What should I do? It s complicated.

Women are naturally suspicious creatures, and they love to wonder if a man's indifference to them is whether he doesn't love himself enough. I always hesitate and don't know how to make up my mind to do something.

If a man has a desire to conquer, maybe he thinks that you are already his girlfriend and there is nothing to worry about, and the previous enthusiasm has diminished a little, if you want to try to stay on your own for a while, maybe it is a good idea, you can tell him that you have something to do, try to minimize your time together, and make him feel that he is no longer the whole of your life. Maybe he'll come back and be enthusiastic about you.

Bai Yang (a writer in Taiwan) once said that when it comes to men, you should understand him and don't love him, because men are all beasts. Because the information you provided is a lot untrue and vague, how old are you? It feels like you're still in school, why should you take the initiative if he ignores you?

Whether it is a man or a woman, I think they are all equal in front of feelings, unequal feelings will not be happy, try not to contact first, if he really cares about you, he will definitely show something, if you don't care about you, you just lose someone who doesn't love you, and it is likely to get someone who loves you.

Love things can't be said clearly, if you really like him, it doesn't matter if you confess, but you have to think carefully, otherwise you will be hurt, and you confess to him, it's a bit bad, you are a girl after all, so the boy will feel that you are not real, or wait for him to confess to you, he really likes it, and he will think of you all the time. You'd better not deliver it to your door.

You can try to learn from him......is also lukewarm to him, not near or far, if he is in a hurry, then he may still have feelings for you, if he is still the same, then give up, otherwise he will regret ......

If you use the positive meaning of the word to understand:

Simple things are complicated to do, that is, to do the work carefully, to think thoughtfully, to think about simple problems comprehensively and deeply, so that there are no mistakes, no matter what kind of problems encountered, have already thought of solutions in advance, etc.

Complex things are simple to do, that is, the original complex and changeable things are difficult to straighten out, difficult to decide, and difficult to solve, but we must distinguish the priorities, distinguish the pros and cons, and analyze the complex things layer by layer, so that he becomes organized, so as to grasp the key points and grasp the main problems, so that the original complex problems become clear and transparent, organized, and the priorities are clear, and things are simple.

If you understand it in the opposite sense:

Simple things are complicated to do, that is, things that were originally very simple, because the person doing the work thinks too much and thinks about them, but things become complicated; Or maybe it's because the person who does it thinks too little, doesn't recognize the problem, takes a detour, and complicates things instead.

Complex things are done simply, that is, things that need to be handled carefully and in detail are only done roughly and sloppily due to the reasons of the person in charge, which will often cause accidents.

Hope it helps!

Complex things, simple to do; If you are in a hurry, do it slowly. Conform to the law of change, how can it not be unreasonable? Writer Yang Daxia said that doing things lies in cultivating the mind.

If you understand positively: simple things are complicated to do, that is, to do the work carefully, to think thoughtfully, to think about simple problems comprehensively and deeply, so that there are no mistakes, no matter what kind of problems encountered, have been thought of in advance.

I'm more than halfway through my third book, and when I was writing it, I had a deep feeling that many things are very simple in themselves, but we don't know how, and they are very complicated.

For example, when it comes to learning, as long as you keep learning, you can do it. In the process of learning, while learning, review and adjust, there is no bad learning. Therefore, any discussion about learning skills and learning experiences, after you start learning, you will gradually understand that you don't need to be taught by others.

Everyone has a head around their neck, and they will figure it out.

But what you see in the market is that a lot of people like to figure out what to expect on a journey before they even start. He will have too many "expectations", and then he will prepare "solutions" for "expectations", but what he does not do is the action of "continuous learning".

In this way, learning this is a very simple thing in itself, but it is complicated. It's like when you stay in the base game of the chain, the flies and mosquitoes are coming, and once you run, not only will there be wind, but the flies and mosquitoes will not easily get into trouble.

When you were born, would you have all kinds of life blueprints and plans in your mother's womb? You won't, you're just going to kick mom in the stomach and smack to the ground. When you grew up, did you ever think about what exactly you want to live in this life?

It's good to study now, but you want to be able to see every problem on the road accurately before you start learning, and you also hope that you don't take detours and don't hit a wall. Why are you so ordinary, yet so confident?

This is actually perfectionism. Perfectionism and not learning are good brothers, if you don't study, don't research, don't understand reality, you will think blindly, and perfectionism will appear. Perfectionism is essentially overestimation, leftism, thinking that you can do it, and ignoring reality.

But the most interesting thing about this world is that any of your ideas, whether right or wrong, will be satisfied by people, because it is easier to make money by satisfying your ideas than by correcting your ideas.

Don't you want to know very specific study methods and tips? Well, I'll teach you, although you probably don't really need to.

Don't you want to know what to do if this problem arises in your studies? Okay, I'll write to you, although you may not be able to touch it at all at this stage, and when you do, you can handle it yourself.

So have you ever noticed that the scary thing is that no matter what you think, you can be right, because there will always be people in this world who cater to you. There are so many people who want to make money, they are drilling other people's ideas, no matter what kind of idea, as long as there are many people who think like this, they will use it to create opportunities to make money. So whether it caters to you, whether the result is good or bad, then you can only use your own destiny to live, and there is no turning back.

Please think about it, in life and study, what were originally simple things, but they were suddenly complicated?

If you don't make complicated things, how can you make money!