How to get along with a girl who is a little cold

It's impossible for a person to have no hobbies, you just don't know it.

A bit of a cold personality? Why do boys always have these inexplicable conclusions.

I think she just hides her emotions with indifference, which is a way of self-preservation.

If she doesn't take the initiative, you take the initiative. There's nothing wrong with a boy taking the initiative.

Why care who is active and who is passive?

I think the lack of topics is because you didn't come into her life.

You can ask her out to play, chat, watch movies, go shopping, and cultivate feelings when you have time.

It's impossible to have no interest, it must be that you haven't found that interest, so if you don't, then you can create an interest, do something with her that you don't hate doing, and find each other's topics from it, I don't know if you can understand what I'm saying.

For example, you can go to sing together, watch movies, go shopping, travel, etc., and you will always find something that you like and don't hate her

If it doesn't work anymore, then.

If her eyes are also cold, then it's better not to talk to her for the time being.

If the eyes are still very gentle, just be familiar with them.

She has mental illness caused by depression In addition, it is estimated that there are no people around her who understand her, so she can only be indifferent, and she has suffered the least injury.

1. Don't be too enthusiastic.

Cold girls are generally not good at getting along with people, and they enjoy their space very much, and they are not afraid of loneliness, so if you want to pursue this type of girl, don't be too enthusiastic, because if you are too enthusiastic, it is likely to make girls feel very unnatural and uncomfortable.

If you want to pursue this kind of girl, you have to cater to the girl's personality and attitude, and when you contact her, you should be natural and plain, and don't seem too excited, because this will only make the girl feel a lot of pressure and want to escape from you.

2. Proper care.

Cold girls are generally very insecure, so you have to give this kind of girl a certain amount of warmth and love, to have proper care for this kind of girl, but don't overdo it, because this kind of girl knows how to protect herself, if you care too much, it will be easy to make this kind of girl more vigilant, thinking that you are a person with a purpose, so appropriate care can be fine, slowly warm her heart.

Pay more attention to some details on the top of things, show your own considerate and gentle side, so that the girl is slowly moved by you, when the girl has become accustomed to your existence, and feels the warmth you give, she will slowly accept you.

3. Persistence. Girls who pursue high coldness must persevere to the end, because cold girls are slower to heat, when you first come into contact, maybe she is not cold to you, but as long as you persist for a long time, you will be able to enter her heart one day.

Because this kind of girl is actually very eager for love and warmth, but she is afraid of being hurt, so she will use coldness to protect herself at the beginning, as long as you persist in being good to her, the girl will find your sincerity. But if you fish for three days and dry your nets for two days, this kind of girl will not want to pay attention to you, so it is very important to persevere.

4. Don't be in a hurry.

Many straight men think that if they like someone, they have to give her all the things that are good for her, in fact, such straight men often don't know that girls don't like this way of showing love.

Sometimes emotional things need to come slowly, there is a good saying called a trickle of water, if you like a person, show a little bit every day, and love her a little more every day, and slowly the relationship between two people will be stable.

5. Don't be in a hurry.

Many straight men think that if they like someone, they have to give her all the things that are good for her, in fact, such straight men often don't know that girls don't like this way of showing love.

Sometimes emotional things need to come slowly, there is a good saying called a trickle of water, if you like a person, show a little bit every day, and love her a little more every day, and slowly the relationship between two people will be stable.

A cold girl is either too defensive or too individual, she is defensive, gives a sense of security, and is too personality to follow her,.

She knows you spoil her, so she loses her temper. The more you coax her, the more angry she becomes, so that she thinks that you have turned her into a princess, and she looks angry on the outside, but she is beautiful on the inside. Such a girl is simple-minded and easy to get along with.

Don't you feel like you're already a level lower? Since she is impatient, then don't hit ** in that time period, blindly giving and relying on will make her humble in the relationship.

If you love, love deeply; Bai does not love, please leave. Every girl has a cold face, they have a noble soul; And for nobility, they also have their own different ways of expression. Maybe she just wants more care and care from you, she seems unreasonable, but only for you, only for the people she loves.

So, in front of girls, try to maintain their pride, their self-esteem, because that is their truest side.

What's the matter....Do you have to have a conflict every night? Have you ever considered this? ...Girls have nothing to do to chat with you just to find unhappiness?

I don't think she would give herself that. I just have a little temper. The more you coax her, the more angry she becomes, so that she feels that you have turned her into a !!

You bai

The reason for the conflict is the key....Go slowly.

du understands her....Understand zhi she....Next time, try to avoid similar topics as much as possible....Spoil her as she should be....But there must also be a degree....If you go too far, it becomes a habit. I think Gao Leng actually talked about a layer of protective armor, as long as you walked into his heart, he will remove this layer of protection, and then treat you sincerely...

You don't understand women....This girl can't be said to be cold...The key points are....Why things....Do you have to have a conflict every night? Have you ever considered this? ...Girls have nothing to do to chat with you just to find unhappiness? I don't think she's going to be so boring for herself...

How to get along with a cold female bai child every time I fight with the object ** is very open, but every.

The next time the night will be some small contradictions, and then she will every time.

Isn't this high coldness, this is willful childishness, the so-called high coldness is not caring about people and things that you don't care about, you don't care about not expressing your position, what you are talking about is pure self-centeredness.

Here's how to deal with a girl's indifference:

1. Be more proactive.

Many boys will also be shy and shy, so they will be more passive in the process of pursuing girls, and the reason why girls are cold to you at this time may be because you are not active enough, you are not humorous enough.

2. Want to get away with it.

In the process of boys pursuing girls, you must know how to indulge in want, that is, to snub the other party appropriately for a period of time, so that the other party can see your importance and see your heart clearly.

3. Take a step back.

In the process of pursuing, if you find that the girl is very cold to you, then you can take a step back and don't force the girl to be so tight, because you may have disturbed the other party's normal life.

Girls' favorite topics:

1. Talk about scumbags and scumbags.

Don't shy away from this topic, many girls like to talk about this topic, and many girls feel that they are experts in the identification of scumbags.

2. Talk about girls' clothes, bags, and wearing.

Because girls are very interested in this aspect, and the average girl is very concerned about dressing, bags, and has research experience.

When she talks endlessly, how good her bag is and how to match her clothes, you just listen quietly.

3. Talk about your views on others (choices with high emotional intelligence).

In fact, when chatting, talking about the third line roller, this is very topical, and everyone has a bunch of opinions. But the topic opens cautiously. <>