Chasing girls. What principles should be adhered to.

If you leave, you can stop in moderation.

Don't stalk you, brother!

It's useless to be cool, wisdom is king.

Grasp with both hands Both hands should be hard.

Hello, principled girl, but it's hard to chase, you must be fully psychologically prepared before chasing him, the most effective way for this slow sensitive girl is to use his own charm to attract him, you have to give full play to your strengths and advantages, let him take the initiative to chase you, and in the process, don't spend money on her, buy her things casually, because he is very principled, so he may not easily accept other people's minds, this kind of girl often likes to rely on herself for everything, and doesn't like to ask for other people's thingsAt this point, you must remember where you are now in the development of the sedan line, you can talk to me and I will help you analyze and analyze, if there is a problem that disturbs the sail branches, you can also consult with me.

To be willing to spend money on girls, the three views must be compatible, you must report your whereabouts at any time, you must show your value, and you must be able to protect girls.

Remember not to lower your posture when chasing girls, let alone blindly cater to them, and stop losses in time, and accept them when you see a good one.

Keep in mind the five social principles, so that you can awaken your social awareness and avoid detours. The first rule is that you must not engage in online dating, brothers, online dating is now the most unreliable. If you haven't socialized with a girl offline, don't maintain the relationship.

In this society now, you can criticize, you can cut, and even the sound can be used with a voice changer. You may not be able to read the other person's thoughts in person, let alone on this unclear Internet. And socializing takes effort, whether it's time or energy, it's only meaningful to meet, and if you don't meet, you need to think about whether the existence of the relationship is really meaningful.

The second principle is to see the essence through the phenomenon, I just said that it is difficult to see through a person's mind when meeting, you must know that in the early stage of understanding, people will more or less disguise themselves and set up a good personality for themselves to attract each other. **The way to get to know a person when socializing is through the other person's clothing, conversation, eyes, or body movements. The easiest way is to observe through the people around the other party, when a person is talking, he will continue to say his thoughts, chat with the most familiar people, and the words he says at will are the most difficult to hide himself, if you want to know what kind of person a girl is, just look at the state of her and her best friend, both real and direct.

The third principle is to have a clear understanding of yourselfThis cognition refers to the ability to face one's own flaws. There are many brothers who know that they have a lot of shortcomings, but they will choose to avoid them when faced with their shortcomings. To know that it is impossible for people to be perfect, not only to know that the upper limit of their own merits is **.

You should also be clear about your own shortcomings, and when others point out your problems, you must face them bravely. That is not changed, but you must first listen to understand your lower limit, so that the other party can see the most sincere self.

The fourth principle, dare to black,Many boys feel that having multiple friends and multiple paths in society will tolerate too many things that make them feel very uncomfortable. Brothers, when you have repeatedly expressed your sincerity and paid your own energy, in exchange for a cold response hanging you, be decisive and black, and then continue, the result will be difficult to change.

The fifth principle is to love yourselfRemember this, whether you are meeting friends or falling in love, you should put your life first. Socializing is not about making friends and loving to make friends, but about making friends that allows you to create a good cycle. People who are good at socializing also have their own lives, but they spend your time watching dramas and games to make friends, which will make you feel that their friends are all over the world.

Don't put the cart before the horse, it's really not difficult to socialize, and making friends with people is to be sincere. If you find it difficult for a person to fit in, it means that your magnetic field is not compatible, and you can just change it. Remember these five principles, and sooner or later you will meet the right person.

What are the principles that need to be followed when pursuing girls? When pursuing a girl, we must seek the girl's interests, and we must experience a certain sense of trust, we must have less routines and more sincerity when pursuing, and we must show a mature and stable side in the process, eliminate her concerns, and be more patient with her.

1. Don't engage in some invalid chats.

When pursuing a girl, don't always talk to her about ineffective chats, which are a waste of time and annoying. Some people, when chatting, always say what they are doing, how old are you, what do you do, ** people, when they have nothing to talk about, they know to ask some irrelevant questions, and they have nothing to say. When you ask these questions, the girl will feel that you are particularly rude, you have not introduced yourself, and you do not have a certain level of familiarity, and you keep asking him these questions, what does it matter to you?

It's just annoying, like you're being questioned.

2. Learn more about girls and chat in-depth.

Of course, I also understand that everyone asks this because there is really no topic, so they have to find some topics to chat with girls to be able to get acquainted with each other. But you forget what you're going to talk to, and then you don't follow up after you ask, so you keep asking other questions. You don't understand why you're doing this, it's just that you don't have anything to say, a chat, a pastime.

Your chat must have a purpose, if you just go to chat for the sake of chatting, it is easy to be embarrassed to chat, and there will be no continuity in the topic. The purpose of asking him a question is to find a topic, and when the topic is found, you have to find a way to continue the topic instead of repeating it.

3. There must be a certain bottom line.

It is normal to be rejected when pursuing a girl, but it should be noted that when a girl rejects you, you must have a bottom line, if the other party rejects you once, you can strive for a positive performance, but the girl rejects you three times in a row, no matter how good you perform, you must have a clear mind at this time. There is a saying that things are not more than three, give up directly at this time, and stop losses in time. In fact, many boys have suffered a lot from this.

Don't be a licking dog. Behave in a gentle. Dress not too sloppily. Don't be self-righteous. Don't be frivolous in your speech. Don't play any tricks. Be sincere.

Respect each other, ask each other's opinions on every date, don't move your hands and feet, and ask patiently if you notice that the other party is unhappy.