you should respect the counselor, and then you should also find the counselor in time if you have any questions, and you should communicate more with the counselor at ordinary times, and you can also give some gifts to the counselor during the holidays, so as to express your gratitude.

You can be friends with each other, so that you can have a good relationship and become very good in life. Any problems encountered can be solved very well. You can care more about each other and take care of each other more.

You should communicate more with the counselor, and you can send some hometown specialties to the counselor during the New Year's holiday, and you can also send a cup of milk tea to the counselor at ordinary times, so that you can have a good relationship.

It may be that you need to talk to the counselor often, and then you can also do some things with the counselor appropriately, so that you can have a good relationship with the counselor.

You must study hard, don't miss class, don't skip class, and be sure to help the counselor well and handle the class well.

Actively participate in the election of class leaders, complete the tasks assigned by the counselor, and actively participate in various activities held in the school.

I think ha, first.

Clause. Second, it should be a friendship, because the counselor is not much older than the students, and they are easy to believe in you and get close to you. So make them think of you as soon as they have something, and you will solve it for them and give them ideas.

Clause. 3. Managers. The counselor is a management cadre who coordinates the relationship between students, the school and the society. It is the representative of all cadres and students in the class and grade, and the spokesperson of the interests of students.

Clause. Fourth, it is a person who serves students. Education is the cause of cultivating people, and we should emphasize the subjectivity of people and the all-round development of people, and the most fundamental foothold of the education management of counselors is to serve the all-round development of people and the cultivation of talents. The student is the main body of the school, and the counselor should respect the student and develop his or her personality.

Do counselors give ethics lessons to college students.

<>From my personal learning experience, the counselors in colleges and universities are actually younger, and the counselors in our college are all graduate studentsIn fact, it is a kind of relationship with classmates who are also teachers and friends.

In my opinion,If you want to concentrate on academics, then it is almost useless to have a good relationship with a counselor. If you want to join a group or join the party, or if you want to organize activities for cadres on duty, then it will be useful to have a good relationship with the counselor, and you can also exercise your abilities.

Such as:

If you just want to study hard, you can get along normally

Take myself as an example, I just want to study hard and finally be admitted to graduate school and workThen get along with the counselor normally, be polite and courteous, and don't have to go out of your way to please you. Because the rights of counselors are not very large, and they may not study the same major as youI can't help you with my studies.

When I say politeness, I mean if the counselor wants you to do something, such as come.

It's best to move something, volunteer for a while, or something. Don't fail to read it, after all, you will definitely have something to ask for them in your study and lifeFor example, if you can't choose a course by yourself, or you want to know the time and specific arrangements of various activities in the school.

There are many benefits beyond studying

If you want to join a group, join the party, evaluate scholarships, be a cadre on duty, or something, it is really useful to have a good relationship with a counselor.

In my own experience, before the start of the freshman year, a group of people came to the school as volunteers in the summer, and they had a good relationship with the counselorThen when the school starts, the class cadres in the basic class are all decidedAfter all, the counselor has seen the ability of others.

In addition, the scope of affairs handled by the counselor includes joining the group and joining the partyMoreover, when the class usually evaluates outstanding league members or party members, the class cadres are generally selected, and not people like us who study in obscurity, and the same goes for scholarships.

To a certain extent, exercise your abilities

I'm referring to the words of being a work officerIt is indeed possible to exercise yourselfOrganizational skills, communication skills, and more.

After all, as a class cadre, especially a squad leader, you still need to organize class meetings in the usual class.

Events, school sports days, art festivals, etc. At this time, the main test is your organizational abilityLet who do what, and how to communicate so that others can do the work willingly.

In addition,It seems to me that universities are also like a small society, the class cadres are running back and forth between the students below and the counselors aboveIt was also an experience of possible daily activities at work in the future.

All in all, it is useful to have a good relationship with a counsellor, but it depends on what your needs are. If you just want to study hard, then you can be polite and courteous with the counselor, and if you want to evaluate or join the group, a good relationship may bring youPriority