My girl is very well fed, except for the food she doesn t like, the rest is what she loves to eat

"Playing and Singing Little Skewers" - Dai Erji, NetEase Cloud has it, and other platforms don't know.

Or the rich girl is more promising.

Because the rich girls are exposed to more advanced things, and the things they see are also relatively high-level, which the poor do not understand. But it is not excluded that some poor girls have made their future bright through their own efforts.

Of course, there is also the spiritual level, the vision, the rich and the poor are very different.

Rich girls are more promising, because she is no longer attractive to those actual objects, at least she can resist the attraction, after all, you have to know that in this materialistic society, many girls are actually lost in the material society, so enriching them is to be able to enhance their resistance, and to be able to recognize the true face of this society in advance, so that it is not easy to be confused by themselves and fall into the trap, which is a very critical salvation.

So there is no doubt that rich girls have a future, they know more and know more, they have more opinions than those poor girls, and they are more capable of dealing with more things, and this is a very important difference.

Personally, I think the saying "poor raise children, rich raise daughters" is quite reasonable.

Because the daughter who is rich is more confident, more optimistic, and mentally more sound, she will not be easily bent or betrayed by a little money. Confident girls are naturally more promising.

Of course, this can only be said to be a higher relative probability, and there are many rich girls who are high-flying and selfish, and there are no absolutes in everything.

Poor and rich.

A girl's future growth cannot be measured by the family economy, and of course, it is not difficult to be financially prosperous.

But poor girls are in financial difficulty.

Where there's a will there's a way.

Able to overcome many difficulties.

Ultimately, the ideal is reached.

Secondly, family upbringing is also very important.

A good tutor lets the child know how to address people.

How to be a person, etc.

As the saying goes: the rich raise mules and horses and the poor raise children.

There have been many poor boys and celebrities in history.

I think that a girl who is poorer has a better future because she has experienced all kinds of hardships in life and understands the hardships of life.

That's because girls from poor families know that if they don't work hard to earn money, they will only get poorer and poorer, and only by working hard to earn money can they slowly get rich, so they don't expect the world to drop pies, because pies really won't fall from the sky, there is no savior in the world, only save yourself! However, you are different, maybe you were born in a wealthy family, you have no worries about food and clothing, even if you don't have a job, your parents can raise you, you don't have a crisis, you don't have a sense of crisis, so naturally there is no pressure to survive. Even if you squat at home, you don't have to worry about food and clothing, so you don't want to go out, and you are willing to be a gnawing old man!

That's where you grieve. That's why it's often said that the children of the poor are in charge of the house early! Because people know that it is not easy for their parents to earn money, they have finally raised themselves, and now that they have the ability to share their worries for their parents, they work harder to earn money, and they don't want their parents to be old and tired because they can't earn money.

You may have been pampered by your parents since childhood. I have never experienced the taste of lack of money. And you may not be short of money to spend.

Rich and poor are not only financial, but also spiritual. It is the spirit of not being afraid of hardship and working hard to earn money. And what you lack is that spirit.

In the eyes of your parents, you may still be a child. To put it mildly, you are nothing without your parents.

Raising a rich daughter can improve the girl's temperament and vision, so that a piece of candy will not be deceived by others, which is good for the girl's future work and life.

Which is more promising, the poor girl or the rich girl, it must be the rich girl who is more promising. The so-called affluent girl refers to spiritual enrichment, not material affluence. Therefore, rich girls are more noble and generous in spirit, and they are more like ladies.

They know more about self-esteem and self-reliance. They don't rely too much on other people, both mentally and materially. It is also relaxed in dealing with people.

In short, a rich girl will exude a charming temperament.

Although it is now said that women can hold up half the sky. But it is undeniable that a woman is still in a relatively weak position, even if she has a strong personality, but her heart still desires to be loved ( °

Poor girls, such as little girls in the countryside, they have to bear the burden of the family when they are very young, they do not go to school or only have a diploma such as primary school, and then they help at home, and when they are a little older, they go out to work, such girls honestly do not have much future when they grow up, of course, this is also caused by family reasons, and the social gap is so big.

But if a girl is rich, whether it is food, clothing or use, the most important thing is to be knowledgeable and well-informed, so that she will not be easily deceived and can perfectly control her life.

As for whether to be poor or rich, we should first understand what it means. For the poor and rich in education, it is not only about enjoying the poor life with extreme luxury or cutting back on food and clothing, but also more spiritually.

Spiritual enrichment should be valued by every parent. Let poor children know the beauty of the world and the hope of life, and take their children out to see and learn more, cultivate more hobbies, be optimistic, and love life. Let wealthy children know that in addition to money can solve many things, they must also understand the kindness of the world, the principle of living in the world, do not evade in the face of difficulties, and dare to assume their own responsibilities.

Although it is said that "boys should be poor, and girls should be rich", many families do not do this according to this statement. I think that a poor girl or a rich girl, this is the concept of parents, the family conditions are good, they must want their children to have everything, but the family conditions are not good, although some luxury things can not meet the children, but they will not treat the children badly, or will give the children a good childhood and future. 

I think the difference between a poor girl and a rich girl is that they have a different attitude towards people.

First of all, let's talk about poor girls.,I think poor people just say that they won't live too luxuriously.,It's not that what you want will be given to you.。 I think that poor girls can cultivate children's good ideas from an early age, such as saving and saving, they will know from an early age that food is hard to come by, and they will not waste food; They know that it is not easy for their parents to make money, and they will pick what they need to buy it, and they will not waste money to buy a bunch of things they don't need; They will be very respectful of people, will not shout, and have no manners; I also think a little more about ...... when doing things

Secondly, let's talk about rich girls, I think that children who are rich will develop a "princess disease", they are very picky about everything, and they have to use everything well, if they use inferior things, they will get angry; Their living conditions are too good since childhood, so they will not develop good living habits; They don't want to listen to other people's opinions, they feel that what they say is right, and others will listen to them; When living with others, you will be self-centered and will not think about others; In terms of doing things, the efficiency is not high, and I will feel that others are not as good as myself, but in fact I have no ability ......

I think the gap between rich girls and poor girls is really big, and I still recommend that parents go to poverty, otherwise parents will have to pay the price for their current behavior sooner or later.

You have an obligation to support your wife's parents, please note that it is an obligation! In other words, Chinese law stipulates that this is your obligation as a Chinese citizen, and there is no condition to talk about it. It is legitimate for her to send money to her parents, and you have no right to interfere.

Do you mean that men are superior to women? Should a man's parents be respected, and a woman's parents should die? Was your grandfather strangled to death by your father?

To popularize it to you, men's chromosomes are shorter than women's, and there is no superiority in physiology, and the same is true in law. Please think about it, your parents didn't give you a head to use as an ornament.

The law does not stipulate that a son-in-law supports his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and a daughter-in-law supports her in-laws, but only an auxiliary role. Secondly, if your wife is honoring your parents, you should indeed honor her parents. In the end, you are a husband and wife, and I think you should discuss it with each other when you use the money.

How can you say that you are an unfilial son, China is a nation of courtesy and filial piety, you should reflect on it thoroughly, and do not forget the nurturing grace of your parents.

It is best to use all the gift money to buy things for the sake of the children's life, but if her parents accept it all, then it is no different from selling their daughter. However, she is the only child of her parents, and if you don't support her, isn't it the same as selfishly hiding money?

Is it really good for you to be like this It's not nice to say that your parents are human and his parents are also human Both are only children I am also an only child But I never had such an idea.

I despise a man like you, aren't my wife's parents my parents, don't you call my parents, I want to buy your wife for a lifetime with a little gift money, it's still not a loss, I'm a dog man.

The old man worked hard to raise your wife, and handed over their favorite baby to you for your wife's happiness, the gift money is just traditional etiquette, you TM is not the wife you bought, what is Nima, I don't know filial piety, and Nima doesn't let your wife send them money, your wife's money is related to Nima's woolen thread?! A man with no conscience, no filial piety, and no love.

Is the grace of the adopted daughter measured in gift money? You have to think differently, if you had a daughter, you wouldn't think that way in the future.

You are too selfish, how can a person be good to your parents if they don't support the people who support their own parents. If there are several children who can still share it, having a son must be most of the responsibility for him, since you choose an only child, you must be prepared for this.

What are you owing, people worked hard to raise her, you don't have children yet, right? When you have children in the future, you will know the hard work of being a parent, so what can you buy with that little gift money? They won't all be returned to you yet.

Is your wife blind? What do you like? I don't know how your parents educated you, at first glance, you are a social scum, incompetent, and disrespectful to the elderly. In the future, your child will be even more aggressive to you, because karma will be rewarded!

Actually, you don't support her parents, I think it's okay, because you have nothing to do with her parents, it's just that their daughter has become your wife, and their grandson has become your child, maybe you are a selfish person, but it is better to say that you don't love your wife, you won't love what she loves. But I'm confused, you are not good to her parents, why should you stop your wife from being good to her own parents? Even if she marries you, it doesn't mean that she doesn't even have the freedom to honor her parents!

It depends on what your wife's parents do to you, my wife is also an only child, and his parents are very picky, and they also want my bride price and my children to share half of their family. You have to ask for everything for me, you want this and that, give me a face. After getting engaged, my mother broke her leg and didn't ask a word of concern, and told her daughter not to come to my house to help.

My family paid for my wife's change of mouth, and the 30,000 yuan for buying clothes was also taken away by her mother. If I don't pull out a dime, my wife still wants me to buy four rooms and live together after all, do you want my parents to take out all the money to support her parents? She was still deducted from her salary of about 1w a month two years ago.

Anyway, I barely talk to my parents except teaching them now, and I won't be like them when I'm old, anyway, that's what I think. If it's a big deal, get divorced and get out.

Your wife is raising her parents, won't it be too much for you to stop it......What would you think if you were to send money to your parents and your wife stopped you?

If you imagine that you have a daughter again, what will you do when you are old?

I wanted to cross you to become an immortal, but you crossed into a human - we are in the season of falling flowers. It's people. Without three heads and six arms, you can't be perfect, you can laugh, you can cry, you will be sad, you will laugh crazy.

I can't see the lotus flowers blooming all over, and I can't read the wordless Sanskrit scriptures. Not a fairy, not a god. ——The season of falling flowers is another time.

Nowadays, more and more rural people can't marry a daughter-in-law, in addition to many young girls, who are unwilling to live in the countryside all their lives and then go to the big city to work, the bride price is also one of the reasons why many rural people can't marry a daughter-in-law.

The reason why girls go to work in big cities is simple

I once knew a girl, she said that the reason why she came to the big city to work was mainly because she was unwilling to stay in the countryside for the rest of her life, she said that in the countryside at night, there are no street lights in some places, and it is not like the big city, when the neon lights flicker. Moreover, although the living conditions in the rural areas have improved a lot, the quality of life is still not as good as that in the cities.

Even if you can choose to get married and have children in the countryside, but for the sake of the next generation, you will work hard to get out of the countryside, after all, which girl does not have a princess dream, no one wants to plant for a lifetime, and women love beauty, and work every day in addition to getting old faster, ** will also be particularly rough.

The bride price money is getting more and more

Colleague Xiao Wang said that in their hometown, now the bride price money has made themselves daunting, because there are fewer and fewer girls in the countryside now, many families will raise the bride price money when marrying their daughters, although the man is not willing to give so much, but you don't want to pay this money, some are coming up with it. And it's okay not to give so much bride price money, you can go to the city to buy a house, and then the loan for the house or something is borne by the parents, so that many families would rather spend more dowry money than choose to buy a house.

The girl's family also said that the reason why they want so much is mainly because they want their daughter's life after marriage, after all, there are many conflicts in marriage at present, and no one can guarantee what will happen in the future. And with the guarantee of dowry money, the man will also work hard. In fact, the woman will not keep the dowry money for herself, but in the years after her daughter's marriage, if she feels that the young man is completely stable, she will take the money in her daughter's name.