Is it OK to give up a family for love?

Updated on society 2024-03-19
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love is not a game, love is a sincere giving, and you must forget that you can't really do it. No matter where the destination will be, I think I should leave an innocent beauty in my heart. I have never been easily attracted to others, and suddenly I found myself deeply in love, that feeling is really difficult to express in words, is it joy?

    Is it sad? How can you forget, can you get it back if you love to say that you can take it back? If you can, it's not love.

    Maybe I don't have the courage to face the cruelty of reality. I often have such feelings, maybe love is just because of loneliness, and you need to find someone to love, even if there is no ending. But why is love so fragile?

    Sometimes it's more fragile than a glass vase. It is so strong, so strong that even if it has made itself bruised, it still loves it infatuatedly and never regrets it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Are you sure your love has everything to offer you? If not, think again. In this world, ephemeral love can be seen everywhere, and sometimes it is much happier to be the one who is loved than to be the one to love.

    In my personal opinion, if your current family can give you happiness, then it is undoubtedly stupid to give up this family and choose love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Learn to empathize, think about your family, if there is no other person, then don't be too extreme, try to persuade your family to agree.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Do you have children in your family? If so, I advise you to think twice, and if not, don't worry about it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Are you sure that what you call love is true love? Or is it just because I was carried away by the so-called temporary love?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Personal opinion: It's better not to be

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Family affection is the most precious, how can you give it up?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Everyone is willing to sacrifice for love to a different degree. I have also asked myself this question, how far am I really willing to sacrifice for love? In fact, people are selfish.

    The girls in the romance movies I watched before, or a man for love. Able to break with their own family. Give up inheriting your rich family property.

    went out with his lover to live a poor life and started from scratch. Actually, I used to have a love affair before. It should be said that at the beginning, the family introduced a blind date.

    As for the blind date, there is a stable job and a stable income of Bishen, and he has bought a house. People are also very honest, the kind of brother who doesn't smoke or drink, and the blind date with him doesn't talk much. But he doesn't have any feelings for him.

    He was seven years older than me, and there was a lot of generation gap between us, and we didn't have a common language. So I rejected him from the beginning. It's just that the people in the family like him very much.

    Because of his conditions, he repented of the loss of the dust. And my mom kept trying to persuade me to marry him. But what about that time?

    I have someone I love. But the conditions of the person I love are not so good. Job instability.

    The family conditions are also generally no car and no house. It's okay for me. Because I was young at that time, I was very disgusted with blind dates, so I loved my boyfriend very much.

    It should be said that many people may really sacrifice their parents for love, break with their parents, and then choose the person they love. I had that idea at the time. I just want to spend nine yuan to register my marriage with this man behind my parents' back.

    But then reason triumphed over impulse. Parents are for life. This man may not be able to follow me for the rest of my life.

    So I chose to break up later. Of course, I didn't stay with this news after the breakup, because the relationship was really not at all. Later, I chose someone I liked.

    Now I have been married for eight years and have my own baby, and my life is slowly getting better.

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