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It's up to this girl to observe, you know? Some questions require your own intuition. Still, I think he should like her.

Maybe he is more introverted, and then the girl should take the initiative. Sometimes he was a little cold to her, maybe because he was a little unhappy. If this is the case for her to talk to him properly, tell him some fun things, make him happy, and gradually he will get better and better for you.

Sometimes it is not necessarily, only when the girl is unhappy, the boy coaxes her to be happy, and when the boy is unhappy, the girl also has to comfort and comfort him. Remember, between two people, there must not be only one person to give.

Feelings are inherently uncertain, you don't know when he will love you, let alone when he will say that if he doesn't love, he won't love.

Because of this, women often think crankily, suffer from gains and losses, and often ask men "Do you love me?" just because she is insecure.

When she really likes you and gives you all her love, she also wants to win your love and hopes that you can treat her sincerely, but not all hopes can be realized.

In fact, whether a man loves you or not, it is not without traces to follow, as long as you observe carefully, you can also see one or two, there is still a difference between those who love you and those who don't.

In these three aspects, the more a man "minds", it means that he really loves you!

He will mind your association with other members of the opposite sex.

Everyone has their own ideas about whether they can have friends of the opposite sex after falling in love or getting married, some people will feel that as long as they are not the other party's ex or the like, ordinary friends don't matter, but some people feel that since you are with me, then you should not have friends of the opposite sex.

If that friend of the opposite sex likes you and wants to pursue you, such a person of the opposite sex will naturally refuse, otherwise your partner should not be at ease, don't say anything" He is just my good buddy, "The man who really loves you, he is as nervous about you as you are to him, and he will also be worried about losing you."

He will mind if you don't have him in your heart.

If a man truly loves you, he will also be jealous and "angry," and his jealousy and anger are nothing more than that you don't love him enough and don't care enough about him in your heart.

He will mind if he joins your circle.

Men and women are the same, if they really like each other, they will hope that the other party can introduce him to his relatives and friends, and let him integrate into his circle, which represents his true recognition and acceptance.

When a man loves you deeply, he will naturally mind whether he has joined your circle, whether he knows your friends, and even at that time, he wants to know your friends more than his own friends, his psychology is nothing more than because he is closer to you and can understand your life better.

The more you love your man, the more he will mind these little things, not so much that he minds, but because he cares.

Only a man who cares about you will mind your association with other friends of the opposite sex; Only a man who cares about you will mind that you don't have him in your heart; Only men who care about you will mind if they join your circle or not.

When he has you in his heart, he will become a child, and even have a lot of childish practices, and this is nothing more than because he loves you, don't think that those who don't mind anything are really good to you, and if they don't mind, they don't care, and not being jealous can only show that they don't love you enough in their hearts.

In this life, you may meet many people, but the person who loves you like this may be the only one, and you will be loved!

There are three possible reasons for this:

1. I'm tired of youIt is very difficult for a man to always maintain enthusiasm in a relationship, if a man is bored with you, he will suddenly become cold and unable to raise any interest in you, every word you say makes him feel very annoying, everything you do is not to his liking, anyway, he just can't get used to you, which shows that two people have a relationship crisis, and it is easy to break up if you don't handle it well.

2. There are others in your heartWhen a man suddenly becomes cold to you, it may be because he has another woman in his heart.

3. I'm not interested in youWhen he changes from enthusiasm to coldness towards you, it means that he is no longer interested in you, and his energy may be all focused on other things.

Ways to deal with boys who are cold to you:1. Everyone is very selfish when they are in love, and they all hope that they only have themselves in the eyes of the other party, if the other party suddenly becomes cold to you, we can find a friend of the opposite sex to make him jealous, and this method will also allow you to identify whether the man still loves you.

Hello A man who is suddenly cold to you can have the following reasons:1It may be because you have done something that makes him very dissatisfied, and you know the reason and then prescribe the right medicine.

2.It may be that I have been in contact with you for a long time and I don't have the curiosity I had at the beginning.

3.He may have been having trouble at work lately.

A man is different from a woman, he is not modest in expressing himself, and he is not good at complaining. He always reassures himself of anything and never lets you see that he is unhappy, especially at work. But a man is also a human being, and his ability to bear it also has a limit, and when he can't bear it, he will also collapse, he will be silent, and he will not choose to speak.

Although every time we feel that he doesn't love himself that much, in fact he is just tired.

Question: I'm in my fifties.

Personally, I think that a guy who has always been cold to you suddenly treats you well one day may be because of these:

1.He's responding to your emotions: maybe his previous coldness was all hiding his emotions, and he didn't have no feelings for you, or he wanted to test how much you liked him, or he couldn't hide his feelings for you anymore.

Just as a naïve boy always likes to show his liking for girls by bullying them, if he is warm to everyone and is indifferent to you alone, it is enough to show that he is restraining his feelings for you, it is an unnatural emotional cover-up.

2.He may have something to ask you for: maybe his previous coldness is really true, but he may have liked you recently, or he may have asked you, if it is the former, maybe he has someone else in his heart before, that is, he has treated you as a spare tire, he knows that you have always liked him, maybe he is emotionally frustrated elsewhere and wants to seek warmth from you.

It is recommended that if this is the case, keep your eyes open and distinguish clearly, and then draw a line with the other party.

Anyway, there must be a reason why a person who was very indifferent before suddenly became enthusiastic, and the specific situation needs to be analyzed by yourself.

It shows that his previous coldness is likely to be pretended, but in fact, his heart is very hot for you.

It means that the spare tire can finally be used. That's my understanding.

May change their minds or have other intentions.

We often have a saying that nothing is courteous, and it is either a traitor or a thief. And a boy who was very cold to you before, suddenly treated you very well, I personally think that this boy naturally has its own internal thoughts and motives, and he should not be carried away by the boy's hospitality, blindly thinking how attractive he is, how much charm he has moved the other party, but should take a good look at the boy to do this, and he has a plan for himself.

My personal summary is that first of all, a boy who was very cold to himself before suddenly treated himself very well, it is very likely that this boy is in the stage of falling out of love at this stage, and you have just expressed a good impression of this boy before, and actively pursued this boy, so this boy just wants to find you to relieve loneliness in this emotional blank period, and he doesn't really love you, and there is a possibility that Xianchai has a close relationship with you, and a certain girl is what this boy likes, in this case, This boy will take the initiative to approach, hoping to establish an intimate relationship with the girl he likes through you, of course, it cannot be ruled out that this boy is a type of personality that is cold and hot inside, and he didn't really understand you before, and he didn't find your advantages, but after getting along with you for a while, he was deeply attracted by you, but the probability of this situation is relatively low, and if the boy is really like this, you still need to sit down with the boy and talk, to combine the boy's words, Specifically, to see how credible what he said, of course, if you don't have a clever way to become a couple for this boy, then you can also express your attitude with this boy, but you must be as tactful as possible, and explain to the other party that the two people have actually become ordinary friends, which is also a very happy thing for yourself.

There must be a request for you, you see if anything special happens, and then he will be courteous to you, for example, your family is very rich, and for example, Wei Qinggai said that you are related to a certain leader.

I feel that the probability of suddenly liking you is still relatively small, maybe I want to ask you, or I want to fall in love?

Have feelings for you and don't like your friends.

If you are usually just ordinary friends, then it is very likely that he has developed a crush on you at this moment; But if it's extraordinary, it's that there's a little bit of a problem in your relationship, such as a little misunderstanding or opinion about you about something... There are many reasons for this, and you should find an opportunity to talk to him openly and honestly as soon as possible, and find out why, either way it is better than being cold and indifferent all the time.

Maybe you've been treating him as an ordinary friend, and he's sad.

Finding out the bad side of you, or someone saying bad things about you in front of him.

He may have given up and didn't want to chase you anymore, too tired.

Men who start to be enthusiastic about you and suddenly become cold to you are often these three reasons.

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1.Maybe it's because he's in a bad mood. Everyone encounters a lot of things every day, some things make us happy, and naturally some things make us sad, when a person is in a depressed mood, he has no heart to chat with others, and naturally his attitude will seem a little cold.

The guy who has a good relationship with you suddenly becomes cold to you.

Good afternoon, dear [poor celery]1Maybe it's because he's in a bad mood. Everyone celebrates the first day of Kaitian to encounter a lot of things, some things make us happy, and naturally there are some things that will make us sad, when a person is in a depressed mood, he has no heart to chat with others, and naturally the attitude will seem a little cold.

2.It could be that something happened between you, or someone was speaking ill of you behind your back, causing the relationship between the two of you to change. Or the other party has found the other half she likes, and if she is in love, she can't care about the quarrel and contact you, which may also make you feel that the other party is very cold to you.

If you don't want to continue to maintain this relationship, it is necessary to find the right writer to go or serve to talk.

In the end, when a boy suddenly becomes cold to you, it doesn't necessarily mean that something is wrong with you, or that you have done something wrong, it is likely that it is just because he has encountered some unhappy things in Duzhou, which makes him not in a good mood, so he can't talk to you.

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