Now I have a girlfriend, but I still want to have an intersection with my ex girlfriend, what is the

Updated on psychology 2024-03-12
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's a state of mind that wants to break up.

    I want to have an intersection with my ex-girlfriend when I have a current girlfriend, and what kind of intersection do I want to have?

    It's to interact on WeChat, chat, see if she's doing well, and send her a red envelope on holidays. Or on the weekend, when everyone is free, make an appointment to have a meal, watch a movie, and exchange feelings. When everyone is almost communicated, you have affection for her, do you want to have a resurgence.

    If there is an intersection and you don't want to be with her, it is really beautiful to hug your current girlfriend on the left and your ex-girlfriend on the right.

    In case it is discovered by the current girlfriend, you can also say that we are just friends, why are you so careful, and then complain about the current one with your ex-girlfriend.

    The idea is so good, so should the current girlfriend also make a few blue-faced confidantes or have a new intersection with her ex-boyfriend.

    Now that we've broken up, we're all right, and don't have any more dealings. How do you make your current girlfriend feel that a girl who used to have the closest relationship with you is still by your side, she can't accept this, you really think it's her careful eye.

    Then why can't most boys accept that their girlfriends have boyfriends and confidants?

    If you really want to have an intersection with your ex-girlfriend, just tell your current girlfriend that if she's generous, that's no problem, and if she can't accept it, give up. If you don't want to give up, break up and let your girlfriend go.

    I don't know what you think about your ex to intersect with, whether it's missing your ex or longing to have something to do with your ex, or whether you don't like your current girlfriend that much.

    Either way, I hope you can dispel yourself or go and talk to your current incumbent.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think the reason is that you still have feelings for her, so you feel very uncomfortable, but I think there is no way to recover some feelings that have ended, so there is no need to care too much.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It is very uncomfortable to know that your ex-girlfriend has a partner, it may be because you didn't let go of him, or the two of you separated on impulse, you may still like him now, but you don't admit it in your heart, or you may be unwilling.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Well, this is a kind of lack of confidence in yourself, if you know that she has an ex-boyfriend, you are very uncomfortable, it means that you feel that you are not good enough for girls, you should change slowly, and then improve yourself not to always think about some of the haves and haves.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It may be that you feel that your ex-girlfriend has not let go of it, after all, he is the girl you used to love the most, but now that she is someone else's baby, you will feel very uncomfortable and unbalanced.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You're still in love with your ex-girlfriend, so it's hard for me to know that he has a partner, she's your grievance, but you can't have her now.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You may be the one who was dumped in this relationship, and you don't really want to break up, so it's normal for your ex-girlfriend to be sad when she has a partner.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because you still have her shadow in your heart, you still like her, and you can't forget her, so she will feel very uncomfortable when she has a partner.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then you may not have come out of the previous relationship, and you still think that the two of you have the possibility of getting back together, and you still like your ex-girlfriend, or you may have paid more in the previous relationship, and you are still a little unwilling.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It will be very uncomfortable to know the object of your ex-girlfriend, which means that you are still in love with your ex-girlfriend and can't let go of him. You still have feelings for him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe I haven't forgotten it, maybe I think there will be a little regret, after all, I paid so much for him that I broke up in the end, and he has already talked about a new partner.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, it is not ruled out that you still love her, and secondly, as a man, you are very possessive, even if she no longer belongs to you, you will still feel uncomfortable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is the desire to conquer that everyone will have in their hearts, just feel that she is yours, and don't want to think about her past, but love is a first-come, first-served, look at the point.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When you know that she is with someone else, you will definitely imagine what they will do together, and in your imagination, you will naturally start from yourself and substitute your feelings into her boyfriend, and you will feel more and more strongly the feeling of peace of mind and warmth that you have lost.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't be reconciled, or still like her, after she has a new boyfriend, you have to find a new girlfriend quickly, well, time and new love will make you forget the pain quickly, I hope you will come out quickly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You still love your ex-girlfriend in your heart, and now you feel that he has a partner, and you feel uncomfortable. I feel like a failure, a loss. In fact, in your heart, you still love him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It should be self-esteem and possessiveness, and the desire is making trouble, otherwise you shouldn't wait until your ex-girlfriend has a partner to feel uncomfortable In case you should bless your ex-girlfriend, don't treat him with this kind of psychology.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The reason for this is that you have not come out of the previous relationship, and you have to start your new relationship as soon as possible, or divert your attention to other things.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's normal to know that an ex-girlfriend has a partner, and if you have a very good partner now, then it won't be like that.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Maybe it's because you're separated, but she has a partner so soon, she has already let go, and you haven't let go yet, so you will be unwilling.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Because I still love her, or because I feel that the other party has abandoned me and is better off than me, I will be more sad.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    After a breakup, you should break up, this is the most basic respect for your boyfriend, I think you should talk to your girlfriend, if she doesn't change repeatedly, you should consider breaking up.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Inquire carefully, if he can't let go of his ex-subject, carry out psychological persuasion, not in a hurry, if the persuasion is not effective, if the persuasion is not effective, respect her choice.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    At this time, you must talk about it with your girlfriend and tell your girlfriend that she should not contact her ex-partner, and that she will be jealous.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    First of all, we need to be clear that romantic relationships are a very complex and changeable thing in their own right. Therefore, it is very difficult to deduce some conclusions from a matter that is simple in a situation. However, there are some common scenarios and solutions that can be used.

    In this case, you get back together with your ex-girlfriend online, but when you are looking for a girlfriend in real life, she ignores you, which may indicate that the relationship between the two is not so simple. Perhaps she has a certain amount of hesitation and concern about the decision to get back together and needs time to think about it. Or she may no longer be willing to try to be in a relationship with you again and just see keeping in touch with you as a friendship.

    However, the most important thing is that you should maintain respect and understanding for her. Don't force her to do anything she doesn't want or put her thoughts and feelings ahead of your own interests. You should maintain open communication and mutual understanding to minimize misunderstandings and unpleasantness.

    If you don't show genuine concern and generosity, there's a good chance she'll feel emotionally alienated and disgusted with you.

    Ultimately, if you are having difficulties in a relationship, you should seek help and find mature ways to resolve them. In this process, it is very important to maintain good communication, understanding and mutual respect.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Many times the changes in your thinking will subtly affect your behavior, language and manners, which will have a dark and boring appearance to others, but you feel that you may not show it, and many things will change in your life from the moment your thoughts change.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Ex-girlfriend and current girlfriend seem to be destined to be two creatures that are incompatible, both say that in the eyes of girls, three kinds of people are the ugliest, a kind of intimate love enemy, a kind of ex-boyfriend's current girlfriend, the current boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, it can be said that it is very vivid, the ex-girlfriend and the current girlfriend become friends, thinking about this picture makes people want to laugh very much. If two people don't fight each other, tearing each other is even if they burn high incense.

    What can two people talk about together? Even if they become friends, they are just very ordinary kind of friends, and it is absolutely impossible to become a best friend with superficial harmony to cover up the inner embarrassment, unless the current girlfriend also becomes an ex-girlfriend, so that the two can cultivate feelings because they may share the same hatred.

    The ex-boyfriend and the current girlfriend become friends, it is very likely that both of them want to show their tolerance and generosity in front of you, just the peace on the surface of the fans, in fact, think about it with your toes, how can two people become friends with each other? One has a strong relationship with you, the other has no hatred for you, or no love for you, there is no intersection between the two people except you, those ex-girlfriends and current girlfriends have a very good relationship, and they can even go to the mall together, this situation should only appear in TV dramas.

    Moreover, even if the ex-girlfriend and the current girlfriend become good friends, as long as you are open-minded and fearless, there is nothing to owe to the ex-girlfriend, and there is nothing to hide for the current girlfriend.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    When I first found out, I was shocked that two women who had emotional entanglements with me became friends, and I was actually afraid that they would complain about me together.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's an incredible experience because one of them is the one I love now and the other is the one I once loved.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It shows that the current girlfriend is a woman with high emotional intelligence, and sometimes there is a creepy feeling.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It doesn't feel like a special experience, they are originally in the same circle, and it is not an incredible thing for the two of them to become friends.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I think they're also quite magical, because in general, they hate each other very much, and sometimes they feel like they're just an accident.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's an experience that makes me happy because they can be friends and it means they won't trouble me in the future.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You might be caught in the middle! But it could also be as good as you want. This situation should be rare, if it really happens, what kind of fate is it? You are so lucky, you should cherish this fate even more!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's an amazing feeling. I thought they would be incompatible, but I didn't expect it to be like this.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It is an instinctive reaction that exists between people of the same sex.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Hahahahahaha

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