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First of all, I feel that people who choose to die also have courage and should not be taken lightly, and if they finally choose to stay within, it means that the world is still for.

Leave it up to you. The red dust is rolling, who dares to say that life is not thorough. When people choose to fall into underestimation, it is natural that everything will not go well.

It's true that some people hate this world, but when you're at the top and can control other people's destinies, do you think so?

Troubles and pains are all necessary, and God has left happiness at the end.

There is the idiom that bitterness comes to the end.

The landlord is still young, if it is, it would be more normal.

It's not a mental illness, but if you're at a turning point in your life, such as the high school entrance examination, the college entrance examination, or something like that, even if it's at work, you can also see a psychiatrist.

But the doctor is just counseling, not a panacea, the only one who can save yourself is yourself, as long as you don't die one day, there is still hope for happiness one day.

You are now equivalent to.

Come into the state of self-exhaustion, just adjust it a little, because everyone has this experience, find a few happy things to do, tell yourself that it's not a big deal, let go of this burden, you can face other pulls, the most important thing is to believe in yourself. OK no problem.

In fact, sometimes people think this way.

That's because something unpleasant, or unhappy, that leads us to have the right to think this way.

In fact, people live all their lives, how can it be smooth sailing, God gives everyone the same disasters, so don't always think that you are more miserable than others, in fact, people are the same, but you don't see the pain and suffering of others.

Therefore, I advise you to cherish life, cherish him, and don't walk away.

Even if God has given you the right to live, please don't give up on survival.

Like Sichuan's **, more than 30,000 people have lost their lives, and they also want to live well, but ** took their lives, you are not from Sichuan, you don't live in the disaster area, you don't feel the pain and pain over there, the pain of losing your loved ones, so I advise you to live well, for yourself, and for the love of you and the people you love.

You can see that you are a have.

A responsible person! You can understand your current mood of struggling and painful, but it is difficult to choose. Just like the friend above said, "How can it be smooth sailing for a person to live a lifetime", I also agree.

But please believe that there is no obstacle in life that cannot be overcome, and the pain is only temporary, really!

It's not a special psychological problem, don't think too badly! Besides, everyone in society has some psychological problems to a greater or lesser extent these days, and in layman's terms, some of their own ideas and opinions are different from the mainstream.

But you can talk to a professional counselor! Someone once told me that a counselor is like a mirror that can help people standing in front of them see their own situation, clear their thoughts, and calm their emotions.

You can try it, but you must find a regular one in the industry with a good reputation! Personally, I feel that the effect is much worse!

I wish you a happy day soon!

In fact, sometimes you just think things too complicated by yourself! There is nothing that cannot be solved, maybe something is said, others will understand you, will face it with you, and you will get the liberation of your soul! So don't let yourself get too tired!

Husband and wife are more tolerant, as long as you explain to your wife frankly, I believe your wife will be considerate of you. When the wife is angry, stay by her side to comfort her, and it is best not to lose her temper. If you don't go to work when you get old, your family's economy will also have problems, and you'll be even more sorry for your wife!

Find something that will ease the guilt in your heart, and do it!

Find a time to play with her, and be careful to tell her when you're happy!

Man is a collection of contradictions.

If you want to vent, just let it off steam, just think it's a private space that is not known to relatives and friends! Our short words can't help you at all The reality is like this and you are not the only one who encounters such a problem And once the character is developed, it is difficult to change it I really think that my life is frozen Then don't let your child repeat it again I believe you will have the ability to support a family!

We are very similar, we all hope that we can do the best in everything we do, but it is all the opposite, you should learn to be satisfied, no matter what work you do, since you have done it, you must do it well, don't look at the bowl and think about the pot, who doesn't want to be favored by the god of luck, the more people have low self-esteem, the more difficult it is to do things, don't think too much, just have a good time!!

Actually, I didn't really want to answer, because everyone answered very well, and I guess they won't be able to accept me if they answer. But I'm still going to talk about what I'm talking about, because it always feels like you're a bit like my personality. In fact, you are too worried, you are negative, worried, or emotional about life.

The sense of accomplishment you feel when you crave to be adopted is because you have a bit of low self-esteem. What is the happiness that man seeks? It shouldn't be glory and wealth, I think it should be a good attitude, a healthy body, and a happy life.

Do you feel like you're miserable? No way, there are countless people in this world who have a worse fate than you, and you are lucky compared to them. But don't be satisfied with that, you have to change yourself and make yourself better.

It's hard to find a job now, and many college students are stumbling, so don't keep changing jobs and work hard. You also need friends, and you need to communicate with people calmly. When you are pessimistic, think about those who are worse than you, cheer up, and live a down-to-earth life with an optimistic attitude, there is still a long way to go.

1) Face is not given by others. It's self-giving.

From your words, you can see that you have a certain understanding of yourself. In other words, although you are very immature and have a bad personality now, you still have positive desires and pursuits in your heart. And you are a person who is particularly worried about what other people think.

2) No matter what your family background is, it is imperative to find a job first, and if the job is not too bad, or before a better job is available, do not change jobs easily. No matter what others say about your work, after all, others don't stay in your company, so do they know a piece of?

3) The job is stable, that is, you have at least a regular income every month. Then, when you reach a certain age, around 30 years old, you should marry a daughter-in-law. In this way, you are also a person with a family and a career.

Maybe after reaching the above goals of having a fixed income and having a family, there may be many relatives in the family who earn more than you, or the wife is more beautiful than your wife, but there is nothing to compare with these things, because no matter how far you reach, there are always people who are stronger than you.

It is recommended that you first set yourself a goal that is not too difficult, relatively normal and ordinary, and then achieve it step by step. As for what others say, there's no need to care. For example, I have a stable job and am married.

My parents always think I'm not high enough, and they say that some people who don't go to college earn more than me. I won't listen to those words, and of course there is no need to argue with my parents and elders. Then the one who asks for food may win the jackpot one day, why do I have to earn more than others?

Isn't it enough that I can afford to eat and wear whatever I want, and I don't owe anyone money, I have a job, and I have a family?

Be strong-willed and go your own way.

It can be seen that you are a more aspiring person, but you care very much about other people's opinions, in fact, at this time.

Insisting on yourself is the most important thing, bury yourself in work, one day you will come out, it's really not good to keep jumping around, Now that you also realize this, it's still too late to start your mother's efforts from now on. The work is not more, but fine. If it's all chores, what's the difference between where you do it?

On the contrary, if you get out in a small company, you will have more room for development in a large company.

Heaven and earth are blazing, I walk alone, people who don't understand me, why should I behave for them and change myself.

You're not sick, it's just that you're overly careful and care about what others say.

The landlord is in a bad mood, live to be bright, just be comfortable and happy, there are a lot of artificial faces, but who can relieve the bitterness in your heart for you, yourself.

You look at "Fight Club", you look at how the people in it changed the status quo.

Like you said yourself, you are making money with your own hands, although it is a small company, although it is not insured, what is there to be ashamed of.

It's not to steal and rob, it's to rely on our own hard work, what's more, after working hard, who said that we can't achieve great things.

It's pathetic, write so much, a little sympathetic....You're so thin-skinned that my ex-girlfriend and I kissed less than an hour after we first met. Men, be courageous! Not only in terms of girls, we are all good young people, why should we be afraid of looking at girls?

Absolutely top you!

You can talk to ugly girls first, such as borrowing pens, borrowing erasers, long practice, and then you can say more, and finally you can almost talk to Piao Liang mm, you must be calm, even if it is word by word, as long as you don't say the wrong thing, you can also choose a person who is not so nervous to talk to her as a good friend, slowly expand the scope of your friends, and the most important thing is not to be confident because you are not perfect enough--- I used to be like this.

OMG. I just read a little sentence. I feel like I'm the same myself. Don't dare to talk to girls.

What does it matter? Such a boy will be very pure, very likable @@@一定要做到不恋红, eliminate distractions in his heart, treat her as him, won't he be popular!

You're similar to me, but I've never felt sorry for myself, I'm the kind of person who lives in a man's circle, insulated from women, but not the same...Sexuality....Love, women only have meat for me....Desire, so there's no need to get along, I haven't been in love at my age, and most of them have hearts....Disease, some big men....Childism, and a bit of discrimination against women, because you don't need to contact them at all, so you will naturally resist the unknown, if you want to change yourself, first make a girl who looks average but can speak, because the more beautiful, the stronger your nervousness will be, in fact, you want to impress her, so you are too demanding of yourself, and you will be nervous. You will get better slowly, don't think you are sick, otherwise it will be more serious.

Boys, girls are such a thing, don't be so awkward, now that you are a college student, you can interact with girls normally, let go of your mood, be brave to face, to overcome, don't be afraid.

You have to think about it, if you don't even dare to talk to girls.

What else can you do later? You only know if you try it once.

As a man, be blunt and don't twist!

In a situation like yours, others can't help you, you have to rely on yourself!

On the 3rd floor, you can write very well, and you are not afraid of getting tired.

Don't worry too much about this! Because I'm the one who came over! I started out like you. But when I watched TV (The Legend of Lu Xiaofeng), I got closer to the girl! The protagonist and the girl are very harmonious! You can learn from him. I wish you success.

Get close to her, I'll get used to it after a long time

Hey, it's just that I didn't get acquainted with people, so it's good that I got acquainted with them.

In fact, consulting a psychiatrist is the best way to go.

Hey, you can't help it, you have to go to the hospital.