What are the typical manifestations of a foolish husband?

1. Ignorance only knows filial piety to the family

A foolish man will leave the best attitude to his parents and siblings who care about the most, and the bad attitude to his wife. When there is a conflict, never expect fairness and justice, the wife is basically wrong, and she can be extremely tolerant of the family. My wife has never done well enough, even if she does a good job, it is what you should do, you will never have to work hard for his beloved relatives, because you are his wife!

2. The wife is the second in front of the family

When dealing with disputes between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, he only cares about protecting his own mother and never takes into account his wife's feelings. Even if her own mother is unreasonable and makes trouble for her wife, she still ignores her feelings and sprinkles salt on her wife's wounds.

In fact, the psychology of the old man's rejection of his daughter-in-law is understandable, after all, his precious son is eventually alienated from himself and has his own family, which is inevitably a little psychologically unbalanced and lonely, but the husband's attitude will directly affect his wife.

3. Parents' words are always right

In the eyes of foolish men, they think that their parents are never wrong. Especially in the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the foolish and filial man does not distinguish between black and white right and wrong, and blindly accuses his wife of not. I always feel that there is only one parent, and I can change my wife if she is gone.

No matter how wrong the parents are, they are right, they obey their parents in everything, and they have no concept of right and wrong at all.

And his parents always think that it is enough to have a filial and obedient son, and after a long time, they don't take their daughter-in-law seriously at all. Regardless of what the parents say is right or wrong, they will absolutely obey and execute, and there is no concept of right and wrong at all.

The typical performance of a foolish husband is as follows:

1. Always stand on your mother's side, when you have a conflict with your mother-in-law, he will never ask what happened between you first, but blindly blame you for not knowing how to understand your mother.

2. Even if he finally understands the ins and outs of the matter, and knows that the whole thing is not your fault, he will ask you to know how to make concessions and learn to respect your mother or something.

3. Asking to have a boy Now in fact, many elders still have a relatively ignorant idea, that is, their daughter-in-law must give birth to a boy, so that their family can pass it on.

4. If your mother-in-law always has such an idea, she will always instill it in your husband, and your husband will always tell you that you need to have a child to inherit their family's incense, no matter how many children you have, as long as there are no boys, you must continue to have children.

A dutiful husband usually has unconditional obedience to his parents. No matter what his parents said was right or wrong, he didn't say anything, and he would listen to his parents and dare not resist. He also thinks that the fault of his parents is right, and as a child, he should not resist.

The formation of foolish and filial men is, on the one hand, family reasons, and on the other hand, the problems of men themselves. Family reasons, mainly because parents are overly doting, resulting in children lacking the masculinity that men should have. There are many problems with men themselves, such as selfishness, low self-esteem, lack of responsibility, etc., which are the reasons why men cannot become a real man and cannot take on the responsibilities of a family.

These issues can be changed. As long as a man is willing to change, is willing to fight for his future, and is willing to fight for his family, he can become a responsible man.

FoolishnessIt means that when his parents are still able to do things, they don't let him do anything, and he makes offerings like a bodhisattva, and he obeys everything he says regardless of the facts and appropriately, if you are sick, you will ignore the family's economic situation and the living security of your wife and children, and spend a lot of money to buy your life and only let the old man be unjust, such filial piety is foolishness. If you are truly filial to your parents. It is necessary to be respectful to your parents, try your best to support them materially, make their spiritual life very comfortable, and try to spend time with the elderly.

In today's life, some children dare not speak or put forward their own opinions if they disagree with their parentsNo matter what their parents say, some children will coax the old people to be happy, always promising a lot of things, but never fulfilling them. This is not necessarily filial piety, and those who want to fight with their parents and control their own destiny are not necessarily unfilial. Both parents have reached a certain age, and they are slowly suffering from illness, but they are still working hard for their children.

Therefore, in order for our parents to be happy, we must often go home to accompany our parents, which is not just what we say, but what we have to do.

When we go home and cook some meals for our parents, help them do what they can, make them feel happy, and we should laugh at them so that they can rest assured of our own livesSome people can't see these at all, and they are used to it, and their parents have adapted to the habit of doing it with their hands, lying on the sofa and playing games after eating, and adapted to the state of being a child. Although he keeps saying that he will make his parents happy, and he does not rely on some ideas of his parents, he does not bear what he can do for his parents, which is the biggest foolishness in the eyes of many people.

In fact, filial piety is something that everyone wants to do, but if you don't distinguish between right and wrong, you will become a real fool.

1. Nine out of ten sentences do not leave the parents.

Whether in life or in other aspects, a man is inseparable from his parents, and the standard of parents is the standard of a man.

2. Compare Mabao.

Ma Bao Nan is actually a kind of foolish filial piety, everything is the biggest mother, such a man must not be married.

3. Don't take into account your wife's feelings.

No matter what the situation is, the wife is always wrong with the man, the one who is wronged, and can always help his parents find an excuse to shirk responsibility.