What is it like for a parent to be a psychology professor?

They will be keenly aware of the troubles you encountered in the process of growing up, and will help you guide you sensibly and scientifically, rather than blindly scolding and stopping you. In short, long live understanding. It will make your growth process healthy and happy.

When you are in a society and you encounter all kinds of problems, when others do not understand you, your parents become your counselors. When your friends know that you are out of love, most of them don't understand your real pain, and they all advise you to look away and be optimistic. But your parents can go deep into your heart and help guide you to analyze the problem layer by layer, find the root cause, and solve your problem.

There is no need to see a psychiatrist for all kinds of psychological problems, just chat with your parents, and just chat.

Although there are no such parents, it should be a very happy experience when you think about it. There is no doubt about the love of parents for their children. It may be that there is not enough understanding and wrong communication, which leads to the outbreak of conflicts between parents and children.

If there were parents who studied psychology, then it would be fine. Parents who study psychology know your psychological development at every stage of your childhood, know what to give you when, and know what causes you to be unhappy. I can talk to you and talk to you as an equal, instead of always thinking that you are a child.

Only one parent is a psychology professor, and he has been able to communicate with his parents since he was a child, and he has passed his adolescence smoothly, and there seems to be endless words at home, whether it is an essay written in elementary school, or a discussion about his views on society in junior high and high school, and then a university to talk about his major (which has nothing to do with his parents' major) ......I used to "question" if I was a child and used me as a psychological experiment, so I wouldn't rebel against them. At that time, the parent said, "As long as you are a patient parent, you can do this." ”

The experience was that no matter how seamlessly I lied, I would be exposed, and I stopped lying after my parents exposed my lies again and again. I also have a deep understanding of their true heritage, and I can tell through a person's eyes whether a person is lying or not.

My father is a second-level counselor. Experience: Don't say anything, because he understands you; You can say anything, because he understands you.

Under the subtle influence of my father, I am also very interested in psychology, because my father taught me some common sense in psychology since I was a child, so I can read words and emotions from childhood to adulthood, and I can see through the motives hidden under a person's expression.

In fact, I personally don't think this is a good thing, if this parent is conceited enough. People have an inexplicable state of self-confidence, especially when he is good enough in a field, each of us is quite conceited to a certain extent, when the psychiatrist often sees others, will he always think about his children and say warnings? There is an ironic story that the funny master Molière I don't know if you have heard of it, he was unhappy to see a psychiatrist, but the doctor suggested that he go to see Molière's performance, saying that everyone who watched his performance would laugh and be cured without medicine, but they didn't know that the patient in front of him was Molière himself, which is a sadness in itself!

There is a theory, I don't know if it can help (you can say this to the child, encourage her to be self-reliant);

1. In life, there are some things that you can control and change, such as your own emotions and your own views on yourself;

2. Most things are beyond one's control and change; For example, the personality, speech, behavior, and emotions of the parents;

3. There are still some things that cannot be changed by oneself but the jujube withering chain can be affected, that is, it can even affect those that can be changed;

The method is: do your own thing, control your emotions (cultivate your own inner strength, what kind of person I am, I know very well, not to be swayed by other people's words and deeds), of course, including objectively maintaining your own dignity (saying your own feelings, thoughts, and saying your own: "I.

As for what your parents think and say, that's something you can't control, just accept it. ）。When you do what you can control, then your circle of influence will expand, and your aura will be very strong, and you will slowly influence your parents, and even change your parents.

First have the courage to be yourself, not run away. Actively promote the positive development of family relationships little by little. Think about it, one day when you grow up and you will meet similar people in society, isn't this a good opportunity to practice and gain experience?

As for parents, you can find one or two extreme cases to cut into, to warn them, and then take the opportunity to understand and reason, and move them with emotion.

The main line can start with children's interpersonal relationships and introversion: explain the importance of interpersonal relationships and personality in today's society more than academic performance, and even the importance of children's and parents' lifelong happiness. Of course, it would be better to give some relevant examples.

Aren't they all successful people in society? It should be more experienced. Also, let them understand that verbal abuse is not a promoter of motivation but a destructive agent.

This book mainly introduces how parents can educate their children correctly and effectively from the perspective of psychology in the process of family education. Specifically, it is manifested in children's emotional intelligence education, habit cultivation, communication education, character building, IQ development, learning education, growth education, communication education, financial intelligence education, network education, stress reduction education, etc., to promote children's all-round development in a more scientific and rational way.