How should parents educate their children correctly?

Set a good example for your child.

Role models are an important way to educate children, and they can feel what their parents are doing based on their behavior, as well as telling them stories. Telling children about some historical figures and letting them know the spirit of some historical figures can give children role models, and some of their behaviors are norms for children to imitate. Whether parents say or act right or wrong, they have a profound impact on their children.

Therefore, parents should check their words and actions frequently in their daily lives.

Give your child a good learning environment.

Parents should take the initiative to give their children a good learning environment, so that children can get better learning and make children feel the learning environment. The family is the first place where children learn, and children are educated by their parents from an early age. Parents should give their children a good life, and the relationship between parents is extremely important.

The child's eyes can see whether the relationship between the parents is harmonious between husband and wife. Let children adhere to the correct moral behavior, create a harmonious and happy family environment for a family, and let children grow up in this environment, which can better ensure the physical and mental health of children and better development. Keep your life in order, arrange everything in the house, and cultivate the character aspects of your child.

Distinguish between rewards and punishments.

Criticism and punishment are statements about a child's behavior, and the latter is more serious. This practice is also an important education for children. When criticizing and punishing, we must first fully understand the situation and grasp the specific circumstances and severity of bad thoughts and behaviors.

A series of corporal punishment can be carried out on the child, but it must not have a certain impact on the child's psychology. Rewards, parents should also be reasonable. Don't spoil your child too much and form a bad image of your child.

Good living habits are especially important for a child. From the perspective of children's daily life, give children a good living environment. Slowly let the child understand the concept of time, it is gone.

Let the children arrange their own time, and we parents can guide the children's arrangements on the side.

Persuasion education. In a way that is easy for children to accept, educate children to respect their elders at home, "nest in the nest" is wrong, I believe that children can listen to it.

Don't spoil and indulge them excessively, if they make mistakes, they must be corrected or punished in time, so that they can develop good habits from an early age.

Parents should not pamper their children too much, otherwise it will lead to the children being unscrupulous at home and being scared when they are outside. Take them outside often.

Parents should teach their children the ability to interact with others, do not spoil their children, and set an example for their children.

How should parents educate children who are "in the nest and cowardly outside"? This cannot be concluded as an "education problem" all at once, but it must be related to education. First of all, you have to distinguish why he will be cowardly outside, why he will be horizontal at home, we usually say that the child is a mirror, it can reflect the situation of the parents.

His behavior may be a reaction to some of the parents' behavior. Parents may also be cowardly outside and at home, and it must be the soil that the family has given their children "cowardly outside and at home". Another point I think is psychological.

The child's behavior should be his psychological reaction, it may be that his attention at home needs to be improved, and he uses some of his own behaviors to get communication and attention with parents. There may be a point where habit dictates. Perhaps when he was "horizontal" for the first time, his parents gave him a certain amount of satisfaction.

Later, it became a habit.

Educating children is a science, and if the child is still young, parents must correct it in time. If it is like this for a long time, it will be difficult to change it in adulthood. That's what really became an education problem.

Such a problem in children must be related to family education, but I don't like to label it as a failure of family education, after all, there is no perfect family of origin, and most parents in China are constantly learning. When a child vents his emotions, he must be in a place where he feels very safe, and the child will also have emotions outside, but if he feels insecure, he will control his emotions, after all, although the people in the family may criticize or even scold, they are still the best and closest to themselves, and they will tolerate themselves.

When the child is dissatisfied, or the inner needs are not seen, there must be emotions in the heart, and how to deal with such emotions is the need for parents to guide or demonstrate to their children. The child's sense of security may be lacking, a child with enough security at home is the same as outside, but if the child shows timidity, fear and withdrawal outside, the outside should consider whether the child's sense of security is insufficient, of course, the situation of danger is excluded. These are common reasons, which are also problems that can be fundamentally solved, problems are not terrible, on the contrary, they will attract our attention, thereby exposing our shortcomings in education, and we can find the root cause and do it.

Parents should turn their children into a more cheerful person, and they should think about their children's thoughts when doing anything. The opinions of the children should also be respected, and the children should not be suppressed all the time.

Parents should tell their children that this behavior is bad and punish them so that they understand that it is wrong and make a strong impression on them.

To encourage children, to take children to participate in parent-child activities, club activities, we must learn to encourage children, to let children become more excellent, more courageous.

For children who are cowardly in the nest and outside, parents should explain it to their children. The truth is that the nest is horizontal, it's not that your family is afraid of you, it's that you are really weak outside. When the child understands this 1 point, the situation will change.

In life, there are many parents who have nothing to do, treat their family and children as a garbage can for their own bad emotions, interfere in their children's lives, and desperately scream with their spouses and children, making the family chickens and dogs jump, and there are still many parents who are not at peace. This type of parent is a typical "nest in the nest".

The reason why parents like to create trouble at home and hurt their family members without scruples is because they lack good humanistic qualities, lack a healthy lifestyle, lack a sense of accomplishment and self-worth outside the home, are trapped in the fighting room all day long, have nothing to do, don't know how to pass the long days, and have nowhere to vent their enthusiasm and energy.

Because of the inability and irreplaceability of parents, it is a great misfortune in the child's life to encounter the parents of the "nest", because the parents of the "nest" are most likely to turn the home into chaos, bringing deep harm to the family, especially terrifying: many of them are not aware of the existence of this kind of harm, and they also enjoy this feeling of saying everything at home and being a blessing. As everyone knows, this feeling of joy is based on trampling on the dignity of the family and distorting the child's character, and what it brings to the child is a life full of blood and tears and unbearable burden.

It is difficult for young children to live independently without their parents, and most of them passively and helplessly bear this kind of damage. In this regard, we should not only hope that the conscience of parents will be discovered and restricted, but there should be a strong legal protection and restraint mechanism.

The wisest choice for adult children is to live separately from their parents, keep a distance, and retain their living space, because the truth of "far fragrance and near smell" is often separated from each other, and the courtesy is still going, which can show the value of family affection.

Children's "nest horizontal" behavior is caused by parental doting, the way to improve the situation: we have to learn how to have standards to meet the child, for example, many children put forward requirements, and then if they can not get the parents' reach, they will cry and make trouble to the parents to threaten, many parents can't see the child crying, they choose to meet its provisions, in fact, this is also a very incorrect way of education, at this time, the first thing we want to ensure is that it is not necessary to meet him immediately, to be able to find a place, Let him cry for a while, and if he realizes that it is useless for him to cry, then you can reason with him, and he will be very easy to hear at this time.

The reason for the child's "nest and outside" is also a large part of the reason for the stick education, because the stick education will stimulate its rebellious psychology, the more stick education, the more reluctant this group of children will be to listen to you, after forming a good habit, he feels that resisting with you is a better solution. When children are gradually entering kindergarten and university, parents should not think that they can do their own thing, remember to grasp the reality of the situation with their children outside, and communicate with teachers more to deal with whether children are being bullied in a timely manner.

Sometimes, children are afraid to talk to their parents, and even afraid of their parents knowing, so after parents find out that their children are being bullied, they must reflect their own application to their children and help them protect their rights and interests. Instead of reprimanding the child the other way around. Therefore, parents can talk to their children more about the problems of making friends at school, whether they have encountered any inconveniences, and help their children with some strategies.

At the same time, we also need to educate our children, although we can't bully others, but we also don't bully others, and it's better not to be arrogant or impatient.

Most of the problems in the child may be found in the parent's body, so when the child is in the nest, the parent should not just mud can't support the wall or scold the child, the child is actually very innocent in the heart, because they don't have too much definition of this kind of reality.

If you want to change this situation, parents need to pay great attention to the problem of children's education, and they can't let children do what they want to do.

Yes, the child's nest is caused by being spoiled by the parents; Usually you must educate the child well, tell him what is right and what is wrong, start educating from his words and deeds, and don't spoil the child in the future.

It is indeed caused by the parents, because the child only dares to behave strongly in front of the parents, then the child should be appropriately harsh.

Children lying in the nest often only dare to be arrogant at home, and are like cowards outside. For such children, parents should guide them in the right way, instead of punching and kicking, and learn to use real cases to tell the truth in a way that the child is willing to accept.

You must learn to lose your temper with him, and you can't blindly restrain yourself. If it's the child's fault, then educate it in time, and you can't just mention it casually.

Teach children social skills and help them overcome their social fears; Learn to let go of the child and let the child learn to solve the problem on his own; Don't spoil your children too much, educate modern children in the old-fashioned way.

Set rules at home, criticize and correct your child's vexatious aggression in the face of it, don't always spoil your child, and let him know what is right and what is wrong.

If you want to change such a bad problem, you must educate them to a certain extent, not to be too arrogant to your relatives, and to correct your personal attitude, so as to make them realize the seriousness of this problem through conversation.

You should tell him that his parents' patience is limited, and that he should respect his parents at home, and when he has good social habits, he can get along with others when he goes outside.

More family education and gratitude education should be carried out for children, so that children are fully aware of what their parents are. The person who raised him, his parents are his greatest benefactors and his most important people, so he should treat his parents as the people he loves the most, and the behavior of making his parents angry and hurting his parents should be severely criticized and educated.

Finally, in daily life, parents must learn to let go of what children can do, so that their children can gradually become independent and get rid of their dependence on their parents, as long as they get rid of their dependence on their parents in daily life, then they will no longer have a situation in the nest, and at the same time they will be very cheerful in their daily life, and they will be positive for everything, which is very meaningful for their lives. Therefore, for parents, if their children are in the nest, then they must guide their children correctly in time.