How can I slowly get rid of the difficulty of communicating with others?

I haven't had such an experience, if this happens, I must coordinate and communicate with the relevant personnel, Li Rui must have some inappropriate way to deal with it to cause such a result. Therefore, communication is the best solution, and it can also let yourself know that the mistake is in the first place, correct it in time, and continue to grow. Whether at work, or at school, or in the face of relatives and friends, we all need to communicate, when there is a conflict or solve a problem, we need to solve it through timely and effective communication, language is an art, communication needs to pay attention to methods.

1. Situation: At the right time and place, it is easy to say the right word appropriate, but it is extremely difficult to grasp in the actual application process, and this appropriateness is also the embodiment of the ability to observe the surrounding atmosphere. Most successful opening lines are not a blunt self-introduction, but start with the details, starting with paying attention to the other person.

Remember, before you communicate, you should first find out the habits and preferences of the other person. Therefore, when we first meet someone and want to establish communication, it is best to start with the other person. From another point of view, the premise of establishing communication is that we must be interested in the other person, capture certain qualities in the other person, and start with a topic that arouses the other person's interest in the conversation.

2. Purpose: To know what you are communicating forEach of our communications has a different purpose. Different speaking purposes need to adopt different attitudes and psychology to deal with, laugh when we should laugh, and be serious when we should be serious, therefore, we must remember to be relaxed when we speak, and do not depart from the scene and our original intention.

However, in the process of communication, we are constantly disturbed by our emotions from the outside world, and if we blindly follow our own feelings, it is easy to forget the purpose of communication in the first place. In order to improve your communication skills, the best way is to communicate around the original intention of communication, and not to be prepared to restore the conversation to the best state at all times. 3. My perception of others:

Adopt different ways of speaking for different peopleSince communication is between two people, the way we communicate and the degree of proficiency must be affected by the degree of cognition of a person. The more we communicate with people we know well, the more comfortable we feel, and the more we communicate with strangers, we inevitably feel a little worried. So, we need to have different ways of communicating with different people.

In the event of such a situation in a public place, it is better to communicate and react directly to the relevant public administrators, so that they can coordinate and deal with it in a better way, so that everyone can better observe the civility in the public place.

It is very important to learn to communicate with others and coordinate to deal with problems, and we must continue to strive to improve our communication skills, and the following points should be done:

1.Get to know each other well.

When you communicate with others, it is best to learn to understand others, if the other party's personality is more sunny and cheerful, then we don't have to be too serious, and if the other party is a more serious character, then when we communicate with others, we must fully understand and respect them, to communicate carefully and carefully, if the other party is a friend who doesn't know much, it is best to maintain respect and appropriate communication on daily topics.

2.Communicate with respect and understanding.

When we encounter problems that we don't understand, we should ask others for advice, respect others when communicating, don't talk endlessly, but learn to remain silent, let the other party express their opinions more, and when we encounter things we don't understand, don't rush to express them, we should learn to listen carefully, and give people a humble and serious attitude.

3.Talk to each other about common interests.

When communicating with others, everyone likes to communicate their own topics of interest and like to express their knowledge to others, so we must first learn to understand and listen to others' opinions, so that the other party can feel your sincerity and feel that communicating with you is a very pleasant process, because everyone hopes that they can be understood and respected by others, and more exchanges of each other's expertise and knowledge are precisely to understand each other and have a common language with each other.

4.Be humble and patient in listening.

When communicating with others, it is necessary to learn to listen carefully and carefully, do not interrupt others, and listen more patiently, so as to understand and respect others, and only in this way can we reflect our sincerity and modesty and courtesy, so as to gain true friendship.

5.Do praise others a lot.

Praise is a kind of respect, but also a kind of recognition of the other party's performance, when communicating with others, if we can properly express praise for the opinions expressed by others, this is undoubtedly to give the other party a feeling of respect and recognition, the other party will also very much agree with our understanding and respect, at the same time the other party will also have a new understanding of us, effectively promote the happiness and smoothness of communication.

1. Have good communication with your neighbors: When you want to sleep at night, you should communicate well with your neighbors when you encounter noise from your neighbor's house that affects your sleep.

2. Tell the neighbors the truth about the objective situation, or if you can, you can also ask the neighbors to feel the specific impact of the noise, so that the neighbors can learn to empathize, which can effectively improve the status quo of too noisy.

3. Remind neighbors to turn down the volume after 11 o'clock at night: At the appropriate time, remind neighbors to turn down the volume after 11 o'clock at night. Although you can't stop your neighbor's business hobby, you also have a premise that you don't interfere with your neighbor's rest at night.

Generally, reasonable neighbors will turn down the volume in time so as not to affect the neighborly relationship.

Extended Information: Considerations for Communicating with Neighbors:

After communication, if there is no effect, and the neighbor still goes his own way, without taking into account the feelings of others, then you can consider using the law to protect your legitimate rights and interests.

Article 58 of the Law of the People's Republic of China on the Prevention and Control of Environmental Noise Pollution stipulates that anyone who violates the provisions of this Law by committing any of the following acts shall be given a warning by the public security organ and may be fined concurrently: (Sanbu Stool) Failure to take measures in accordance with the provisions of Articles 46 and 47 of this Law to emit environmental noise from the home room that seriously interferes with the lives of surrounding residents.

So you can call the police to deal with it.

You have to learn the way to communicate with people: 1. Become cheerful, learn to speak boldly and actively to others, don't lose face, can mess around, others won't care, I'm afraid that you will be silent, very strange, it's better to say it than not to say it, and you don't have to be afraid of saying it a few times. Here are a few things you can learn:

1 When you are nervous about talking, try to relax yourself. Quietly take a deep breath, calm your breath, and put a little more effort into your exhale, so that your mind is steady. Laughter is a great way to relieve tension throughout the body.

Smiling regulates breathing, and it also makes the mind respond flexibly and speak in a focused manner. 2. Practice some good topics. In normal times, you should pay attention to other people's topics, understand attractive and unattractive topics, and consciously practice talking about things that can arouse the interest of others when you open your mouth, and at the same time avoid topics that cause undesirable effects.

3 Train to avoid bad topics. You should avoid things that you don't fully understand, and if you don't know anything about it, you won't bring any benefit to others, but will leave a bad impression of vanity. It's even more embarrassing if someone asks you questions about these things and you don't show them.

Avoid topics that don't interest you.

Tong, Zhi: Hello! I am an active duty military member and I am 23 years old.

There is one thing that torments me and keeps me at peace. Compared to my peers, I felt that I couldn't speak, I was always unable to speak, and I had difficulty communicating with others. How distressing it must be for people not to understand each other!

I long to live freely and securely like others, I don't know if my brain has a problem with the function of language domination, I hope that comrades can guide me to understand this problem correctly and help me relieve this trouble! Comrade He Xichang Xiaohe: Hello!

From the letter, I learned that you are an active military member with a certain level of education. In real life, I have some unpleasant experiences because I feel that I am different from others. The main thing is that I am not satisfied with language expression and communication with others, so I am very troubled.

I think this distress is easy to understand. Because a person lives in a group, he always wants to fit himself into it properly and enjoy the joy of harmonious relationships, which is a basic requirement of society, especially for young people. I think one of the distresses you are talking about stems from the lack of this.

If we pay close attention to the people around us, we will find that people have different appearances, and each person's abilities and personalities are also very different. There are two aspects of innate temperament and acquired shaping at work. When a person grows up to adolescence and develops a certain level of self-awareness, he will begin to perceive himself and look at his strengths and weaknesses with a critical eye.

He is particularly sensitive to his own "weak links".