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What are we most afraid of in relationships? It's that you dig out your heart and lungs to the other party, but the other party just treats you as a spare tire. If you encounter such a situation, then there is no doubt that she seems to have become a laughing stock in her eyes, and she has paid so much for an unworthy woman.
But we often say that if people are in love, people's IQ will drop, how can we tell whether the other party really likes themselves or treats themselves as a spare tire?
In the case of this kind of thing, we can only say that the authorities are fascinated, and the bystanders are clear, many times for the boy in the relationship, she can't tell the truth of the matter, but as a bystander, she can sum up some experience.
For example, if a girl has the following behaviors in the process of getting along with you, then she may use you as a spare tire.
Be warm to you when you need it, and cold to you when you don't. If a girl likes you, then she must want to be with you all the time, after the two people establish a relationship, they will always be particularly tired of being together, whether it is to chat and contact each other daily, or to date in private, this kind of behavior is very much.
But if a girl is very enthusiastic about you when she needs your help, but is very cold to you in normal times, then her behavior has nothing to do with liking, and she just needs you to do a favor.
You know that when we guys get along with friends, whether it's usually or when we need help, our relationship has always been good, but a girl is very enthusiastic when she needs your help, and she acts cold when she doesn't need your help, in fact, she is treating you as a spare tire.
Enjoy your efforts, but don't want to admit you. There are some examples around us where boys and girls have been in love for a long time, but they don't get a certain sense of security, and the reason is that boys feel that girls don't openly declare their existence.
Sometimes boys will ask her what we are, and girls will say that we are boyfriend and girlfriend, so why don't we want to make it public? Why should something between the two of us be made public?
In fact, her statement is just a prevarication, she enjoys your efforts while also hoping that others will know about your existence, in this way, she is still single in the outside world, that is, she allows other boys to chase her.
will only ask for you, but never feel sorry for you. We often say that care is mutual in the relationship, you care about her, she cares about you, but if a girl will only blindly ask for you, but never care about you, then I have to say that she really doesn't love you that much.
Because all she cares about is herself, she is happy, but she doesn't care about your efforts and your hard work, and when she needs you again, she will still contact you and ask you to pay.
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Usually I will not take the initiative to contact you, but when I contact you, I must have something to do with you, such a person must treat you as a spare tire, so you must stay away from such a woman.
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A woman who treats you as a spare tire is considerate and thoughtful to you when she is happy, and completely ignores your feelings when she is unhappy; When you're in pain, she pretends not to know, or goes her own way; The temper comes up to be willful and unreasonable to you, and even doesn't care about your face.
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Snubbed, not interested in a person, will snub him when you don't care about a person, and people who love you will not snub you and make you lonely.
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When such a woman gets along, she may treat you very indifferently and hurt you.
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is very indifferent to you and doesn't care about you, especially perfunctory to you, doesn't care about you, never shares her daily life with you, uses cold violence against you and only goes to you when she is in trouble, which shows that she only treats you as a spare tire.
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Don't take what you say to heart. Always refuse your requests for a variety of reasons.
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A woman who will be hot and cold to you, a woman who will say something hurtful to you, a woman who will be cold and violent to you, a woman who will dislike you, and a woman who will lose her temper with you.
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If a woman just treats you as a spare tire, she will not be nice to you, nor will she take the initiative to chat with you, nor will she take the initiative to share her daily life with you, she will be very indifferent to you, and will only contact you when she asks for money.
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Believe it or not, a person who truly loves you can't lie to you, even if it's just a white lie. But on the contrary, if a woman only treats you as a spare tire, she doesn't care at all about what she lied to you, but rather if she doesn't lie, how can you be willing to be her spare tire? Or maybe the lies she told are appropriate, and you won't be able to notice them for a while, but if you pay a little attention, you will be able to find some lies she told you.
Don't think that these little lies are irrelevant, trivial things can lie to you, do you think other big things will make you discover the truth? It's like you're a spare tire.
A woman who truly loves you can only look forward to becoming more and more intimate with you. This is also why many women become especially clingy after being in a relationship. In fact, it is because she wants to live with the other party for the rest of her life, and she wants the other party to feel her love more clearly.
If it's in this relationship, you're always the one who thinks about it when it's needed, and the person who ignores you once it's used up, then you want to be sober. This kind of relationship can only bring you endless damage, because the one opposite doesn't really love you at all, just treats you as one of her spare tires!
If a woman is truly in love with you, she may not care about her own thoughts, but she will definitely care about your experience, especially when it comes to making friends. After being with you, the girl will deliberately maintain the distance between herself and other friends of the opposite sex, so that you will not misunderstand and lose your temper. But instead of doing so, she avoids it and tells you that she is just a "brother" or "friend."
In this case, if you really believe it, then you may be the stupid person.
Many women still think that they are so smart that they deceive men in a hurry, but they don't know that people are doing it, and the sky is watching. Sometimes it's not that there is no punishment, it's just that it hasn't fallen on her head yet. A person who can't even emotionally guarantee that he will be done seriously will one day be not done seriously by others.
Hopefully, you haven't met such a woman.
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I never care about you, I only pay attention to whether you spend money on yourself, whether you buy gifts for yourself, whether you will receive your gifts, and if this woman treats you as a spare tire, she will do these things to you.
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Never cares about you, only asks you for gifts, lies to you in all sorts of ways, never helps you when you are in need, and often hits your self-esteem and degrades you.
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will often cheat on you, quarrel with you, never care about you, and if this woman treats you as a spare tire, she will do these few things.
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I don't care about everything about you, I can't read it back to you. A woman doesn't care about you, which means she doesn't love you at all. She received all the greetings you gave, but she just didn't reply to you, which means that she didn't reassure you at all.
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The attitude towards you is always hot and cold, and the woman who treats you as a spare tire only sees your money, and you are a wallet for her to pay.
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It should be that he is unwilling to give you a clear answer, and then he will take the initiative to contact you when he needs it, and then give you the feeling of leaving.
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Treat you hot and cold, never introduce you to her relatives and friends, always ask you to give her gifts, never consider your feelings, and there will be many other friends of the opposite sex around Keina.
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I like to fool you, love to mock you, etc. For example, there is already someone you like around a girl, but every time that person doesn't appear and you need to appear, you and the stool liquid can see his intentions, and then every time you are coarse and confusing with you, you will find that you are absent-minded.
The first action will give you a ** when I think of you, and then do something to you, it's such an action, the second action always wants to take advantage of you, and such a man will never talk about feelings with you, which means that this man treats you as a spare tire.
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