Read No Kind of Giving Is Taken for Granted .

The old man is an overseas Chinese in the Philippines who has traveled overseas for half his life. After several ups and downs, he returned to his hometown in fine clothes and came up with the idea of helping the world and benefiting his hometown.

So, the old man wrote letters to the principals of several schools in his hometown, hoping that each principal could provide a list of about a dozen students, and he would choose from them to be the object of his sponsorship.

His family blamed him for his ignorance, since it was a donation, why make the procedure so complicated? Wouldn't it be better to have a shortcut, such as through the "Hope Project" or the "Spring Bud Project", to get a wish cleanly?

The old man shook his head and said, "My hard-earned money is only given to those children who deserve it. "Which children are eligible for funding? Are they children from poor families, or are they excellent students or special students? No one knew the answer in the old man's heart.

The list soon reached the old man. The old man asked his family to buy a lot of books, such as "The Collected Poems of Tagore", "The Collected Poems of Gibran", "One Hundred Thousand Whys", etc., which were packaged in different categories and ready to be sent to the children on the list. The family looked at each other:

Isn't such a modest gift too shabby? Everyone concluded that there was a "** house" in the book. But I couldn't find the banknotes in the book.

It's just that on the first page of the book, I saw the old man's handwriting: it was given to a student with excellent character and learning. The check-in office is the address, name, ** and e-mail address of the elderly.

The family was puzzled, but they didn't want to go against the old man's wishes, so they had to send the books one by one for him.

The sunset came and went in a hurry, and the old man often looked at the ** in a daze, and sighed inexplicably. From the withering of yellow leaves to the flying snow, no one can guess what happened to the old man.

Happy New Year to you! Unexpectedly, the old man shouted excitedly: "There is an echo, there is an echo, and I finally found a child who can be sponsored."

The family suddenly realized. Finally understood the reason why the old man was depressed these days, and the book he sent turned out to be a "touchstone", and only those who were grateful would be eligible for his funding.

The old man said: The land will become a desert if it loses moisture and moisture, and people's hearts will become barren if they are not grateful for moisture, and a person who is not grateful is destined to be an indifferent and selfish person. If you don't know how to care for others, even if you give him sunshine, you will not radiate your own warmth in the future, and you don't deserve the love of others.

Come to think of it, no kind of giving is taken for granted, nothing must be given; Therefore, there is no kind of receiving that can be indifferent to the heartfelt and appreciative, and all should be grateful. A flower will be bright and charming for a drop of rain and dew, and a grass will be swaying because of a wisp of spring breeze; A lake of water will also be rippling because of a fallen leaf, and one heart should be another caring heart quietly blooming with a grateful smile.

It means learning to be grateful, reminding each of us to have a grateful heart, to be more grateful and to remember those who have been kind to us but do not reciprocate.

Answer everyone.

Know how to reciprocate, and the reward is not necessarily material, but more spiritual and emotional. Giving is beautiful, and giving back is even more important; The reward is sweet, and the person who knows how to give back is even more beautiful.

Gratitude is a kind of giving back to relatives and friends. It is a quality that a person needs to have. Be grateful for the favors given by others. With a sincere heart, give back and thank others.

It means that there is no such thing as getting something for nothing.

There is a reason for the affirmation that is given to you.

Even if the pie falls from the sky and hits you.

It could also be that God has been targeting you for a long time ...

Giving is not a debt to pay, it is a matter of course. Giving must be rewarded, and of course not necessarily within the return.

may also be a return to the society. But you don't have the ability now, you can accept the ability to give later, but you don't want to repay the person who gives it, and you don't want to repay the society, you just take it for granted what others give, which will make the capable giver chill, so that this society has no temperature and no civilization.

All people are equal, it is impossible for one party to continue to give, and the other party does not pay anything for it. Any kind of good has a purpose, and this purpose is also good and bad, and no one is naturally born for good for you.

Because others don't have the obligation to do it, and whether others give it to you or not is to see how others do it, they all say that there is no free lunch in the world, and this is the same.

There will be no pie in the sky.

There is no such thing as a free lunch.

There is no return if there is no pay, there will be a return if there is a pay, everyone has no reason to help others, and if you pay, you will also get a return, but the way of return is different.

Nothing that is taken for granted means: no one is obligated to give unconditionally for another.

When the other person is giving, we should clearly understand his kindness and express gratitude.

A beggar.

Sitting on the floor, no one rewarded him, a young man looked at him pitiful and said, "I only have 1 yuan, you are not too little, right?" , the beggar thanked him repeatedly, saying of course he didn't like it. So the young man passed by every day and gave him 1 yuan.

After some time, the young man gave him 10 yuan a day, and the beggar was overjoyed and asked why, and the young man said, "I have been promoted and my salary has been raised, so the beggar accepted 10 yuan with peace of mind; After some time, the young man began to give 100 yuan, and the beggar was shocked, and the young man was overjoyed: "I have been promoted again, and my salary has increased a lot, and the beggar is also very happy and accepts 100 yuan."

After some time, the young man hurried by, but did not give a penny, and the beggar was very annoyed, and grabbed him and asked why, to which the young man replied in frustration: "I am now married, and my salary is not enough." The beggar was furious and slapped him in the face:

You actually took the money you gave me to raise a woman? 」。

Whenever I feel disappointed or angry because I didn't keep getting it, I think of this story. In fact, many things do not belong to you in the first place, they are given by others in friendship, and you should cherish it when you get it, but don't take it for granted and take everything for granted.

In the case of friendship, the essence of the relationship between friends is exchange, and when these conditions of exchange disappear, friendship will also change.

There is nothing in this world that should be given to you as a matter of course.

The meaning of this sentence is not difficult, you know what it means to take it for granted, no kind of giving is taken for granted, just like your mother raising you, it is her legal responsibility, but also for your own life, others help you, you can't take it for granted, you should be full of gratitude, don't forget the original intention.

There is no love for no reason, and there is no hate for no reason!

There is no such thing as a free lunch.

When you receive something from others, remember to repay the favor.

It can be understood that "no kind of giving is taken for granted": "for granted" can be interpreted as "it should be this way in principle". However, if we understand it at a deeper level, "giving" is really not taken for granted.

For example, people should donate for a reason, some to win a good reputation, some to burst out of kindness in their hearts, and some out of compassion for the disadvantaged ......Without these factors, donors may not be able to be talked about and taken for granted.

You can't force others to do what they don't want to do, you have to be willing.

Don't take other people's efforts for granted

Every kind of acquisition is conditional.

Gratuitous giving is love and help, and this behavior is spontaneous and voluntary; Therefore, accepting help from others should not be regarded as someone who has an obligation to help you, but should be grateful and repay. As the saying goes: helping you is human, not helping you is reasonable.

There's no such thing as a free lunch.

In other words, there is no such thing as a free lunch.

There can be two wise interpretations. First, you should be grateful for what others have given you, don't take it for granted, and repay the kindness of a drop of water. Second, society is becoming more and more urbanized, except for parents, most of the giving is behind the interests of the people, and there is no pie in the sky.

Learn to be grateful, there is no such thing as giving in this world. So, no kind of giving is taken for granted.

No one else will give you something for nothing, and no kind of receiving can be indifferent and peaceful, and the recipient should be grateful.

People have to learn to be grateful, and don't take giving for granted.

It is to let us know how to be grateful and reciprocate, and not take the efforts of others for granted.

An old Filipino overseas Chinese, who has struggled overseas for half his life, wants to save the world and help people after returning to his hometown. He wrote letters to the principals of several schools in his hometown, asking each principal to provide a list of more than a dozen students, and asked his family to buy many books.

Pack it up and send it to those students by list. Then the old man began a long wait.

The old man waited for a long time, and finally waited for a greeting card, which read: Thank you for the book you gave me, although I don't know you, I will remember you. The old man smiled with relief, "I have finally found a child worthy of sponsorship."

The old man said: "I don't know how to care for others, even if I give him sunshine, I will not radiate my own warmth in the future, and I don't deserve the love of others." "It turns out that the books sent out are a touchstone, and only the grateful person is eligible for the old man's funding.

Yes, no giving is taken for granted, nothing is necessary and deserved, and no one can be indifferent to what others give. Every kind of giving wants to be rewarded, and those who don't know how to reciprocate certainly don't deserve help from others. "Invest in peach and plum, repay it with Qiong Yao", I believe everyone understands this truth, but why are so many people facing others.

Caring about helping indifferent, even crossing the river and demolishing the bridge?

In recent years, some college students from poor families in Hubei Province have not taken the initiative to express their gratitude to the donors for a year after receiving charitable donations, so the donors have been chilled and have cancelled their funding. I have a girlfriend, very rich, who sponsors several poor students to complete their studies, but she doesn't receive anything in return, not even a letter of thanks, one of them is her distant relative, every time I see her turn around from afar, she avoids it. Speaking of these things, his girlfriend was also very emotional, feeling that her money was really not worth it.

I understand my girlfriend's feelings, although I haven't sponsored anyone, but I have spent too much effort on students to count, and I have met students who have seen me from afar and turned away, and every time I feel very distressed. Indeed, affection is mutual, and every giving wants to be reciprocated, even between the purest and most sincere teacher and student, even between parents and children whose blood is thicker than water, and even more so between the donor and the donee who have never known each other.

A grass will be verdant for a drizzle, a cloud will be swaying for a breeze, a butterfly will dance for a flower, and a heart will be full of gratitude for another caring heart.

Because, no kind of giving is taken for granted.

In the story, the old man is an overseas Chinese in the Philippines who has struggled overseas for half his life. After several ups and downs, he returned to his hometown in fine clothes and came up with the idea of helping the world and benefiting Zili. So, the old man wrote letters to the principals of several schools in his hometown, hoping that each principal could provide a list of about a dozen students, so that he could determine the candidates to be funded.

The family blamed him for his ignorance, and finally found a child worthy of his help, highlighting the theme of the article, no kind of giving is taken for granted, nothing is necessary and deserved;

Therefore, there is no kind of receiving that can be indifferent and peaceful, and we should be grateful. A flower will be bright and charming for a drop of rain and dew, a grass will be swaying because of a wisp of spring breeze, a lake will be rippling because of a fallen leaf, and a heart should be full of gratitude for another caring heart.

An elderly Filipino Chinese wants to sponsor some students, and the students he wants to sponsor are grateful. Finally, before the New Year, the old man received a greeting card from a student, and this is the student that the old man wants to sponsor! We need to be grateful.

The old man uses books to test the child, because only the grateful person will be helped by the old man.

1.The old man said: "My hard-earned money is given only to those children who deserve it. In the eyes of the elderly, which children deserve to be funded?

A: Only grateful people are eligible for his grant.

2.understand the meaning of the following words in context;

Everyone concluded that there was a "**house" in the book (**house?). ）

A:"**House"It is the elderly's own funding method.

The book he sent turned out to be a "touchstone" ("touchstone" means?). ）

Answer: Touchstone"Test the guiding stones that children should be helped with.

3.The first paragraph said: The old man often looked at the ** in a daze, and sighed inexplicably. From the withering of yellow leaves to the flying snow, no one can guess what happened to the old man. Describe the mental activity of the old man at this time.

A: Isn't there one of these children who I imagined, and how can there not be one to be grateful? Wouldn't you be grateful for a book?

4. The fifth paragraph of the selected text "The place where the payment is made is the address, name, ** and e-mail address of the elderly. "What does it follow?

Answer: The old man sighed and sent greeting cards to the child.

5.In connection with the theme of the article, talk about the meaning of "even if you give him sunshine, you will not radiate your own warmth in the future".

A:If you don't have gratitude in your heart, you won't be able to contribute anything to society in the future, even if you make great achievements.

5.Combined with the topic: No kind of giving is taken for granted, in connection with reality, talk about your understanding of this sentence.

Answer: On the road of life growth, we should be grateful to all those who give us love. "No kind of giving is taken for granted", including one's own parents; The love given by parents does not ask for anything in return, but we can't take it for granted, the good of our parents, the love of our parents, should always be kept in our hearts.