Don t be too vicious? Don t be too good

The "Big Forest Little Sparrow", which has been used for more than a year, has finally been changed.

There are many reasons for this, and it has something to do with my mood lately.

The previous "Big Forest Little Sparrow" was called this name in an instant because of Yuan Li and Su Youpeng's TV series "Meet Youth", and I felt that the name Big Forest was very comfortable, so I called it this.

The lonely forest, which is very suitable for his current state, has been unwilling to take out all the words in his heart, and will not say anything, just bless everyone.

I've been writing blogs carefully, and I've been sincere to my classmates, friends, and relatives around me, no matter what I do badly, I hope you forgive me.

After all, no one is perfect.

Today I went to shoot some school **, because the cherry blossoms, palm trees, etc. in the school are now green and red.

Probably because ** is too big, so it didn't come up, let's talk about it after it's made.

This afternoon, I occasionally saw Tianjin TV broadcasting "Snow Mountain Flying Fox", listening to the familiar **, I have a lot of memories in my heart.

The first time I watched that TV series, my aunt took me to a relative's house near my grandmother's house to watch it, and at that time there were very few TV sets, and there were only one or two in the whole village, so the walls and patios were full of people.

Unfortunately, I was too young to understand the TV at all.

Later, when I was in elementary school, I went to his house with my classmates at noon, and I didn't run back to school until it was almost class, but fortunately, my classmates' homes were very close to the school.

Now, that relative's family is very strange to me, and my classmate's family doesn't know how many times I have moved, and then my classmate's father is gone forever because of the accident, so the classmate became very silent, and the classmates in the class actively helped him.

Later, after graduating from junior high school, my classmates in elementary school rarely contacted me, after all, there was no QQ and mobile phone at that time.

Seeing the villain's face of Tian Guinong in "Snow Mountain Flying Fox", I was really disgusted!

He ruined the happiness of two generations!

I hope there will be fewer bad guys and villains in the world!

After all, don't be too vicious.

yes... If it's too vicious, the popularity will definitely not be good...

When people live, I feel that they can be respected and can live in harmony with others, so that they can be happy

You can't be too poisonous as a human being, but for a birdman, the more poisonous the better, and it's best to poison him to death.

Yes, good is rewarded with good, and evil is rewarded with evil.

Personally, I think that really vicious people will not let you find out that they are vicious. They will hide well, and when you reach their unacceptable range, they will start planning what to do with you. It's dangerous to get along with such a person, and you don't know when you're going to be killed!

The attitude of a vicious person should be to harm others and benefit himself, often deliberately speak ill of others, treat anyone more insidiously and viciously, and take harming others as his main purpose.

Since he is a vicious person, his nature is not good, and his heart will be very **, and there are many bad intentions, so what he does will also reflect his heart, follow his inner arrangement, and will not forgive others.

Vicious people behave without thinking about the consequences. This kind of person behaves and does things completely according to his own personality, and ignores the ideas of others.

Vicious people have no heart and lungs, do not pay attention to affection and righteousness, only pay attention to interests, like to take advantage of people's danger, cross rivers and demolish bridges, and do things ruthlessly, this kind of person is still relatively easy to identify.

Vicious people generally believe that people are not for themselves, and heaven and earth will be destroyed.

And they are all money worshippers and hedonistic people. Hope.

It is better to establish the correct three views.

Stay away from some fake and ugly people and things.

Good is rewarded with good, and evil is rewarded with evil.

Not just for others. For yourself, you can't do it - street rats.

They don't look at what other people think, and even if they are wrong, they think they are right.

To be a man, the temper is really not too good. If you compromise too much, you will become unstrategic, and you must have your own ideas as a person. If you are too gentle, you will be too humble, and you should be soft on the outside and strong on the inside. If you are too loyal, you will be a little cowardly, and you must be independent.

If you are accustomed to saying good things to others, others will like to be unscrupulous to you; If you are accustomed to helping others do things, others will easily gain inches; Accustomed to accommodating others, it encourages the willfulness of others. I think everyone has watched the Taiwanese drama "Fated I Love You", and Chen Xinyi, a post-it note girl played by Chen Qiaoen, can be said to fully correspond to the above regulations. In the end, it becomes an errand girl, others have taken your compromise for granted, and if you refuse, it is your deserved.

Do you want to be such a person? So there is a limit to what is good to you, and you must also know how to reject others. Speaking of which, everyone will say that Chen Xinyi has gained both love and career in the play, but I want to say that in real life, there are a few people who can become the successful Chen Xinyi in the play, and a few people who will become the post-it note Chen Xinyi before the play.

has been a good-natured person all his life, and in the end, no one can remember his characteristics, and no one can find his sense of existence. Someone asks this person how his personality is and what he likes, and most of the people around him will, oh, this person, it's very good, I don't know what he likes, it doesn't seem to have anything he hates. Don't really have a good temper, people who don't have a temper at all don't have an independent mind.

People who don't have any anger at all have no outlet. Such a person lives his whole life for others and does not have an independent life of his own.

Everyone has their own temper, and giving up one's temper is equivalent to giving up the thinking in one's heart. Love others too much, after all, love yourself too little. Don't be too good-tempered, take out some wisdom, your own life, and have the final say! Live for yourself!

1. Leave some leeway, it is possible to turn around calmly, words can not be said, things can not be done, do not forget to leave a step for people when refusing, a little more love in the heart, life will be a little more surprise, everything only up to seven or eight points to have a good taste.

2 "Bad stubble" is not necessarily a good thing, black is black, white is white, hard arguments will only make people look down on you, keep some words, it is a strategy, but also a realm, laughing and scolding leisurely, euphemistic speaking, do not tear down the stage and do not expose the short, always sing the opposite tone and make many enemies, don't be quick to speak for a while, the beast has a long tongue can not speak, people have a short tongue should not be said, it is best not to use the sarcasm that is disgusted, and the advice should not be against the ear.

3 Don't be the first bird, don't be the protagonist everywhere, not only can bend and stretch, but also know when to bend and when to stretch, cultivated people will not talk about themselves casually, don't talk to themselves and sing a one-man show, the protagonist and supporting roles can be played, and they are comfortable on and off the stage.

4 The ears of the crop that look up must be small, and not be too arrogant, and not too sharp at any time, and pride fall at the threshold, and go through the world with humility, and the word "harmony" is worth a thousand gold, and arrogance throws away one's life, and one thinks of oneself as a pillar, and Hugh compares others to thatch.

5 You can't make enough money in business at one time, you must distinguish between sesame and watermelon, greed is endless, don't indulge, always think about the interests of others first, and you can't make a big deal by eating alone.

6 Do not be in the limelight, do not be too conspicuous, otherwise it is easy to become the target of public criticism, no one likes to be pointed at him, but be good at hiding and not revealing it, and wait for the opportunity.

7 It's not wrong to express yourself, the key is to have moderation, it is stupid to deliberately express yourself, remember not to be humorous easily, don't look for other people's weaknesses to show off your strengths, and try not to perform "peacock opening".

8 Give people "face", you will also have "face", give people "face" is to give people a generous gift, to give convenience to others is to give convenience to yourself, don't embarrass others, just point to the end.

9 It is better to block the way of people's wealth, it is better to find their own way of wealth, blocking people's way of wealth is like cutting off people's "way of life", don't go all the way to the dark, you win, let him win.

10 Don't beat the water dogs, the sticks will become a debt in your relationships, and don't continue to blame the people who have confessed their mistakes.

Don't go too far, I think the other party is doing too much, that is, bullying you, taking advantage of your illness and then taking advantage of the opportunity, or just, uh, taking advantage of your absence, and then taking advantage of the void.